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Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Wealthbrain22(m): 11:27am On Nov 23, 2022 |
Since I was little I have hardly made friends because I realized early in life I was a target to society. From an early age they put a scar in my forehead because “they liked me so much” and till date that scar is still there. I grew up knowing I was a target because of my natural goodlooks. I never made lots of friends because i became scared of people and their intentions. Anytime I was in the midst of my friends, I looked better than everyone facially and everyone always tried to make subtle fun of me just to bring down my “ego” and I was very quiet so I don’t know which “ego” they tried to bring down. Everyone in the group would always pick fun at me just because I looked better than them all and I would go home feeling so bad. This continued into my early adulthood and the same happened in church and in school, I was always a target..everyone tried to be around me and when they do they start throwing shots at me to hurt my self esteem. After a while I stopped allowing anyone near me, I was very intentional about my circle and that’s when they labeled me “proud” and the hate grew worse. Fast forward to now my thirties, I’m fairly rich and very comfortable and it’s the adults now who have picked up from where my childhood experiences stopped. I have a neighbor who comes to look for me 8 to 9 times everyday. I recently noticed anytime we are in public he notices how everyone tries to talk to me and be friendly with me and just completely ignores him. Now every time we are in public he tries to say hurtful things to me but I always rebuke him and put him in his place every time. Now I’m starting to get uncomfortable with the so called “friendship” and I’m thinking of blocking him off but this guy literally lives in the same compound as me. And the time I first blocked him off this man sent people to come beg me to forgive him. I’m quite sure if I wasn’t so private people would have since poisoned or killed me just because they envy me. God is with me. Please if you stand out of the crowd for your looks, success or intelligence , be very careful because almost everyone around you hate you but won’t show it except you’re smart enough to figure it out. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by imiski(m): 11:33am On Nov 23, 2022 |
Op you go refund me my 5mb way I waste to open this page. I thought I was about to read something insightful. My people say "if everywhere you go shit dey smell check yourself". If everybody wants to hurt you with words all the time, it's either your very sensitive or have a serious ego problem. I have handsome friends and I like moving around with them. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by marlow1962(m): 11:40am On Nov 23, 2022 |
![]() imiski:Omo me self taya 1 Like |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by qtguru(m): 11:47am On Nov 23, 2022 |
I agree, they've killed my neighbour for his car, so I'm not too close and accessible and that trusting of everyone. Those closest to you are more likely to kill you. Our security killed him. This Lagos is wild. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Nobody: 12:07pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
If you live in the midst of hateful scoundrels, dissociate yourself and go to where "do wells" are. That way you get peace of mind. 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Kaycee54321(m): 12:24pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
wealthbrain22, I do not think your neighbour should be your friend. Neighbours, acquaintances, colleagues, team mates (if you play sports)...should all have their respective boundaries. What I do, is, I always try to be in the midst of people doing way better than I am. That way, I always have something higher to aim for, while keeping your kind of (hateful) experience to the bare minimum. And yes, Onye ima ga eme gi iwa. One who knows you, has the greatest power to harm you. 13 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by ObalendeCMS: 12:46pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Wealthbrain22: I’ve always experienced this from childhood. 1 Like |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by lolu2019: 12:59pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
It is a normal thing.especially when people think u r better than them. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by TastyFriedPussy: 2:24pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Kaycee54321:if everyone thinks like this, then you'll probably have no body better than you to be in the midst of 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Slmgirldippussy: 2:34pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Wealthbrain22: Flesh and blood have not reveal this to you. Anywhere you are and you notce you are the best please Oga run away. Except work/biz related 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Slmgirldippussy: 2:35pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
imiski: What Op posted is actually for sensible people I will refund it 5mb 1 Like |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Slmgirldippussy: 2:38pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Kaycee54321: Omo year ago I found myself among some never do well. With my little biz and side hustle they always see me as Dangote They come with problems for me to solve always . When my mom fell sick for year they all run away from me cos the sickness really shake me. Now they want to be friend with me again. I just lock up 4 Likes |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Slmgirldippussy: 2:38pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Kaycee54321: Omo year ago I found myself among some never do well. With my little biz and side hustle they always see me as Dangote They come with problems for me to solve always . When my mom fell sick for year they all run away from me cos the sickness really shake me. Now they want to be friend with me again. I just lock up . I don't allow them do me any favor at all. I don't want to be indebted to let lifers 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Emma2Seconds: 3:03pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
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Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by CaveAdullam: 4:47pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
1. On a general note, people favor beautiful men and women - the halo effect. They allocate good things and behavior to them. If competence and skills are similar between two males or females, looks automatically become the distinguishing factor. In most cases, looks are favored above competence, ill behavior, and integrity. 2. If people hate you because of your looks you wouldn't have had them gravitate toward you for camaraderie. Your physique and beauty are social proof. Attaching themselves to you make them share in that same love and attention you receive. 3. You might think people hate you because of your looks, wait till you get physically disabled and unfit...you'll experience hate pro max. Observe well, parents treat their most attractive kids better than their less attractive siblings. Go to motor parks and slumps, you'll see that nobody cares about the ugly man; ugly women only leverage their sexuality for social acceptance. 4. Humans proclaim "don't judge a book by its cover" but it is the same humans that judge other humans by their looks before their character and personality. Add wealth or occupy a totem pole in society and you'll be given a leeway for life. You'll get them hooked with your looks and physique; if you are wealthy, you have them under your control; good looks and wealth; you become their idol. 5. Humans play on the spectrum of morality, immorality, and amorality, even God. Love and hate reside in us which is contingent on the presence or absence of our desires. 6. The people that hate you because of your looks do so because your looks make them extinct in the presence of others or a larger audience. They lack love, care, and attention. 7. Instinctually, you are an obstacle to all that they can gain. Such behavior elicits competition and rivalry. In the wild and animal kingdom, there is an immediate physical fight while in the human world jealousy breeds until it compounds to physical harm, browbeating, shame, or even neglect. 8. Since you have noticed this, the best you can do for yourself is: A. Take residence in a private area. B. Spend most time with rich and beautiful people and immaculate minds like yours. C. Increase the level of your introversion. D. Ghost people most time. E. Don't allow them to catch you less busy, always be working or pretend to do so when you sight them coming as it will make them not spend much time with you. F. Don't create too much time for them, just a few seconds of chit chats and you can call it a day. 9. They will harm you because you pose as a threat, and they will do so directly or by proxy. They are wicked manipulators and deceptive sycophants. Beware of them. Thanks. 10 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Nobody: 4:56pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
CaveAdullam:This encyclopedia i behold... let it drop ![]() ![]() Seen and Signed @Caveadullam. You no kill lie at all ![]() |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Martinez39s(m): 4:59pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
CaveAdullam:The sage is about to drop something. ![]() |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Magnoliaa(f): 5:24pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Persephone1: You know it. ![]() Erm, brosky CaveAdullam, nor forget your girls here o. We're still waiting for the wedding IVs. 1 Like |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Nobody: 5:58pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: ![]() ![]() Bros no fall our hands today ![]() Wedding IVs? ![]() ![]() |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Magnoliaa(f): 6:00pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Persephone1: Ehen now. |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by imiski(m): 8:22pm On Nov 23, 2022 |
Slmgirldippussy:0030501772 access bank. This op is obviously has a big ego or very sensitive. He said he is afraid of making friends. How can people always want to make hurtful remarks to you because of good looks. |
Re: Men With Things To Offer Are Often Targets To Society by Nobody: 6:37am On Nov 24, 2022 |
imiski: It's better to remain silent when you know nothing. |
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