Hello all!
I'm Fadila. I'm the fifth born in a family of four girls, two boys.
I want to know your thoughts/opinions about females that put on waist beads. What do you think of them? Do you have any thing against waist beads? I want to know because your opinions will help me in a way. I wear waist beads, but I usually try as much as possible to avoid people knowing I wear one. So, I do hide it all the time, because some people's opinions on it might not be what I would really like to hear. I usually feel bad when I hear some things people say about putting on waist beads because, those things are never the reasons why I wear them. There is a reason why I wear them, and it's never because of those things they say.

So, I would like to hear your opinions about it.
And if there's any one here (females) who wears them, you can give your reasons ( if you want to) why you wear them. So, those that say some things about it can maybe have a rethink and be more enlightened about this.

Thanks.
Sannun ku!

Below are pictures of mine;
What do you think of them?

Ga wadansu;

I wonder why people's opinions should matter to you regarding what you choose to wear. I mean, see as e beautiful around your waist, but you want some blind people's opinion instead as if your own eyes don't work!

I guess I have more of an opinion of people who need the opinions of others to live their life, and it's not favourable at all!

So after the long epistle you didn't give the reasons why you wear waist bead

lilvicky68:
So after the long epistle you didn't give the reasons why you wear waist bead

Why do people rock wristbands

lilvicky68:
So after the long epistle you didn't give the reasons why you wear waist bead

Do you want to know?

Candidlady:


Why do people rock wristbands

What's the connection between wrists and waists?

lilvicky68:

What's the connection between wrists and waists?

Are they not both body parts

Abi what kinda question is this

Tell me why you wear wristbands simple as that

Aren't those too much? Wont they get uncomfy when you eat big meals? Yeah, I know that's the true waist point but I like the chain version that actually drops to the pelvic bone area. They hid under your cloths and just surprise an appearance occasionally

By the way, for an Hausa girl, you are becoming too liberal with the use of the internet. Soon enough, with all the pictures of body parts you've shared here, someone will piece your whole half nuude image together

I wouldn't have anything to do with a lady that wears waist beads because I do not see the need. I am quite conservative and same as my family of orientation and that is the sole reason.

budaatum:
I wonder why people's opinions should matter to you regarding what you choose to wear. I mean, see as e beautiful around your waist, but you want some blind people's opinion instead as if your own eyes don't work!

I guess I have more of an opinion of people who need the opinions of others to live their life, and it's not favourable at all!

I just said I was coming to post this.

You took the words out of my mouth.

I love waist beads. I got my first one in secondary school given to me by my school mother. I think yours are too many, but if you like them, fine. I wear about 5 strings and I wear them sitting below my waistline, at the top of my hip. It hides my CS scar and an old appendix scar. I like only crystal beads. I think they look classier. And I like very soft colours like rose pink, pale peach and lilac. I like them because they show off my figure. And I can also easily tell when I start to put on weight.

Why do you need anyone's opinion, though? Not everyone likes them and thats okay. What matters is you like them.

This your intro
ASUU NEC will eventually tear your waistbead into pieces in anger.

It's nice for holding like horse reins when riding from behind

I m currently rocking the last silver waistbead like yours.
One on my ankle and 3 in my waistline.

I m a mad sucker for waistbead.

it might not be anything but I'm not a fan of waste beads and I don't see myself allowing my partner to Rock one.

culf:
it might not be anything but I'm not a fan of waste beads and I don't see myself allowing my partner to Rock one.

Chai tell me you're not serious.

ahnie:

Chai tell me you're not serious.

I'm oooo! I'm not just a fan of it. maybe because a lot of females abuse it, I don't know but not me. Though I encourage people to put on whatever they feel comfortable wearing (but certainly not a waste bead for my partner, maybe later on sha)

culf:



I'm oooo! I'm not just a fan of it. maybe because a lot of females abuse it, I don't know but not me. Though I encourage people to put on whatever they feel comfortable wearing (but certainly not a waste bead for my partner, maybe later on sha)

Ok o.
But I must say....nor be every waistbead be ordinary Sha.

ahnie:

Ok o.
But I must say....nor be every waistbead be ordinary Sha.

Thank you my dear, a lot are not. one need to be careful sometimes. I had a lot of tales about it from ladies. it is well ooo.
Good to know you love rocking it, most guys find it sexy though.

ahnie:
I m currently rocking the last silver waistbead like yours.
One on my ankle and 3 in my waistline.

I m a mad sucker for waistbead.

pictures please

Arielle:
I love waist beads. I got my first one in secondary school given to me by my school mother. I think yours are too many, but if you like them, fine. I wear about 5 strings and I wear them sitting below my waistline, at the top of my hip. It hides my CS scar and an old appendix scar. I like only crystal beads. I think they look classier. And I like very soft colours like rose pink, pale peach and lilac. I like them because they show off my figure. And I can also easily tell when I start to put on weight.

Exactly. I also have an appendicitis surgery scar Which they hide. They also help me know when I'm adding weight at my belly region.

ahnie:
I m currently rocking the last silver waistbead like yours.
One on my ankle and 3 in my waistline.

I m a mad sucker for waistbead.

I dey tell you. I like that particular silver chain waist bead so much.

except for northern Moslem Ladies and maybe Indians, waist bead is no no for Western oriented men.

If it's worn by a southern Nigerian lady then she may be a suspect.

What many people don't know is that Nigerian mother's prepare waistbands for their daughter s to prevent unwanted pregnancies.
It's only few that wore it as fashion components.
If you like argue over it,the fact is it's traditional means of birth control.

youngdad:
What many people don't know is that Nigerian mother's prepare waistbands for their daughter s to prevent unwanted pregnancies.
It's only few that wore it as fashion components.
If you like argue over it,the fact is it's traditional means of birth control.

It works too. Especially as antirape.

Just show it to man and watch them run especially when you tell them it's mama's juju.

I like it much but urs is too much

illicit:
I like it much but urs is too much

How many is enough?

fadilaMaikiriki:
How many is enough?

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Arielle:
I love waist beads. I got my first one in secondary school given to me by my school mother. I think yours are too many, but if you like them, fine. I wear about 5 strings and I wear them sitting below my waistline, at the top of my hip. It hides my CS scar and an old appendix scar. I like only crystal beads. I think they look classier. And I like very soft colours like rose pink, pale peach and lilac. I like them because they show off my figure. And I can also easily tell when I start to put on weight.

You have been initiated mama

Babara1994:

You have been initiated mama

Initiated? How? I don't get. How has she been initiated please? Does it mean that I have also been initiated? Because I wear them too. Does it mean I have been initiated?