Comradepreneur:
Read Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7420371/how-reduce-hatred-cousin-brother

This is a follow up thread concerning the action I took after reading the comments.

I know I've failed as an older brother, to protect my siblings from their cousin. But I want to make amendments.

As such, the first action I took was to send my dad a text message, voicing out my displeasure on how he has been handling the issue regarding the harassment on my siblings.



And below, is his reply to the message, and my subsequent reply to him.

Apparently, the he took in the boy, so as to rehabilitate him. Meaning, the boy may have been previously doing this to his own sisters or may have attempted to do it to his sisters.

Did I also mention that he's a chronic lier? He lies even if caught while doing something he's accused of.

At this point, the only thing I could help my sisters with is to repair their door lock first thing in the morning.

I also woke up my cousin and sternly warning him of staying away from my sisters even in the daytime.

I also, intend to tell my Mallam, our Islamic cleric since my mom respects him a lot. And just maybe, he could talk some sense into her and my dad.

Thank you all for your advice. Your advices, has really helped me in order to become a better person than I was.

redseason:
Wow! There is more than meets the eyes in this case. No father, no matter how dead beat would watch anyone, irrespective of relationship molest his children. Trust me, there is something fishy between your aunt and your dad. How are you sure your own dad(with due respect) did not sexually violate his own sister while they were living under him? Hence the lack of moral high grounds to act. No relationship supersedes that of your immediate family.

Comradepreneur:
Read Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7420371/how-reduce-hatred-cousin-brother

This is a follow up thread concerning the action I took after reading the comments.

I know I've failed as an older brother, to protect my siblings from their cousin. But I want to make amendments.

As such, the first action I took was to send my dad a text message, voicing out my displeasure on how he has been handling the issue regarding the harassment on my siblings.



And below, is his reply to the message, and my subsequent reply to him.

Apparently, the he took in the boy, so as to rehabilitate him. Meaning, the boy may have been previously doing this to his own sisters or may have attempted to do it to his sisters.

Did I also mention that he's a chronic lier? He lies even if caught while doing something he's accused of.

At this point, the only thing I could help my sisters with is to repair their door lock first thing in the morning.

I also woke up my cousin and sternly warning him of staying away from my sisters even in the daytime.

I also, intend to tell my Mallam, our Islamic cleric since my mom respects him a lot. And just maybe, he could talk some sense into her and my dad.

Thank you all for your advice. Your advices, has really helped me in order to become a better person than I was.

DWJOBScom:
I read this and i have been worried about the attitude of the elders

I have been praying for your sisters and it is painful.

Your cousin should go for counselling

Candidlady:



His cousin should for counseling

Very funny

What bout the girls that have been scarred

Mindlog:
There is likelihood of a history of sexual perversion in your family that is enabling the pervert thus your father can't act because he was involved.

DWJOBScom:
Your cousin and your sisters.

Your sisters needs to be encouraged and their confidence improved.

You will have to as a matter of urgency reachout to your islamic instructors or teachers.

A professional must be involved for your sisters - it's urgent right now

Comradepreneur:
Read Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/7420371/how-reduce-hatred-cousin-brother

This is a follow up thread concerning the action I took after reading the comments.

I know I've failed as an older brother, to protect my siblings from their cousin. But I want to make amendments.

As such, the first action I took was to send my dad a text message, voicing out my displeasure on how he has been handling the issue regarding the harassment on my siblings.



And below, is his reply to the message, and my subsequent reply to him.

Apparently, the he took in the boy, so as to rehabilitate him. Meaning, the boy may have been previously doing this to his own sisters or may have attempted to do it to his sisters.

Did I also mention that he's a chronic lier? He lies even if caught while doing something he's accused of.

At this point, the only thing I could help my sisters with is to repair their door lock first thing in the morning.

I also woke up my cousin and sternly warning him of staying away from my sisters even in the daytime.

I also, intend to tell my Mallam, our Islamic cleric since my mom respects him a lot. And just maybe, he could talk some sense into her and my dad.

Thank you all for your advice. Your advices, has really helped me in order to become a better person than I was.

DWJOBScom:


Your cousin and your sisters.

Your sisters needs to be encouraged and their confidence improved.

You will have to as a matter of urgency reachout to your islamic instructors or teachers.

A professional must be involved for your sisters - it's urgent right now

Shakathezulu1:
Ogbeni, arrange squad make Dem give this ya kolo cousin better mending.
Shey u no get friends or squad, whey u dey roll with ni.

ChampagneF:
Honestly from where I’m sitting I still consider u weak seeing that u finally had the conversation with ur dad but u had to go tru sending him a msg. If ur dad is a smart father I guess u guys would have had the conversation face to face after he had replied u, if he didn’t then I finally know who u took after.
I still have to commend u seeing everybody can’t b bold enough to face their father and speak their mind, the first part of talking to ur sisters also is a good development. Since ur dad said he’s on a mission to help ur cousin, the work now falls down to ur whole family working together and speaking out in case he misbehaves.
First thing first change the locks to ur sisters’ room, speak to ur dad about it. Make him get new locks if he is keen on assisting the boy to change his ways he shouldn’t leave his children unprotected.
Talk to ur sisters to always raise alarm anytime he starts misbehaving around them, if they find his movement or activities fishy or don’t seem to understand what he’s up to. Also the youngest shouldn’t b left alone around the house especially when he’s around and towards evening time.
Lastly, look for an avenue to deal with him, find an excuse. It’s not necessary that it has to be a major issue, u can even create a rift between the two of u, maybe he didn’t greet u when he woke up this morning beat him up, make sure u give him a very good beating of his life and let him understand that if he dare lay a finger on any of ur sisters even if it is for corrective reasons u would skin him alive, as one person had advised u earlier, behave like a mad man. These type of men(ur cousin) are the type that respond to violence more than the sod hands ur dad


and everybody around him is giving him.


what if this cousin of his kill him in the process of a fight?have we taught about it?especially the father.i see the cousin harming this boy because he is on a mission in that house,God help this good man trying to protect his younger sisters where his parents have failed.
I come in peace.