Dshocker:


Money is the root of all evil...

WRONG Sir.

It's the ""love of money"" (rather than GOD ALMIGHTY and humanity).

Emmanuel602:
Alcohol

Very bad idea. It will lead to dependency anytime he gets angry hence he will become an alcoholic.
That will be another problem created while the initial problem is still there not to talk of the depression that alcoholism brings.

Solving the underlying causes of anger is the best way to tackle it bro.

I have had my fair share of experience.

Masturbation. When I don't have a husband

Jubilancy:
mine ; lust

Rubilanshy

Hatred for all these grandpa's contesting for president and I can't help it

Jackbaur88:
To be sincere, I don't have addictions to any anything. Be it food, money, drinks, sexual feelings.
I only desire to please God and make impact in life

To be a lot more sincere with you bloke, you need discover yourself. You gotta be addicted to something. Addiction is part of life. However, being addicted to something has got nothing to do with your desire, i am telling you.

Opioid (T.M)

VULCAN:
Have skimmed through some of your posts and these are my observations.

1. You have psychological issues. 25-35% of your posts reveal your misandry. You have a hatred of the male gender.

2. You are a tribalist. You hate Igbos

3. You are either a Yoruba Muslim, a Christian who has fallen from the faith or an atheist. Your negativity towards things that have to do with Christ says it all.

3. Although you claim to be a medical doctor I have serious reservations about that because your vocabulary is just above secondary school level. Doctors are amongst the most well read individuals. Probably only your husband is a doctor but you have claimed his certificate as your own on Nairaland. LOL

You say you wanted to marry a doctor for Japa things. Why would a doctor be looking to marry another doctor for Japa things. Couldnt you get to UK with your own certificate? Abi you were so certain you were incapable of passing PLAB yourself?

4. You are a deceiver who did not tell your poor husband that you hate sex while courting. Now you masturbate to get satisfaction. Perhaps you were raped as a teen which might explain your hatred for men and sex. Who knows?

5. Deep down you are hoping your husband does something to end the marriage so you will be free. You don't want to end it yourself cos you don't want to look like a bad person.

But you are a bad person so do the needful and let the man find a woman who will love him for himself and not for his certificate and japa..

There are more observations but let me stop here for now.

Are you done?

Jobless you!

miyagi01:
My addiction is loving BAT too much and not seeing that stop anytime soon

Shaa no carry Ebola come Naija again oo

BAT has never been associated with good things

Stupid desire for sex

Every addiction is used as a coping mechanism for trauma.

Trauma is an emotional response to a terrible event such as abuse (physical or emotional), sexual violence (rape,) natural disaster, bad accident etc.

Long-term emotional response may include mood swings, relationship challenges, flashbacks, addictions, anger, social anxiety etc.

It is important to seek professional help from as psychologist or psychiatrist or psychotherapist.

The solution is not to assume God would overlook any of these problems but to seek for help

May God deliver you from it,

wiseone28:
Making money everyday

Sniper101:
Dicking somebody's wife

stairway to heaven or hell

Sport betting dats my biggest problem

Mine is brokeness ....Wanna break away from that Chain

Socratiz:
Every addiction is used as a coping mechanism for trauma.

Trauma is an emotional response to a terrible event such as abuse (physical or emotional), sexual violence (rape,) natural disaster, bad accident etc.

Long-term emotional response may include mood swings, relationship challenges, flashbacks, addictions, anger, social anxiety etc.

It is important to seek professional help from as psychologist or psychiatrist or psychotherapist.

The solution is not to assume God would overlook any of these problems but to seek for help

It does not work joor. Mine started preaching the Holy Bible to me as if I was some possessed devil.

I have since given up as I believe it's a way of life. Trauma will find you even if you don't look for it.

We will all be done some day. None will be alive by year 2150.

Comrade, I hail ooo!

NOETHNICITY:
Mine is beautiful women

It was easy for me to give up alcohol and smoking.

But whenever I’m driving and I see a very beautiful womam I apply my breaks without thinking.

Christane:
I was ashamed to say it but it is masturbation and blue films

jubrilELsudan:
KUKUNASE

Which one be KUKUNASE?

Nothing really except i would call using my phone for social media business post and addiction.

Honesty i am grateful to God that there is no vice or habit i am addicted to.

Hezzyluv:


Are you always busy? (Do you have work that takes most of your time?)

why ona dey talk like mumu... U go work 24 hrs a day? Masturbation takes minutes from ur spare time and it has nothing to do with ur engagements

SportBettinGS

MaryJane. I really want to stop

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It does not work joor. Mine started preaching the Holy Bible to me as if I was some possessed devil.

I have since given up as I believe it's a way of life. Trauma will find you even if you don't look for it.

We will all be done some day. None will be alive by year 2150.

You must have related with an untrained counsellor.

The truth is that pastors give advice, they don't counsel.

Counseling requires training.

I have had 5 years training to become a certified Counsellor and I still do lots of Continuous Professional Development courses

If you work with a certified Counsellor, you will discover that it is helpful.

I help people recover from all forms of addictions and also do marriage counseling.

Please approach a qualified counselor and you will see the difference.

By the way, anyone who is not registered with Counselling Association of Nigeria is not a qualified counselor.

spiceadole:
Masturbation...

I don't even enjoy my husband touching me.

I prefer to touch myself

for real

DamnnNiggarr:
What is that habit or addiction that you have been battling or battled for long, with almost every of the resources available to you, but it still looks like the habit is winning, that you can't go awhile without engaging in it? and that sometimes, you wish God could just be overlooking it and not count it as a sin against you?

Mine is WRATH
Supposing, I was given the opportunity to see God face-to-face to make a request, and God asked me to choose a habit/sin that I would want to be deleted from the list of sins, without batting an eyelid, I will immediately choose WRATH.

Anger is one habit that has held me down for long, which I've battled with almost all the resources available to me, it's sometimes causes a great issue between me and the members of my family or the public, most of the time, I'll curse the hell out of my wife, family member or any person, at a slightest provocation. I lost a great contract deal at one time as a result of this issue of anger because the client said what I didn't want to hear.

Sometimes, I would be tempted to engage in activities that would help me stay away from things that cause one to be angered and be happy at all times such as womanizing, alcoholism and gluttony, but as God would have it, I've controlled myself not to indulge in such types of activities as they reduce one to a piece of bread.

Please house, for those that have been and successfully gotten out of this issue, how did you do it? What magic did you you apply to overcome it?

Please help a brother.

By personality you are a choleric. You are driven by anger and a result oriented person.

People given to anger are avoided even by family members because of their sarcastic statements and abusive words. Such people are very manipulative as well. They use people to get their goals.

To overcome anger, be filled with God's presence and the Holy Spirit by spending time in prayers, praises and Bible study.

You need the fruits of the Holy Spirit, especially love, self control, meekness, etc.

I would commend a book written by the late Tim LaHaye : Spirit controlled temperaments.

Anger
Rescinding decision

What's up

spiceadole:


What for?

You think you have seen a foolish woman?

Smh

Can someone here teach me this masturbation? I don't know how to do it and I am very much interested in it. Send me a Whatsap message if you are in Lagos and willing to teach me for free. LOL. 08165807578. Thanks

spiceadole:


The marriage can go to hell anytime.
The most important thing is I have kids and a source of income.
I don't enjoy sex..that's it

Can you please open up to your husband?

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