MatrixReloaded:
As a man before u enter a family, ask yourself are you going to be the breadwinner of all the extended family. Again you need to sit your partner down and tell her the whole koko about expense and living life of generosity. Don't spend what you will regret after and don't spend to impress anyone.

For me i believe it is the kind of family the man marries from,i have a brother in-law which i have never demanded anything from, i don't just fancy it....no b say we no dey in good terms o.....i understand as tins b so i hustle for mine besides he has a family now to take care of

Mikedel80:
I currently have two brother in-laws. One from my sister's side and the other from my wife side. I'm not in talking terms with the two right now. I have sacrificed alot for the two in different occasions. But none of them can sacrifice anything for me. One I lent him 150k, he has refused to pay back even when he sold land. The other one I sold my laptop to assist him with funds during his wedding. I have done alot of uncountable sacrifices I don't want to start mentioning here. I'm coming to a conclusion that most in-laws are useless. I have heard a lot of stories from other families that shows that most in-laws are just not worth it. Even my father and his brother in-law dont talk. That one has never visited us since my father married his sister. A lot of stories.

Please share your own stories before I conclude that most brother and sister in-laws are useless.

U take life too serious...

Don't sacrifice too much for people.. Nice people usually put Dem sevles in tight corners.