My mother's colleague who recently got married sent his wife packing within the first four weeks of their wedding and the reason was that she lied to him that she was a virgin but after the wedding the man discovered she was not. After confronting her she said she was raped but he was not satisfied with that and went further to investigate, he discovered she lied. What do women stand to gain by lying that they are virgins?

They stand to gain a lot

She said she was raped.


That is the language of Nigerian girls. Only simps believe that.

Dem just dey catch cruise... by fire by force.
QED

It's interesting how you got access to this information

In a society where people think that having high moral standards is naive, when they want to take advantage of you... But will extol the need for virtues as virginity in their wives and seek after it like the proverbial eggs in Old-days Nollywood movies, these things are bound to be commonplace.

In other words, lies about virginity is strategically applied, and for various reasons.

1. To abstain from sex while dating a particular person
2. To be held in high esteem among moral gatherings (virgins will deny being virgins among their non-virgin friends - male and female alike)
3. To give an implied sense of non-promiscuity


I think the reason why she was sent parking, is not just because her hymen was missing, but because

1. She lied about the cause (which hubby found out was a lie)
2. She played the victim card, manipulative tendency and An insult to real victims


But the most important, are you ONE?

People live fake live. Boys inclusive.

Greattestman:
My mother's colleague who recently got married sent his wife packing within the first four weeks of their wedding and the reason was that she lied to him that she was a virgin but after the wedding the man discovered she was not. After confronting her she said she was raped but he was not satisfied with that and went further to investigate, he discovered she lied. What do women stand to gain by lying that they are virgins?

Its mostly to manipulate the man....to present themselves as what they are not so that they can automatically be trusted and respected as a good girl..

Secondly, women that lie about virginity know the importance of high moral standards..because they have little or no good girl behavior... they lie about virginity because a virgin is assumed by men to be disciplined in many areas apart from sex...

Any answer you get applies to men who lie about their own virginity.

Why don't you people talk about men's virginity as much as you discuss females' virginity?

immortalcrown:
Any answer you get applies to men who lie about their own virginity.

Why don't you people talk about men's virginity as much as you discuss females' virginity?

Only women lie about virginity..thats why we have this topic in the first place....Only women lie about body count...it has been proven even on this forum....when ever they open thread to ask "what is your body count" only men come out.....

We all fvck....men even admit their wromg doing sayimg they are polygamous...but only women pretend they are saints..and thats why women topic is always a louder when we hear of paternity fraud, pregnancy, abortions, etc...

On a normal day...virginity, body count or wateva shouldnt be a big deal

Tales by moonlight.

virginprincess:
Tales by moonlight.

So you think your husband won't be knocked out if he eventually finds out that you are not a virgin on your first night together

He did the right thing. Let her marry the man who deflowered her. I wish most men had the balls to pull this kind of actions, the world would be a better place.

virginprincess:
Tales by moonlight.

I can bet that you are not a virgin

Lol
Goodluck in his search for an adult Virgin. He should start searching for it like Aimiuwu was sent to search for the pot of life in the thick evil forest

Only underage are virgin almost everywhere in the world nowadays

immortalcrown:
Any answer you get applies to men who lie about their own virginity.

Why don't you people talk about men's virginity as much as you discuss females' virginity?

in the Bible, nothing concern men and virgin, women are meant to be remain a virgin

Baronthecelebri:
in the Bible, nothing concern men and virgin, women are meant to be remain a virgin

If only women are meant to remain virgins, how would men lose their own virginity?

immortalcrown:
If only women are meant to remain virgins, how would men lose their own virginity?

through sex

Baronthecelebri:
through sex

Sex with what or with who?

In this present days, it's hard to find an adult virgin. The virgin you can see are 12 to 15, and no parents will give their 13 year old daughter to you, except you're Need nwoko or dangote. So the best you can do is, any woman you like not love, marry her,if she mess up divorce her ASAP.

Oga just accept her back, she must have ignorantly tot d hymen was still intact

This one is looking for virgin in 2022

If he wants a virgin he should marry someone 15yrs and wait till she gets to 18 but that's if theirs still 15yrs virgin

A man from my side sent his wife parking because she farted while presenting food to him. He is still single today after more than eight years