I've always said it and I'll keep saying it, 80% of sex is about communication. Don't just pounce on your wife and hammer away, communicate. I'm sure you must have heard about "Love Language", develop your own sex language. A code that is only understood by you and your wife.

1) Have a way of hinting to Her about sex. Those days when we just got married Mrs. O and I use to have a sex language.
The moment I tell her, "there's going to be a crusade tonight oh". She understands. Then she will sometimes say, "You and crusade are you not tired?"
I'll respond like, "Souls must be won into the kingdom, and the kingdom of God must be populated oh"
She'll say, "I hope you have prepared your message"
I'll say, "I'm working on it, I'm not satisfied with the number of souls won the last time, we must win more souls and....https://www.allsinglesandmarried.com/2022/11/sweetest-sex-in-marriage-strictly-for.html