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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Aaaaarghmed(m): 4:49pm On Nov 14, 2022
When I met her I was broke as Bleep,we struggle,dated for 6years and when we were very capable to get married,she said is it because of my age I want to get married.6 fucking years and she felt time never reach yet.she started giving me so much attitude and I walked away,it pained her and she messaged me 4months later insulting me,when I think of it,I get sad because with the number of years we dated,na she suppose dey worry me to settle down.But instead she was giving excuses.6 fucking years.But am good now.

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by vickydevoka(m): 4:53pm On Nov 14, 2022
Lisa001:
Told me he can never get married to me
That I'm just a baby factory

Hurts so deep
Trust the love of a broke man at your own. Peril
So painful.
I'm about to love a poor lady, and I'm above 100 million naira worth. What's your advice?

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Onyi4live(m): 5:21pm On Nov 14, 2022
Giving my son to another guy because I was broke maybe. Now I have reclaimed him. She Don loose both us
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Nobody: 5:27pm On Nov 14, 2022
All my SPOUSES heaped heinous LIES @ my eardrums. Including their MOTHERS.
Only marriage brings a man closer to his grave.
I'm coming up with a BOOK.
Men of my generation will deescalate this marriage fever that has ravaged Africa for too long, it's not just necessary. All you need in life is just happiness and good health.

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by JohnnA1: 5:45pm On Nov 14, 2022
sinola:
I am working with telecommunication coy but does uber business on weekends as side hussle.

The day she called my side hussle a useless thing....the thing pain me
That's a Nigerian girl for you.
I have determined never to marry a Nigerian girl, they don't know what love is; they don't know how to love.
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by pappilo(m): 5:51pm On Nov 14, 2022
Testified against me in crown court on behalf of her boyfriend that I caught in my house which resulted in an altercation. The police told me not to return to the house and I still paid the mortgage for another year while her boyfriend lived there until I signed my half of the house over to her. If I had been convicted, I was looking at between 1.5 and 3 years in prison. Me! The Father of her children o

Even though the love was long dead, until she stood in the box and testified I still didnt hate her cah we had come a long way. Once she finished her testimony, she died in my heart. On the day she dies, if she dies before me, I will throw a big party.

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by pappilo(m): 5:53pm On Nov 14, 2022
MALIGNANTGuest:
All my SPOUSES heaped heinous LIES @ my eardrums. Including their MOTHERS.
Only marriage brings a man closer to his grave.
I'm coming up with a BOOK.
Men of my generation will deescalate this marriage fever that has ravaged Africa for too long, it's not just necessary. All you need in life is just happiness and good health.


Please let me drop a verse in your book. Reach out.
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Menclothing: 6:01pm On Nov 14, 2022
Smile and shout I love you in public
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by swaley: 6:06pm On Nov 14, 2022
Dead grin
pinkguy:
2 minutes man na two minutes no be to take Igbo or odejiji
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Patson080(m): 6:25pm On Nov 14, 2022
Refered to me as her roomate over the phone with another guy while I was in the same bed with her. Obviously she told the guy before she stays with a girl.

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Gadalo1990: 6:39pm On Nov 14, 2022
Stawner16:
She kicked me in my balls. No porn intended
Cool!
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Plugsk(m): 6:47pm On Nov 14, 2022
No no no
She needs to be sacked. We all deserve that pleasure from our partner
TINUBUISMAD:
Not agreeing to suck my dick wen I begged her

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Cde1: 6:57pm On Nov 14, 2022
Hmmm
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by GreaterFuture(m): 7:10pm On Nov 14, 2022
Accept reality, earlier the better
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Goldbw122(m): 7:20pm On Nov 14, 2022
edunaragold:
What was the most painful thing your spouse did to you, that hurts you, sometimes when a man is angry, they show their anger to their wife, most times some husbands walk away from home, and some women act childish, but a decent woman, will keep quite, and table the matter when it's bed time.

A woman's anger can destroy in sec, sometimes most women when they are angry, they spark, talk, shout, or lock his cloth, etc, sometimes when a woman is angry they say things without reason the repercussions.

