I have been on this cross road for quite a while now.

My relationship of five years crashed due to my own negligence (I cheated and was caught)

Efforts to reconcile with my woman over the months have met dead ends, as she has refused to forgive.

Down the line I met this lady (working class) as a matter of fact she even earns more than me.

She loves me more than my previous woman and she is so down to earth.

With all these qualities I still am more attracted to the lady I cheated on and I am still begging her.

I really don't know how to start loving my new lady or how to give up on the other one.

Is it possible that I may grow to love her after marrying her or I should just continue to beg the other??

She loves me more than my previous woman and she is so down to earth.

First thing first , how old is this new Cinderella? I'm guessing she's evening newspaper or pre night newspaper.

Don't be deceived by the love of a woman until you commit.

Marry the latter, e get why... Nothing like having a wife that earns money to support a man

E be like say you wan beg for forgiveness all the remaining days of your life baa?.

Oga, face who face u now oooh.

Your ex knows her value and won't settle for a cheat. A man who cheats in a relationship will cheat in marriage.

It even looks like you're not sorry about the cheating, you're only sorry you got caught.

Just move on like your ex has. Don't waste your time.

Zonefree:



First thing first , how old is this new Cinderella? I'm guessing she's evening newspaper or pre night newspaper.

Don't be deceived by the love of a woman until you commit.

She is two years older than the former..

I have tested her in all ramifications and she passed .. my major challenge is that my heart still yarns for the other lady

Marry this new girl

Romanoff:
Your ex knows her value and won't settle for a cheat. A man who cheats in a relationship will cheat in marriage.

It even looks like you're not sorry about the cheating, you're only sorry you got caught.

Just move on like your ex has. Don't waste your time.

I really am and are still sorry for what I did.
There is nothing I haven't done to say this.
My parents
My siblings
My colleagues and friends
Her pastor
Her parents

All these people have I have met and apologized for my wrong act some of them have even helped in begging.. still to no avail

Nwadu:


She is two years older than the former..

I have tested her in all ramifications and she passed .. my major challenge is that my heart still yarns for the other lady

You're suffering from Stockholm syndrome. You're addicted to someone tormenting you. Free her and enjoy your new relationship

Nwadu:


I really am and are still sorry for what I did.
There is nothing I haven't done to say this.
My parents
My siblings
My colleagues and friends
Her pastor
Her parents

All these people have I have met and apologized for my wrong act some of them have even helped in begging.. still to no avail

She still reserves the right to choose to not continue with you.

Me I don't tolerate cheating to and even if my late father wakes from his grave to also beg me to take you back, I will not. I can forgive you so we can both move on but my forgiveness doesn't come with going back to you.

Move on. You hear.

Going back to your ex you've cheated on shouldn't be an option, because he/she would definitely want to take a revenge on you

My advice is, continue with the new banny and forget about the other one.

More advice pls

Nwadu:


I really am and are still sorry for what I did.
There is nothing I haven't done to say this.
My parents
My siblings
My colleagues and friends
Her pastor
Her parents

All these people have I have met and apologized for my wrong act some of them have even helped in begging.. still to no avail

Better JP ... that kain person fit kill you if you looseguard

You will have to bring one big goat, a white agric chicken, 3 bags of foreign rice, the gods have been complaining of stone from the local rice I collected from previous customers. And I don't want them to loose their teeth cos it would affect my prophetic gifts.

25 liters of palm wine, 7 bells and cash of a sum I wouldn't mention here and I'll tell you who amongst the 2 you should marry.

This I have seen.

Nwadu:


I really am and are still sorry for what I did.
There is nothing I haven't done to say this.
My parents
My siblings
My colleagues and friends
Her pastor
Her parents

All these people have I have met and apologized for my wrong act some of them have even helped in begging.. still to no avail

If you like gather all your village people to beg her, she’s moved on with someone else already.

Yeah they’re women who don’t forgive a cheat no matter what. Just move on with your new girl.

Nwadu:


I really am and are still sorry for what I did.
There is nothing I haven't done to say this.
My parents
My siblings
My colleagues and friends
Her pastor
Her parents

All these people have I have met and apologized for my wrong act some of them have even helped in begging.. still to no avail

Let me shock you. Your exgirlfriend has been looking for an excuse to leave you, you only helped her accelerate things by cheating on her. A woman who truly loves you will not leave because you cheated. They are not wired like us men. We leave when they cheat but they don't. If you doubt me, ask those that begged her to tell you exactly the things she said to them word to word. Meditate on them and you'll realize what I'm saying. Now to the new girl, this is my simple advice. When the main killer doesn't deliver, no need sending a replacement killer because he too will fail. I hope you will catch the drift. Now if you are like me, you will be fuccking the new pussy for now until your head clear from the old pussy completely.

