Richy4:



You have been watching too much porn buddy...
Does that thing really exist? I mean I understand that sometimes partners do some bedroom role play like call 'me daddy'/ playing the stripper or a nurse/ cops in the bedroom to spice their sex life... but how can a real human in his/her right mind accept to be humiliated or abused?

PoliteActivist:


Well, the below is from New York Times, so you know it is true. Then their are those who worship feet, love smelling fart, even eating shit. Humans are complex

Richy4:


I am speechless buddy... Indeed humans are complex being... But don't always rely or bank on New York Times based on their publications... They publish fake stories sometimes..

PoliteActivist:


Well, the Times is regarded as the Newspaper of Record. They have A LOT to lose by publishing non-factual or incorrect info, unlike, say, the Nigerian Guardian!

You can google New York Times and fake news and publications.. you might just be surprised

Richy4:


You can google New York Times and fake news and publications.. you might just be surprised

Richy4:



You have been watching too much porn buddy...
Does that thing really exist? I mean I understand that sometimes partners do some bedroom role play like call 'me daddy'/ playing the stripper or a nurse/ cops in the bedroom to spice their sex life... but how can a real human in his/her right mind accept to be humiliated or abused?

Mindlog:


He is absolutely right as Dominatrix is real as it falls within sadomasochism, you don't want to hear stuffs nor have an inkling what some Psychiatrists deal with on a daily basis when it comes to sexuality.

Your profession must be really exciting... Listening to parental guidance is advised kind of stories and getting paid

Saintmary:



Indeed this trend is becoming annoying.

It's becoming common for cases of domestic violence to keep cropping up on social media, and it's becoming a pesky distraction I no longer want to be bothered with.

pocohantas:


Same here. E good say OP and his unending topics na man. If say na woman, they’ll say he wants to teach the battered wife feminism. Make she dey there.

begoniaa:
So you don finally marry?

PoliteActivist:


Who is manipulating whom? They are not in some African country. They both KNOW that as soon as she opens her mouth he'd be in jail, then deported. What tremendous power that gives her over him. Manipulate a man into such a position and you have him by the balls!

RoyalBlu:


... "this lady asked me if it is normal for Nigerian men to beat their wives"

I drew my line of thought from the above statement the op made actually.

The man would have been making her feel that's how it's supposed to be, given her question?

sisisioge:
All these low intelligent oyinbos should stop disturbing people's peace jare. Even if it is in the guy's culture to batter his wife, is it now in the wife's culture to accept it? Abeg! She should swerve! Some women are just destined to die in the hands of men. Whew!