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Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by AlphaTaikun: 3:23pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
mariahAngel:@mariahAngel, How's it going? What specie is a "one eyed snake?" I've Googled the phrase and got a blank feedback? (smirk) |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by AlphaTaikun: 3:29pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33:Word! |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Modupetemmy1(f): 3:37pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
DSS1335: Pls I will implore you not to forsake her cos from your write up you really liked her, just assume she is you daughter, I understand that you feel hurt but pls for the sake of her innocence and ignorance Pls I would advice that you allow her to go back to her mother and have her child, take another help but pls after she put to bed let her mother take the child and allow her to come back and I am very sure she would have learned her lesson If you leave her In The village, she will never bounce back, her life will be so miserable The guy that got her pregnant is more matured than her so definitely he deceiced her and she also her her teenager brain wants to explore not know she is playing with fire Op biko don't abandon her as she herself did not understand what she has gotten herself into 1 Like |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by jojothaiv(m): 3:44pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
Lastpharoah33: You're quite right. Karleb: I'm glad you had to balance the hypocrisy in that comment with your reply. Beey: One of the few good heads we have here. This is commendable and I hope the OP will look into it. My hope in humanity is not lost after all. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by AlphaTaikun: 3:45pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
ecolime:Those raging body hormones are something else within that age bracket of under-25... Phew! Peer pressure on these kids too is on another level. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by ETIIKO: 3:47pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
Ganjafama: You thought is totally different |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by josite: 4:05pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
If u can help like u help ur pregnant wife and as u will.help ur pregnant daughter,please do so but if u cannot return her to.her parents These are the things that should have been.made clear to her and her parents from day one. If the guy didn't rape the girl .if it is her decision,then let her find work and begin to prepare for the birth of her child. Any girl who gets pregnant is old enough to find work to earn money to take care of herself and her baby. Congratulations all the sane it is second wife that just gave birth. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by UjuJoan2: 4:10pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
CanineOfJackal: She came into his home as a minor so he had a huge role to play in whatever she became or whatever choices she made. That makes her their responsibility. If you know you don’t want an extra child, then don’t recruit children as helps. If she were an adult, I don’t have a problem. But she’s a child and she is their responsibility. 2 Likes |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by frank155(m): 4:55pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
ceeceeuwa: So sex education will miraculously prevent you from making foolish decisions? I don't know why people think the offended and offender are dumb. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Shugargal(f): 5:06pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
Beey:Oh Kenyan? You're welcome. Ok I was talking about the recent attack, he was in a bullet proof car with his family while his domestic staff a lady was kept in same vehicle with his security men., unfortunately there was an attack, the lady would have been safe if he did the right thing, but no. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by stormborn28(m): 5:09pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
mariahAngel: That girl was on heat when that boy sama the kpekus.if not that once no go impregnate her |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Ilekokonit: 6:34pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
DSS1335: Her education does not have to end because she made a mistake of having sex at 16. Most of us on this forum also had sex as teenagers and we were not disowned by our parents. As for theboy, what if she was the one who gave the boy green light and what if she was not a virgin before she met the boy ? The boy himself is just one year older than a teenager. Your best bet is to take the girl with some elders and pay the boys family a visit to try and forge a way ahead as neither the boy nor the girls education need to stop just because they made a mistake that ALL of us made as teenagers. Try and put yourself in the shoes of the girls father and do what you would do in that case which is what is best for the girl, All the best. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Ilekokonit: 7:02pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
mariahAngel: You may be right but a LOT of teenage girls living with their own biological parents also get pregnant whilst young and a) whilst some of them have friends / boyfriends who introduce them to abortion, b) in some cases, it is the girls own parents who take her for the abortion in order to save them the family shame and more importantly for her to be able to quickly resume her education. I've seen a case that falls into the latter case above where a 16 year old girl gets pregnant for her 19 year old boyfriend whom she met when she was 15 and she was not even a virgin at 15 which is why I said earlier that she could even be the one who gave the boy green light and the person who deflowered her might even be one of the older co-tenants in your compound and the 20 year old visitor to the area is carrying the blame for a pregnancy that may be his but may equally belong to another person who is a MAN living either in your compound or around the neighborhood. Just make the girl relaxed enough to open up to you and you may find out that the person(s) to charge with statutory rape is not only the hapless 20 year old visitor to your neighborhood but a few other grown men in your neighborhood or even your very own compound especially if the girl used to run errands for young employed bachelors with or without your knowledge in return for small change. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Ilekokonit: 7:31pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
