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Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by occfx: 4:22pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: Don't be surprised she knows it's not your child. One day she will break the news for you. What you should do now is to try and have your own child and take the first as adopted son. When they grow up you tell them. Again, make sure she is not seeing the other father. That will be the worst thing that will happen to you. 6 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Oblongata: 4:22pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
You better tell us your name as well as your wife’s name here because you are going to make many married women on this forum very uneasy with their husband for the next couple of days… 4 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by lolu2019: 4:23pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
FalseProphet1:what of that Bayelsa kidnapper. 3 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Angelfrost(m): 4:23pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
I knew this gist was fake the moment you said you didn't confront her... Oga, come up with better scripts! Still, if most married men of today start doing DNA tests for all their kids, the civil war that will break out in Nigeria will be historical! 6 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by TUANKU(m): 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz:Send that snake away. She knows all along the kid is not yours but she put it on you, one day the real father will come for his ba.stard. She can/will bite you eventually. Don't listen to woke people. 2 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Ijaya123: 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: Continue to raise a bastard as a child till the real father comes around. 5 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Manson1(m): 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
So why did you come here to wail... Shift abeg... About starting your building project? See our live thread for our ongoing building construction project of a 3-bedroom bungalow in Oron, Akwa Ibom... Link in my signature |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Nonexisting1: 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
I hate simps especially confused ones. You already made a decision to be the woman of the house, what else do you want us to advise you on? Oga, get the fucck out of here. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by SmileDance(f): 4:24pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Has it ever occured to you that the child might have been swapped from the hospital 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Firstcitizen: 4:25pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
advanceDNA: Where is he buried so we can erect a statue on his grave? RIP to the guyman |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by riverbird: 4:25pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
You have made your decision already and you are here still asking us questions , God knows I won't allow that LovePeddler one more night in my house. 6 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by imagrg(m): 4:25pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Best advice ever! Don't divorce her but let her know you know the truth. My friend, do you know how many men father the children that are not theirs in the country? Please don't ever let the child know about it. Some people after all, adopt children. Above everything, please, don't in anyway divorce your wife or hurt her. Good wives are difficult to find. But by the way, is that your only child? general111: 1 Like |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by GistFullGround: 4:26pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: Mumu, tell her! What will she do? Abi you dey craze? 2 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Maynman: 4:26pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
esere826:If she can do it within 5 years of marriage, why can’t she do it again? Your legally married wife is having unprotected sex till the extent of getting pregnant. 7 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Mrkumareze(m): 4:27pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Your mistake is going for the DNA. They are certain things we ought not to know or see for our mental health. Now u are more worried than ever. Better you keep it to yourself since you aren't ready to do away with your wife. Further finding ll cause you more pains... just assume the DNA result is wrong, hold on that.. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Fiscus105(m): 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Jozilinn: Ur ignorant is not curable, I have sex with a lady and after a week interval she said I'm the one responsible......if it's u ,u will take that pregnancy, .......check DNA of ur children if u married , I doubt any of children u are claiming actually belong to you. 3 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Tannhauser(m): 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
So sorry bro, but you should have thought things through before carrying out the DNA test. Funny enough it was my wife that insisted on the test for our children before it was done. She wanted to be sure the babies were not switched by crazy nurses. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Jeezuzpick(m): 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: You've said everything. Just keep living your life, but one day, gently tell your wife you know about the child not being yours. If you can make peace afterwards, fine, but, whatever you do, the child must not suffer for it. It's not his fault. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by meetme01: 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: You are a Man. My advice, we all have dark secrets in life. You will still tell her in future. I can't advise when,I believe the time will come. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by debbaron2011: 4:29pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
My Friend i really simpathise wIth your situation. You need to confront her on this situation and if you dont do that you will regret it later in future. Mark my word. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by kingyakos: 4:30pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: Story line from the African magic channel 3 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by zakkxx: 4:30pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
If u have not cheat on her raise your hand up! My brother tell her and let her know u have forgiven her! If not mere holding her in your mind na Hell Fire for u oo!!! Meektunz: |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Maynman: 4:31pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
zakkxx: A man cheating and a woman cheating is 2 different things. Talkless of the cheating leading to a baby. 1 Like |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Bombolistic: 4:31pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
If you really want to be advised, this is what I will tell you. It's better you let your wife know that you're not in any way, ready to end the marriage. Don't even bother to ask further who the father of your first child is. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by elmagnifico411(m): 4:31pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
You'd have to confront her at some point oh. The way u go about it would tell if there's gonna be a heated kini, or a gentle discussion which could lead to u forgiving her cos u rightly pointed out that she's a good wife. It could be one those last time nackings women do with their ex before embarking on a marital journey thinking they're smart, but not envisaging the danger that lies ahead. You loving continually without telling her wouldn't be easy even as u keep telling yourself that you would, but being ok inside after finding hard wouldn't be easy. If it's just a one time thing and she's been faithful afterwards, search deeply inside of u, if u can forgive and continue to lover, please do. Which ever step u take I pray God help u out. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by LordHashira: 4:33pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
do a maternity test before confronting her. The child might not be hers as well. If true, pay a serious visit to the hospital where una born. If the child is hers, confront with the dual evidence. |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by achimendy(m): 4:33pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: Since you don't want to confront your wife and ask her, why are you now telling us. If it doesn't bother you keep shut and enjoy someone's son. 4 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Firstcitizen: 4:33pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
advanceDNA: or they will ask the guy if he can swear he has not cheated before. It is a reflection of what Nigerians have become. They see cheating both in business transactions and personal relationships as normal. I will rather stay single till the end than marry a Nigerian 1 Like |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by Freshgrace4life(f): 4:34pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Abeg this story no just gel , I bet nobody go calm down for this kind thing .. cheating sef partners never calm down na a whole pikin.. 4 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by jideaug: 4:34pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Please, is anybody claiming the boy or does your wife tells you that you are not the father. Oga go on and be a responsible father |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by VULCAN(m): 4:35pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
You must be a preteen. It's called paternity fraud. Take time and Google it. Durex did a survey years ago and discovered Nigerian women are the most unfaithful. If you are a woman. Amend your ways Prettygirl200: 5 Likes |
Re: The Aftermath Of DNA Test: My First Child Is Not Mine by GentlePEACE: 4:35pm On Oct 26, 2022 |
Meektunz: You are a good man. Very matured of you. Not every man can take such. I give u tiri gbosa. My advice is that you sit your wife down and let her know how much u love her, make her understand what she did but that you've forgiven her already after u knew. Opening up to her would relief u of the burden and make her love and appreciate u the more. Shit happens, we just have to dust ourselves and move on. 1 Like |
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