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Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Mercury12(m): 6:44am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Lol If it crash let it crash abeg my own is that no partner should dagger the other because it isn't worth it 8 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Laturuturu: 6:58am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: You didn't mention hook up Wny |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Laturuturu: 7:00am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Fiscus105: Wise wise wise 5 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by jeromestarks: 7:36am On Nov 03, 2022 |
femo86:I get 12 for my DM on Facebook. And 3 on Twitter. Good girls dey town na you dey date ashaw0 street girls. How you go see girl remove tongue for her profile picture and you go still marry am? No be foolishness be that? 33 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Ebubu: 8:02am On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe:they didn’t date properly 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Natbrowny: 8:13am On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe: Doesnt work that way. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 8:21am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Ebubu:yes all those 4 to 5 months rush rush to get married 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by guobe: 8:21am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Natbrowny:it does |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Ebubu: 8:29am On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe:4-5 months? imagine. my own, i’ll first date you for like 8 months, study you very well, if i see any red flag, i won’t propose marriage. in that 8 months i’ll check if you still have emotions for your ex, if you’ve gotten over your ex, etc 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by zed7: 8:49am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: I didn't go for counselling, didn't read any books and didn't even wed in a church. Been married 10 years now and I can't remember having issues with my wife. Never reported each other to anybody. We don't even raise our voices on each other. My sister went for marriage counselling, church programmes, wed in the church and yet, I keep settling issues. I guess I'm lucky or maybe not. What I did was to carefully screen my partner and go for personality instead of just appearance alone. Yes, my wife is good looking but good looking isn't enough. Anyway, my submission is that a successful marriage is between two people who click. All the counselling and prayers wouldn't do much if both parties don't know what they want and don't click. 58 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 9:08am On Nov 03, 2022 |
zed7: People click and still divorce. The reason many marriages fail is because people go into it without any preparation. They go in blind not knowing left from right. One thing I learned in the course of preparing for marriage is to "pick my battles wisely". This way, you'll understand it's not everything that should lead to fight or quarrel. 27 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by lereinter(m): 10:11am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Na you do the survey? But this buhari economy isn't favourable for marriage relationship 3 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by DaFuhrer(m): 10:24am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Romanoff: Even all these doesn't guarantee good marriage. Just marry someone that have the same goals and ambition as you or someone willing to fuel your ambition. The best marriage counseling I received was from my grandpa. The man told me "marry your friend". Now I'm married to my best friend and I thank God everyday for the advice my grandpa gave me. I and my wife see ourselves more as friends rather than husband and wife. 23 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by KunGioKehRah: 10:28am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Women will still keep contact with their sisterhood after the wedding. And that is where the pressure on thrman will start. She will be listening to them Everything that her mother or her friend tells her is what she will be listening to and that is where the marriage will be having k legs. Some couples will exonerate themselves from the wife s friends and the man gets the hold of the family. And also many are not ready or matured enough to be in marital relationships with others. Listening skill, talking skill, and sexual intercourse skills too matter alot in relationship. Even before marriage, as a man you must have some qualities, if you can't kn.ack very well, you can't feed yourself talkless of feeding another person, how you go feed the family? Talkless of when you now have a baby? Wetin then go dey chop for this BUHARI regime Those are some of the factors affecting marriage and divorce nowadays, WEDDING NA BLING BLING, AFTER THE WEDDING, EYE GO OPEN! #itiswell! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Angelfrost(m): 10:46am On Nov 03, 2022 |
They are supposed to crash! A lot of those getting married today have no business in marriage... They lack the emotional intelligence, Leadership, morality, and maturity to manage relationships not to speak of marriage. When I look at a lot of couples, even at the wedding receptions, I clearly see round pegs in square holes (no pun intended)! Most young people are not even concerned about compatibility... They are merely concerned with how physically and financially appealing the other person is. They think everything else will fall into place after the wedding! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Romanoff(f): 10:47am On Nov 03, 2022 |