HEBEI: I've seen a similar case where a girl of 16 got pregnant for her 19 year old boyfriend she met when she was 15 and she was not even a virgin at 15 when she met the boy. This does not say the boy is not responsible for the belle but before you throw the 20 year old hapless boy in jail for statutory rape, ask yourself what if he was your own son and what IF a completely different MAN in your neighborhood or your compound is responsible for the pregnancy. Ask the girl to open up FULLY to you with no fear of reprisals. And whilst you are at it, take away her smart phone and give her a dumb phone that has a little bit of credit but no internet functionality to reduce her online activities. Some married women studied whilst heavily pregnant and sat for and passed professional exams whilst heavily pregnant and so this girls education does not have to stop as she still has the SAME 24 hours every human on earth has in 1 day and she can read her textbooks at home and prepare for exams by home study. At least that will discipline and focus her mind. Btw sending her back to the village to live with her mum will derail her future as the girl needs your positive influence around her now more than ever. Treat her like you would treat your own daughter. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by EndSARS77: 7:37pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
I know very few people will likely read this comment because it's down down down here, with so many up there. That 20 year old boy/man na bad guy sha. To get that girl, to do that kind of thing is not that easy. And he has nothing doing (no job)... I wonder how he was able to convince her? I was thinking he used money to confuse her but he has nothing doing. It makes me doubt the authenticity of this story |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Eyanbahose: 8:25pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
DSS1335:My Guy.. I totally understand your plight and every action you want to take is very valid. I might not know how it feels cos you're the one wearing this shoes. However, can you please temper justice with mercy on the grounds of her innocence? My submission would be for her to go to the village and give birth to the kid, possibly train the child for one year then she comes back and face her education. Please, don't let this set back scatter the good plan you have for her due to her naivety . 1 Like |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by fuckwell2080: 9:14pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
@Poster if what you say is the truth you really tried ur best.The saying goes you can only take horse to river you cant force the horse to drink water.A girl that wan rotten go rotten.You were busy struggling give her better life she was busy fucking by useless VAGABOND who cant even take care of himself.You better send her to the village because you cant take care of her with pregnancy why the VAGABOND who got her PREGNANT will be walking freely.you cant file case RAPE.The girl just open her mouth tell you is her BOYFRIEND imagine.BOYFRIEND who cant live to responsibilty.He don happen now the VAGABOND Don make way.Take her to village her mum take care of her.she will go talk with the VAGABOND family concerning PREGNANCY.who quote me for telling OP real TRUTH hug transformer. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by dazzlingd(m): 9:31pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
DSS1335: I see my joke was taken so seriously, no hard feelings man. I realized I’ve been insensitive with my comment making a dark humor out of a situation affecting you. I’m sorry and Ive edited the comment and taken out |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 11:42pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
Modupetemmy1: Thanks . Advise appreciated |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 11:48pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
fuckwell2080: Understood. The boy father came to resolve the issue amicably. He has accepted the responsibility for the pregnancy. The grandma whom the boy came to stay is the only person that is reluctant and opting for DNA test after the child is born. However the father of the boy pleaded that i should not allow the girl return back to the village 2 Likes |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 11:57pm On Oct 30, 2022 |
EndSARS77: The same way i and my wife were wondering how he was able to lure the girl. Maybe he promised her marriage or bought something for her, she couldn't say anything....well, i observed that the young guy is very handsome and very fair in complexion...he is just like a junior version of that Ghana/Nollywood actor Van Vicker |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by DSS1335: 12:04am On Oct 31, 2022 |
Ilekokonit: The case has been settled amicably. The Father of the boy came to us, that son accepted the full responsibility, BCS the girl was a virgin! The timing from the result of the pregnancy scan corroborate with the girl's claim and the boy's confession. No need for such wide goose chase! Thanks for your advise though 1 Like |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by ThatsONYI: 11:04am On Oct 31, 2022 |
ValCon888: God bless you. While I don't support what happened, we gotta learn to ask questions of "what if" too, they're just young people like me that made mistakes just that in their own case - they got BUSTED! I'm 20 years old and nobody is perfect, girls hide their real age nowadays. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by ThatsONYI: 11:10am On Oct 31, 2022 |
Nemesis0147: EXACTLY! This is what I'm trying to say, imagine destroying the life of a young boy - look, early pregnancy isn't life condemnation and besides he didn't force her. Again, I do not support what happened - but that guy's actually the same age as me, I'm putting myself in his shoes. I bet he didn't know she was 16, please deal with him but don't destroy him because he's 4 years older than her! They're just kids! |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Jesuisbelle(f): 11:13am On Oct 31, 2022 |
Let the boy and his family take care of her till she gives birth and after ..but if they refuse let her carry her cross |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by ThatsONYI: 11:17am On Oct 31, 2022 |
DSS1335: Hahaha Lol sir, money isn't everything. In the case of your girl, she has everything (I mean y'all give all she needs, the food, shelter, clothes etc)... At her age, she begins to feel a need to be loved - that's where he comes in, and promises that love. His good looks was actually a plus for him but doesn't matter, and since he was bold to tell you he "did it with her once" - he must be good with "words and texting"... Coming from 20 year old too. |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by ThatsONYI: 11:19am On Oct 31, 2022 |
DSS1335: Wow, I'm so happy |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Tegabadguy(m): 3:29pm On Oct 31, 2022 |
libertyfather:send her parking |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Octopusssy(f): 5:01pm On Oct 31, 2022 |
DSS1335:Don't mind those gutter minded individuals who project their wayward lifestyles unto everything that moves |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Octopusssy(f): 5:02pm On Oct 31, 2022 |
DSS1335:She was swayed by his charms and good looks. Ohh, teens... |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by GloriousGbola: 5:38pm On Oct 31, 2022 |
Octopusssy: Kipkwaiet You old hens are also swayed by foine boiz |
Re: My 16 Year Old Live-in Maid Is Pregnant For A 20 Year Old Boy by Octopusssy(f): 7:42pm On Oct 31, 2022 |
GloriousGbola:We are swayed by the size of your pockets, not your looks. Who looks epp? |
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