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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by occfx: 4:22pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Don't be surprised she knows it's not your child. One day she will break the news for you. What you should do now is to try and have your own child and take the first as adopted son. When they grow up you tell them. Again, make sure she is not seeing the other father. That will be the worst thing that will happen to you.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Oblongata: 4:22pm On Oct 26, 2022
You better tell us your name as well as your wife’s name here because you are going to make many married women on this forum very uneasy with their husband for the next couple of days…

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by lolu2019: 4:23pm On Oct 26, 2022
FalseProphet1:
Women are the only creatures on this planet who can kneel down, cry their eyes out and still be lying to you. Know this and know peace.

This I have seen.
what of that Bayelsa kidnapper.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Angelfrost(m): 4:23pm On Oct 26, 2022
I knew this gist was fake the moment you said you didn't confront her... grin grin grin


Oga, come up with better scripts!

Still, if most married men of today start doing DNA tests for all their kids, the civil war that will break out in Nigeria will be historical! lipsrsealed

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by TUANKU(m): 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?
Send that snake away. She knows all along the kid is not yours but she put it on you, one day the real father will come for his ba.stard. She can/will bite you eventually. Don't listen to woke people.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Ijaya123: 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Continue to raise a bastard as a child till the real father comes around.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Manson1(m): 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022
So why did you come here to wail... Shift abeg...

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Nonexisting1: 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022
I hate simps especially confused ones. You already made a decision to be the woman of the house, what else do you want us to advise you on? Oga, get the fucck out of here.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by SmileDance(f): 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022
Has it ever occured to you that the child might have been swapped from the hospital

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Firstcitizen: 4:25pm On Oct 26, 2022
advanceDNA:


I read a story of a man that did DNA test but never told the wife he knew the first child wasnt his till he died......but she found out he knew from his will because he ddnt give the wife and the first born any part of his money and properties.

Where is he buried so we can erect a statue on his grave? RIP to the guyman cheesy
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by riverbird: 4:25pm On Oct 26, 2022
You have made your decision already and you are here still asking us questions , God knows I won't allow that LovePeddler one more night in my house.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by imagrg(m): 4:25pm On Oct 26, 2022
Best advice ever!
Don't divorce her but let her know you know the truth.
My friend, do you know how many men father the children that are not theirs in the country? Please don't ever let the child know about it. Some people after all, adopt children.
Above everything, please, don't in anyway divorce your wife or hurt her.
Good wives are difficult to find.
But by the way, is that your only child?
general111:
Calm down...
One day this thing will hunt you if you dont deal with it now.
Tell her peacefully and try to let her know that you still love her and would love this to be a secret between both of you..
Once she hears that you want to make it a family secret, she will get soft and begin to confess.
Then you can properly forgive her and move on...

Besides, i think she has really been good to you, else this would have been a good reason to leave her.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by GistFullGround: 4:26pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

Mumu, tell her!
What will she do? Abi you dey craze?

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Maynman: 4:26pm On Oct 26, 2022
esere826:


Marriage is a life long relationship, not just love in tokyo.
If currently, you're enjoying it, then go on.

But do call her aside and tell her the result.
It's really not a thing to be angry about. If she asks for forgiveness, that is no problem. You can and will forgive, but you are not God.

Make her know that you are alright today, but you don't know how tomorrow will be. You will continue to pray that God gives you the needed grace and strength not to let it not worry you.

No one asides the two of you need to know about it. If you're thinking of inheritance for your kids, raise all of them to be equal and to expect equal inheritance
If she can do it within 5 years of marriage, why can’t she do it again?
Your legally married wife is having unprotected sex till the extent of getting pregnant.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Mrkumareze(m): 4:27pm On Oct 26, 2022
Your mistake is going for the DNA. They are certain things we ought not to know or see for our mental health. Now u are more worried than ever.

Better you keep it to yourself since you aren't ready to do away with your wife. Further finding ll cause you more pains... just assume the DNA result is wrong, hold on that..

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Fiscus105(m): 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2022
Jozilinn:
Na you Sabi that one oh,you are even proud to say it that your child is been trained by someone else abi ,guy if you love it so much why not allow your wife to go fucking around and having people's kids for you...dey there dey form senior man cos your sperm swim.well,tueh to you maybe you aren't a man after all cos no real man is gonna let another man sweat and hustle for his baby while he's still alive ,do you know the pain a father feels for his child haba ...we must stop encouraging all this abeg , there are women here,even wives reading comments,if you're encouraging this...just imagine any of your sibling isn't yours won't to you hate your mum,guy go and take your child from that bae be a man chaii!!!.
The only excuse for not taking your child is if you are now married shocked shocked cool you sound callous to me though.



Ur ignorant is not curable, I have sex with a lady and after a week interval she said I'm the one responsible......if it's u ,u will take that pregnancy, .......check DNA of ur children if u married , I doubt any of children u are claiming actually belong to you.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Tannhauser(m): 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2022
grin

So sorry bro, but you should have thought things through before carrying out the DNA test.

