Okoroawusa:
A single mother said no sex before marriage and you agreed.... what is wrong with young men of this generation?

Russia should declare another World War just to toughen our men a little because some of our guys are getting weaker day by day

Oga stop been a SIMP. How can a lady with a child give you rules of no sex before marriage and still ask you to cater for her needs and that of her child... Oga stop using your heart to think and start using your head.

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

Chai I pity for this oops shaa!

Like she asked you how much you are bringing for another man’s daughter school fees directly?


Omo na only God know where Una Dey meet and entertain all this animals oo

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.


My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

RUN OOOO

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

Are you ready for that responsibility for her needs and that of her daughter.

But her entitlement mindset is a red flag

Werey say single mother talk say no sex him sef gree, virgin dey tell me no sex before marriage I dey Waka e Kon be OG for sex

PlayMaker14:
Maybe that's one of the reasons the baby daddy took to his heels.

this made me remembered this popular advert on MORTEN MOSQUITO COIL "Run For Your Life"

Sweetvie:
Wo I don't know
Maybe she trying to figure out if op is gonna accept her daughter as his own since their relationship is going somewhere. See ehn you too like question

lol
you can sense the entitlement mentality from her statement "How much are you bringing for my daughters skul fees?". she could have asked him in a polite manner instead of making it looks as if he's the one responsible for the child's upkeep while the real dad is somewhere else.
Secondly, She even gave him a condition "No Sex before marriage". she can't give him sex b4 marriage but she can test him with her daughter's skul fees...

Okoroawusa:
A single mother said no sex before marriage and you agreed.... what is wrong with young men of this generation?

I swear tear comot for my eye reading that part, isn't that pure wickedness, I tire

FREDCLSSICO7:


lol
you can sense the entitlement mentality from her statement "How much are you bringing for my daughters skul fees?". she could have asked him in a polite manner instead of making it looks as if he's the one responsible for the child's upkeep while the real dad is somewhere else.
Secondly, She even gave him a condition "No Sex before marriage". she can't give him sex b4 marriage but she can test him with her daughter's skul fees...

Hmmm... You're right I guess

I met an incredibly beautiful woman, and it seems I fell in love at first sight. But my friends told me that they know her and that I should think whether I should meet her. Because she is divorced and has a daughter after the marriage whom she is raising on her own. It seems to be quite a serious reason to think about whether I need a relationship with a woman who has a child. But there is nothing wrong with that, right?

Hi. I completely agree, if you are not afraid of children and normally perceive the fact that some nice women have already been married and it does not scare you, then I do not see any problems for your courtship and dating with her. I can only advise you to learn more about the experience of men dating women with kids to understand what awaits you in a relationship. It will help you better understand whether you are ready for such a relationship.

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

a single mother dey tell you no sex till after marriage? Tell the person seated next to u to help me wipe u oraimo cord for head.

Sweetvie:
Hmmm
Well, why is she asking you for her own daughter fees? I think maybe she is just testing you coz clearly she's not suppose to ask when you ain't the father. Well, there's nothing wrong in helping her out tho'

Please why do you like to sound dumb all the time

Okoroawusa:
A single mother said no sex before marriage and you agreed.... what is wrong with young men of this generation?

Have been looking for someone to tell him this

SPAMBOX7:
Please why do you like to sound dumb all the time

Like you, you mean?

Sweetvie:
Like you, you mean?

Honestly I really had plans to meet you someday and we smash but the way you always sound turned me the fvck off. Such a pity

Lee99:
Foolish OP, let me just assume the story is fake, if it's not you be mumu mugu man, you no get sense, overused borehole wey don get 1:0 handicap dey tell you no sex before marriage, you too as the big fool you are dey send am money, Omo my law na money for hand back for ground I can't bankroll a female and you give me no sex before marriage condition, unless Ogun wan kill your papa

NasoLifeBe
Hahahahahahahh

SPAMBOX7:
Honestly I really had plans to meet you someday and we smash but the way you always sound turned me the fvck off. Such a pity

Lol... Meet one day? You won't even be able to stand in front of me and tell me this rubbish actually

Dating a broke single mother lol wtf lol backward hustling.

Sweetvie:
Lol... Meet one day? You won't even be able to stand in front of me and tell me this rubbish actually

If you fine pass cleopatra if you dumb you shit to me. Facts

SPAMBOX7:
If you fine pass cleopatra if you dumb you shit to me. Facts

Lol... Forget fine
Am talking about caliber.

Sweetvie:
Lol... Forget fine
Am talking about caliber.

Lmfao. You got class, is it money or a great career?. Or you a good cook or can suck and prolly ride your man like a bitch? Or more?
If you sound dumb I still don't need your ass. Sorry

Okoroawusa:
A single mother said no sex before marriage and you agreed.... what is wrong with young men of this generation?

Honestly. No sex before marriage but she had sex before marriage.

She also wants him to train her child.


Wonder shall never end.

SPAMBOX7:
Lmfao. You got class, is it money or a great career?. Or you a good cook or can suck and prolly ride your man like a bitch? Or more?
If you sound dumb I still don't need your ass. Sorry

Lol... You're really dumb. If not you'll be able to read btwn lines. Olodo
It's someone in your level you can f**k dear so what are you saying?

Sweetvie:
Lol... You're really dumb. If not you'll be able to read btwn lines. Olodo
It's someone in your level you can f**k dear so what are you saying?

You are right. I'm not your mate. Too big for your ass

I'm off the opinion that not all single mothers are wayward or lived a promiscuous life. Different strokes for different folks anyway. There are so many things I look out for in a relationship asides sex.

What if we were intimate with no restrictions, will the comments from some of you still be same or what?

If she says “No sex till marriage” why not tell her “No Money till Sex” or “No money till you are ready” too

[i][/i][b][/b]What if the father of the child is late?

coputa:
She doesn't has the right to ask,but since you've shown interest in her coupled with the financial assistance you use to give to her,hence the demand.Try to check the depth of the water you are about to jump into,once you marry a single mother,you also married to all her responsibilities,try to know why the child's father left her, because,what drove that guy away is still there to haunt you.

U will understand why the man is said to be irresponsible.

If you married her you will regret the day you were born. No be curse.