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Re: . by Mrklemo(m): 7:43am On Nov 23, 2022 |
deewhydoski:.. Report to spiritual father... No be Pastor be dat?.. You don't trust your parents but trust a spiritual father... Lol. |
Re: . by InfinityFabric: 7:46am On Nov 23, 2022 |
after dating my husband for some yearsafter wasting my time with him for some years. You wasted your youth, now you're being relegated to baby pumper. Enjoy your new job title. So u didn't know all these while dating? Abi |
Re: . by deewhydoski(m): 11:25am On Nov 23, 2022 |
Mrklemo:So what happen to Pastor, Is it all pastor that are bad. Did u see anywhere in my writeup that I said I do not trust my parents. If u report ur wife to ur mum, ur mum will side you and she will give u advice that will suit u if she report u to her mum too same thing will happen. So both ur parent will start getting into ur head and it will cause problem for your family. It is better to look for someone that is neutral that is not member of u and ur wife family, it is the person that will not take side and be neutral....it is better to report ur case to a spiritual father that u and ur wife trusted most. Peace |
Re: . by DonnyD24hj: 7:26pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Hello everyone. I thought that when I propose a serious relationship to a girl with whom I had a good time several times, she would be very happy. But now we announced that we are dating and she doesn't seem to be very enthusiastic about being in love with me. What could be wrong? Maybe I should have made some party or given some gift in honor of this event? Because I am really surprised by her coldness in the relationship. |
Re: . by AstroZombby09: 8:46pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Hi. Maybe it's because she's not in love with you. Having a good time is one thing, but maybe she was just showing sympathy and nothing more and you accelerated the events. Maybe there are no feelings but she sees the benefits of being in a relationship with you? Unrequited love has exactly these signs. More about this in the article https://easy-dating.net/unrequited-love dedicated to this topic. I advise you to read it as soon as possible and find out the truth, and whether you are being used? |
Re: . by Divoc19(f): 10:36pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
One man's advice is another man's suicide not imadiyi: |
Re: . by Nobody: 10:47pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Divoc19:It's unfortunate that most humans have failed to realize that sometimes, our thoughts have the capableness of betraying our feelings. |
Re: . by Divoc19(f): 12:38am On Nov 24, 2022 |
You have already noted the right expression for these kind of issues. imadiyi: |
Re: . by frozen70(f): 5:07am On Nov 24, 2022 |
Mammie330: Just online flirt and you are getting angry What happens if he does it real life, you will get mad, right ? Just keep cautioning him until you get tired of it Meanwhile he may be doing it for the fun of it Men don't really get satisfied being with one woman So he wants to explore and you are lucky he is doing so online Is either he stops it or he does it in reality with them Left for me, relax and concentrate on your marriage, he is just entertaining himself and nothing else |
Re: . by Nobody: 7:21am On Nov 24, 2022 |
Divoc19:That's just the reality of trust in a relationship; whether in marriage or courtship. Both partners need to understand each other deeply, so as to sustain the love they shared. So, counsel like move-on, all men/women are cheat, be expecting your breakfast, blah blah blah, kill rather than healing. |
Re: . by Mrklemo(m): 11:29am On Nov 24, 2022 |
deewhydoski: I get your point. Shalom |
Re: . by Autobot05: 11:33am On Nov 24, 2022 |
brosom: I agree with you ... I can flirt all day but I won't every get past that |
Re: . by Divoc19(f): 11:43am On Nov 24, 2022 |
If it was as simple as it sounds the op wouldn't have to face this current issue. Adulthood and life it self is not easy. There is more to marriage than sex and romance. imadiyi: |
Re: . by Nobody: 1:34pm On Nov 24, 2022 |
Divoc19:All we've both been talking about are facts. But it's just that that thing called "relationship" is extremely complicated. However, my perceived solution is just for you to imbibe that word known as "trust", to have peace and love serenity, irrespective of other contrary vibes that may have transpired |
Re: . by Divoc19(f): 2:37pm On Nov 24, 2022 |
How do you 'Trust' someone that does not love or care about you, deceived you or disappointed you, or played you, or took you for granted or have different view about life in general..... to make it worse you are already 'IN' before you find 'OUT' Babe, na to manage and if you can't manage you move on. Try live a free life because life is too short to live through stress. My best advice ever You can't change anybody... Even God wey create us, we dey disappoint am steady (sin) according to religion imadiyi: |
Re: . by Franciscabless(f): 2:44pm On Nov 24, 2022 |
It doesn’t sound like he respects your relationship if he’s not willing to change, leave him and find someone who will appreciate you. |
Re: . by EM123: 5:06pm On Nov 24, 2022 |
Hollybratt:lol kids with their kind of comment , you think is easy to get divorce? I don't even know if your parent is still leaving together that is why you are playing with divorce,? Op i will advice you to go on with your marriage , marriage has it's difficulty , and don't think that your housband will stick to only you , even if youS conplain to your parent or his parEnt dey will not do anything about it , is norMal for men , even your own father is also a flirt , so please deal with it with care husband are scarce dis days. If you tell anybody they will tell you to pray for him he will change , that is only advice you will recieve. |
Re: . by Nobody: 6:03pm On Nov 24, 2022 |
Divoc19:Smilessss. You don't have to reach a conclusion when you are just beginning. Remember, it takes two to tangle. And amongst the two that tangles, one must be subjective. This is also applicable to marriage, friendship, colleagues, siblings etc. For a relationship of any kind to blossom, one of the half must be subjective; something I refer to tolerance. Either of a man or his partner must be willing to tolerate excesses, else, the relationship will fail. In life, everything has a break even point. It's at that point the law of diminishing returns come to play. No matter the excesses of one's partner, it will surely gets to level where he/she will begin to feel remorseful over his/her action or inaction. All these requires patience; which is why it remains the key to a successful marriage. My dear, I don't want to go on and on. Let me alight for now. |
Re: . by Hollybratt(m): 11:04am On Nov 26, 2022 |
EM123:Coming from a slave who dey find job |
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