Funny enough it was my wife that insisted on the test for our children before it was done. She wanted to be sure the babies were not switched by crazy nurses.
grin

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

You've said everything.

Just keep living your life, but one day, gently tell your wife you know about the child not being yours.

If you can make peace afterwards, fine, but, whatever you do, the child must not suffer for it.

It's not his fault.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by meetme01: 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

You are a Man.

My advice, we all have dark secrets in life. You will still tell her in future. I can't advise when,I believe the time will come.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by debbaron2011: 4:29pm On Oct 26, 2022
My Friend i really simpathise wIth your situation. You need to confront her on this situation and if you dont do that you will regret it later in future. Mark my word.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by kingyakos: 4:30pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?


Story line from the African magic channel

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by zakkxx: 4:30pm On Oct 26, 2022
If u have not cheat on her raise your hand up! My brother tell her and let her know u have forgiven her! If not mere holding her in your mind na Hell Fire for u oo!!!
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Maynman: 4:31pm On Oct 26, 2022
zakkxx:
If u have not cheat on her raise your hand up! My brother tell her and let her know u have forgiven her! If not mere holding her in your mind na Hell Fire for u oo!!!

A man cheating and a woman cheating is 2 different things.
Talkless of the cheating leading to a baby.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Bombolistic: 4:31pm On Oct 26, 2022
If you really want to be advised, this is what I will tell you. It's better you let your wife know that you're not in any way, ready to end the marriage. Don't even bother to ask further who the father of your first child is.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by elmagnifico411(m): 4:31pm On Oct 26, 2022
You'd have to confront her at some point oh. The way u go about it would tell if there's gonna be a heated kini, or a gentle discussion which could lead to u forgiving her cos u rightly pointed out that she's a good wife.

It could be one those last time nackings women do with their ex before embarking on a marital journey thinking they're smart, but not envisaging the danger that lies ahead.

You loving continually without telling her wouldn't be easy even as u keep telling yourself that you would, but being ok inside after finding hard wouldn't be easy. If it's just a one time thing and she's been faithful afterwards, search deeply inside of u, if u can forgive and continue to lover, please do. Which ever step u take I pray God help u out.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by LordHashira: 4:33pm On Oct 26, 2022
do a maternity test before confronting her. The child might not be hers as well.

If true, pay a serious visit to the hospital where una born.

If the child is hers, confront with the dual evidence.
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by achimendy(m): 4:33pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?


Since you don't want to confront your wife and ask her, why are you now telling us. If it doesn't bother you keep shut and enjoy someone's son.

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Firstcitizen: 4:33pm On Oct 26, 2022
advanceDNA:

Keeping multiple sex patners even to the time of marriage...this generation and lack of sexual discipline na 5&6...
The next phrase from them now will be "paternity fraud does not mean she wont be a good wife" grin


or they will ask the guy if he can swear he has not cheated before. It is a reflection of what Nigerians have become. They see cheating both in business transactions and personal relationships as normal. I will rather stay single till the end than marry a Nigerian

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Freshgrace4life(f): 4:34pm On Oct 26, 2022
Abeg this story no just gel , I bet nobody go calm down for this kind thing .. cheating sef partners never calm down na a whole pikin..

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by jideaug: 4:34pm On Oct 26, 2022
Please, is anybody claiming the boy or does your wife tells you that you are not the father. Oga go on and be a responsible father
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by VULCAN(m): 4:35pm On Oct 26, 2022
You must be a preteen. It's called paternity fraud. Take time and Google it.

Durex did a survey years ago and discovered Nigerian women are the most unfaithful.

If you are a woman. Amend your ways

Prettygirl200:
Useless fake story

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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by GentlePEACE: 4:35pm On Oct 26, 2022
Meektunz:
Been married for over 5 years now and ever since my wife gave birth to my first child, I've been suspecting that it's not my child due to no sense of resemblance.

I finally did a DNA test but unfortunately the result shows that I'm not the father of my first child. No doubt my wife loves me so much and honestly she has done a lot, sacrificed alot for me.

My conscience never allowed me to end the marriage because honestly she is a good wife one could ever ask for though she has her bad sides.

Since the result came out, I never told her or confronted her because I'm very very certain that once I confront her the marriage will end cos alot will happen but everyday once I see the boy and remember, I get so angry but after some time when we are all playing as a family I will forget.

I still do everything a father could do for his son. Honestly it's not easy to forget about everything.

What do you advise me to do guys?

You are a good man. Very matured of you. Not every man can take such. I give u tiri gbosa.

My advice is that you sit your wife down and let her know how much u love her, make her understand what she did but that you've forgiven her already after u knew. Opening up to her would relief u of the burden and make her love and appreciate u the more. Shit happens, we just have to dust ourselves and move on.

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