DaFuhrer: Shebi you got counselling? Some people don't. Some who get counselling just go there to fulfill all righteousness cause the church demanded it. All what I mentioned there doesn't guarantee good marriage but they prepare you for possible things you'd experience. It's best to go with some knowledge than to go in blind. Most of what I use to make my marriage work is from the preparation I had before marriage. It also helped me pick a suitable partner. Men plenty for town but not all can lead a woman sensibly and with kindness. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Divoc19(f): 10:47am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Marriage na scam Y'all should know this and know peace 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Akwamkpuruamu: 10:47am On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe: Dating isn't a guarantee of happy blissful marriage. Else, those who cohabitated would make best homes but not so 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by meobizy(f): 10:47am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Since time immemorial. Nothing’s changed. |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Nobody: 10:47am On Nov 03, 2022 |
It will crash before now. When it's runs girls and boys that are going into marriage these days ,what do you expect? The kind of places they meet themselves will determine how long it will last. Most of these couples come from dysfunctional homes where there was no proper home training and are launched into the society with no character and end up with birds of same feather. Gone are the days a girls mother will call her before marriage and draw her ears telling her to respect and obey her husband. You know, giving her advice from her experience and how to manage the home. Even the men no longer sit their sons down to advise them on how to take care of their wife's and homes. Everyone is after, "my child is a graduate and they go ahead and bill the husbands huge sums for bride price. That's all! Clubers getting married. How e wan be? Tufia! 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Iamgrey5(m): 10:49am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Well alot of factors contribute to crashing marriages > Harsh economic realities > Incompatibility of partners etc. Hence, people should understand the concept of a marriage before getting into it. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Octopusssy(f): 10:49am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Why won't women rush into marriages when you people will be the first to label them 'evening newspaper' if they decide to take their time to properly select a partner. 16 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by TheEndless: 10:49am On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe:You think marriages are crashing now? Wait till $1 is N5000 then you go confirm! 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by money121(m): 10:50am On Nov 03, 2022 |
guobe: Wahala |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by FaithBrain1994(m): 10:51am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Because most women out of desperation are marrying who is available and who is ready rather than marrying who they love. Men too are overwhelmed by the physical features of women and paying a little or no attention to love, respect and the fear of God. Like i said earlier, i will never marry a broke woman, never! 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by fairlyisabel(f): 10:51am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Nonexisting1:why wouldn't it crash when men has refused to repent from cheating? Why wouldn't it crash when men has refused to censor their eyes and minds and focus on the women they took out of their parents houses? He who must come to equity must be clean 11 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by MuslimIgbo: 10:51am On Nov 03, 2022 |
THE ONLY AND FUNDAMENTAL REASON IS BECAUSE, MOST LADIES OF THIS GENERATION HAVE BECOME HOES, SLÚTS AND HOOKUP GIRLS. You can't expect a whóre with double digits bodycount to stay loyal and faithful with any man. KNOW THIS AND KNOW PEACE. Any girl with more than 2 bodycount (WHICH DEFINES A WHÓRE) will hardly stay focused, committed, contented and loyal in any marriage. MOST OF THIS GIRLS HAVE SLEPT WITH MARRIED MEN THAT HAVE SPOILT THEM WITH CASH AND GIFTS, SO THEY WON'T BE OKAY WITH ANYTHING LESS OF SUCH TEMPORARY TREATMENT. UNFORTUNATELY FOR THEM, MANY OF THOSE MEN ONLY EXPRESS THOSE TREATMENTS WITH THEM JUST TO SLEEP WITH THEM. Do you expect a girl you dated for five years, and in those years, you both cheated on each other, ESPECIALLY THE GIRL, to now get married and expect the marriage to last? 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by AllKnowing: 10:51am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Marriage! To my mind, only two things can help couples stick together: Discipline and truth. 7 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Kobicove(m): 10:53am On Nov 03, 2022 |
The main reason for this is the downturn in the economy of the country ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by Ireportlive: 10:53am On Nov 03, 2022 |
But that's actually a fraud You make people buy expensive asoebi to your wedding only to divorce in no time 2 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by fredoooooo: 10:53am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Na wedding we dey do nowadays not marriage ![]() 10 Likes |
Re: A Lot Of Marriages Now Crashing Within 3 Months by NwaMamaIwota(f): 10:53am On Nov 03, 2022 |
Ireportlive:shatap Stop talking nonsense 1 Like |
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