If only the new lady knows the kind of man she's busy 'trapping' herself with!
You're still attracted to your ex, why lead the another lady on?
I don't know what's wrong with someone people!

Romanoff:


She still reserves the right to choose to not continue with you.

Me I don't tolerate cheating to and even if my late father wakes from his grave to also beg me to take you back, I will not. I can forgive you so we can both move on but my forgiveness doesn't come with going back to you.

Move on. You hear.

Well said ma.

@Op, no matter what, i don't tolerate cheating either...The truth is you will still cheat in marriage. Take it or leave it. I pity this new woman and hope she is aware of the kind of person she is in love with.

Solution: leave her alone since you still love your ex.

RedMac:
Marry the latter, e get why... Nothing like having a wife that earns money to support a man

its an illusion...many wifes still wont support u even if they earn a million....marry inly who loves and respt you as a guy....

fear the high earning ladies..there is a reason... speaking from.experience

Nonexisting1:
Let me shock you. Your exgirlfriend has been looking for an excuse to leave you, you only helped her accelerate things by cheating on her. A woman who truly loves you will not leave because you cheated. They are not wired like us men. We leave when they cheat but they don't. If you doubt me, ask those that begged her to tell you exactly the things she said to them word to word. Meditate on them and you'll realize what I'm saying. Now to the new girl, this is my simple advice. When the main killer doesn't deliver, no need sending a replacement killer because he too will fail. I hope you will catch the drift. Now if you are like me, you will be fuccking the new pussy for now until your head clear from the old pussy completely.

you are a complete street man..kudos!!!!

Nwadu:


I really am and are still sorry for what I did.
There is nothing I haven't done to say this.
My parents
My siblings
My colleagues and friends
Her pastor
Her parents

All these people have I have met and apologized for my wrong act some of them have even helped in begging.. still to no avail

she knows that a cheat will always be a cheat. She is very smart/maintains some levels of standard

U re a legend

Nonexisting1:
Let me shock you. Your exgirlfriend has been looking for an excuse to leave you, you only helped her accelerate things by cheating on her. A woman who truly loves you will not leave because you cheated. They are not wired like us men. We leave when they cheat but they don't. If you doubt me, ask those that begged her to tell you exactly the things she said to them word to word. Meditate on them and you'll realize what I'm saying. Now to the new girl, this is my simple advice. When the main killer doesn't deliver, no need sending a replacement killer because he too will fail. I hope you will catch the drift. Now if you are like me, you will be fuccking the new pussy for now until your head clear from the old pussy completely.

You took this out of my mouth
I can't say if you'd marry this new lady because people change and the fact that she earns than you is kind of a red flag to me
But pls stop begging your ex
You're ridiculing yourself
even if she comes back, the relationship will be hell for you because she'll be in charge and it'll be as if she did you a favor by coming back to you

Pls for Pete sake
Stop the begging and let her go

[U re a legend
]Let me shock you. Your exgirlfriend has been looking for an excuse to leave you, you only helped her accelerate things by cheating on her. A woman who truly loves you will not leave because you cheated. They are not wired like us men. We leave when they cheat but they don't. If you doubt me, ask those that begged her to tell you exactly the things she said to them word to word. Meditate on them and you'll realize what I'm saying. Now to the new girl, this is my simple advice. When the main killer doesn't deliver, no need sending a replacement killer because he too will fail. I hope you will catch the drift. Now if you are like me, you will be fuccking the new pussy for now until your head clear from the old pussy completely.[/quote]

Nwadu:
More advice pls

So all these ones never do you?

Nonexisting1
Let me shock you. Your exgirlfriend has been looking for an excuse to leave you, you only helped her accelerate things by cheating on her. A woman who truly loves you will not leave because you cheated. They are not wired like us men. We leave when they cheat but they don't. If you doubt me, ask those that begged her to tell you exactly the things she said to them word to word. Meditate on them and you'll realize what I'm saying. Now to the new girl, this is my simple advice. When the main killer doesn't deliver, no need sending a replacement killer because he too will fail. I hope you will catch the drift. Now if you are like me, you will be fuccking the new pussy for now until your head clear from the old pussy completely.

This is by far the best advise i have read here. Op, if you really want progress, follow this advice and you'll see changes but please whatever you decide just stop begging your ex to return to you because that's a recipe for disaster.