For me when I'm angry with my wife, I walk away, when she is mad at me, I get her some shopping, even when am broke, to say it's ok am sorry.
That means you will borrow to say am sorry that means you will do anything to apologize nice one, you will go far in life.
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Anndrew(m): 7:23pm On Nov 14, 2022
pinkguy:
2 minutes man na two minutes no be to take Igbo or odejiji
lolz..this one touch for bone marrow
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Goldbw122(m): 7:30pm On Nov 14, 2022
DSC7:
The last girl i dated threatened me with a kitchen knife, after the altercation she threw the knife at me,,, thank God i dodged it...


She called me a fool because i refused to spend lavishly on her because of some yahoo boys making advances to her and spoiling her with gifts....



I ended the relationship after she threw that knife, she became sober, she apologized, i accepted like say i still love her,,,,,,


I knacked her with anger till she slept off, middle of the night i took my bag outside,,, early momo i move leave house for her...


She woke up, called and i told her am already out of town,,, grin


Never will i date a fair babe again... They always feel they are the most beautiful...
cheesy grin nor be small thing well I learnt something. Wonderful
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Goldbw122(m): 7:35pm On Nov 14, 2022
Nnatuu:
First...She video calling her ex...in her night wear...on her bed...we lived apart then.

Second...I accessed her Facebook account to see more chats between them, and he calling her pet names.

Third and most painful, she manipulated me into a wrong decision...for reasons I still do not know. When I got stuck in the process and lost all my finances....she feigned ignorance of what actually happened and at some point turned against me for being the cause of the problem.

After my spirit could not take it after some months, I hired a private consultant from Kenya to investigate the matter and provide me objective information on what caused the issues...

When the report came back, low and behold...she accepted that the report was true...it was her all along...and she always knew...but acted innocent while I was depressed for years...losing all my money, job, everything...

I won't divorce her...I'll wait till her market value is totally down...then I'll serve her hot breakfast!

I've always told Nigerian ladies, never marry if you're not ready instead of coming into a man's life to make stupid mess. This will be a lesson to all of them.

Stick to NL and Linda Ikeji, una go hear my own response to her future soon. This got nothing to do with marriage, I'm obeying Bible orders...an eye for an eye.

Goodbye.



Wow
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Goldbw122(m): 7:40pm On Nov 14, 2022
dk58:
smiley True love bears no grudge. If you love someone from the bottom of your heart, there's nothing that can't be forgiven and forgotten with time. Everybody wants to be understood, forgiven and loved unconditionally. But there are always events that make us feel sad, bitter, angry or heartbroken. Sometimes, you tend to hate the one you love and at other times love the one you hate. Nothing is permanent in marriage and relationships. However, we just need to absorb the much our hearts can take and let go of those who feel happy making us sad all the time.
This really touch the bottom of my heart, thanks a lot.

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by IamtheTruth1(m): 7:42pm On Nov 14, 2022
edunaragold:
What was the most painful thing your spouse did to you, that hurts you, sometimes when a man is angry, they show their anger to their wife, most times some husbands walk away from home, and some women act childish, but a decent woman, will keep quite, and table the matter when it's bed time.

A woman's anger can destroy in sec, sometimes most women when they are angry, they spark, talk, shout, or lock his cloth, etc, sometimes when a woman is angry they say things without reason the repercussions.

For me when I'm angry with my wife, I walk away, when she is mad at me, I get her some shopping, even when am broke, to say it's ok am sorry.

" I do not miss you... I only miss the sex"
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by mariahAngel(f): 8:22pm On Nov 14, 2022
Patson080:
Refered to me as her roomate over the phone with another guy while I was in the same bed with her. Obviously she told the guy before she stays with a girl.

You were the other guy - her side-cock.
Sorry. undecided

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by mariahAngel(f): 8:23pm On Nov 14, 2022
pappilo:
Testified against me in crown court on behalf of her boyfriend that I caught in my house which resulted in an altercation. The police told me not to return to the house and I still paid the mortgage for another year while her boyfriend lived there until I signed my half of the house over to her. If I had been convicted, I was looking at between 1.5 and 3 years in prison. Me! The Father of her children o

Even though the love was long dead, until she stood in the box and testified I still didnt hate her cah we had come a long way. Once she finished her testimony, she died in my heart. On the day she dies, if she dies before me, I will throw a big party.




Didn't happen in Nigeria, right?
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by LincolnOnyeabor: 9:21pm On Nov 14, 2022
pappilo:
Testified against me in crown court on behalf of her boyfriend that I caught in my house which resulted in an altercation. The police told me not to return to the house and I still paid the mortgage for another year while her boyfriend lived there until I signed my half of the house over to her. If I had been convicted, I was looking at between 1.5 and 3 years in prison. Me! The Father of her children o

Even though the love was long dead, until she stood in the box and testified I still didnt hate her cah we had come a long way. Once she finished her testimony, she died in my heart. On the day she dies, if she dies before me, I will throw a big party.


My God! shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

The only place I've seen this play out was in tht Movie, Game of Thrones.

Women are worse than Devils in all sense of the word.



Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Dirtyyansh: 9:42pm On Nov 14, 2022
One banny wey I dey ponkiriyon at Jacobs Street Yaba said : I smelled like sweat at night.
Meanwhile, this fat damaged 30yr old girl sucked her manager's dick at gtb, who reeked of weed morning & night.

That word still hurts grin
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by medriano: 9:47pm On Nov 14, 2022
Formularcr7:
After eating around 7-8pm, she will still send me suya around 10-11pm, one day she woke me up and demanded suya again,I was ready to go but after checking my pocket, I was out of cash and I asked her to give me 1k to go buy
for her but she immediately said she doesn't feel like eating again and it's late already but I was very certain it was because the money was coming from her purse

Lmao. Some women will never release money but them go spend another person money anyhow. Can’t stand people like that.

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by SPAMBOX7: 9:48pm On Nov 14, 2022
TINUBUISMAD:
Not agreeing to suck my dick wen I begged her
grin grin I can relate. Was way back tho

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by medriano: 10:00pm On Nov 14, 2022
Lisa001:
Told me he can never get married to me
That I'm just a baby factory

Hurts so deep
Trust the love of a broke man at your own. Peril
Sorry about that. I hope you tore him to shreds with your words.
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Dirtyyansh: 10:01pm On Nov 14, 2022
FaithBrain1994:
She said i should go to the kichen, warm food and serve myself, claiming she's tired. Maybe she forgot she was still in my house, but i braced up and file a divorce. I wifed her and must do my biddings.

You're a king!

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Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by medriano: 10:05pm On Nov 14, 2022
Nnatuu:
First...She video calling her ex...in her night wear...on her bed...we lived apart then.

Second...I accessed her Facebook account to see more chats between them, and he calling her pet names.

Third and most painful, she manipulated me into a wrong decision...for reasons I still do not know. When I got stuck in the process and lost all my finances....she feigned ignorance of what actually happened and at some point turned against me for being the cause of the problem.

After my spirit could not take it after some months, I hired a private consultant from Kenya to investigate the matter and provide me objective information on what caused the issues...

When the report came back, low and behold...she accepted that the report was true...it was her all along...and she always knew...but acted innocent while I was depressed for years...losing all my money, job, everything...

I've concluded...I won't divorce her...I'll wait till her market value is drastically down...then I'll serve her hot breakfast!

I've always told Nigerian ladies, never marry if you're not ready instead of coming into a marriage with messy manipulative mindsets as if it's only a means to an end for you. This will be a lesson to all of them.

Stick to NL and Linda Ikeji, una go hear my own response to her future soon. This got nothing to do with marriage, I'm obeying Bible orders...an eye for an eye...its that simple...infidelity I can forgive...but manipulation in marriage is an unforgivable sin.

Goodbye.




How comfortable do you feel still living and probably sleeping with someone who betrayed you this way?
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Michelle55: 10:52pm On Nov 14, 2022
Na Lai Mohammed family members full this thread walai
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Maysdevices(f): 10:54pm On Nov 14, 2022
JASONjnr:
Cheated.....

And I won't forgive a cheating partner....
English is really hard for some people
Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by Nnatuu: 11:06pm On Nov 14, 2022
medriano:


How comfortable do you feel still living and probably sleeping with someone who betrayed you this way?

According to the book...betrayal is not a cogent reason to seek for a divorce!

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