Everyone is optimistic about the future, but there are hurting truths of life that no one can run away from.

These are the 10 hurting truths of life that you have to understand and accept before you grow old and realize they are actually bitter.

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1. You won’t stay young forever.
People grow from childhood to adulthood, and it seems long enough for teenagers that they forget to lay the foundation for their future.

If you can study your profession when still young, do not mess up with it because you will rarely have the time again.

Accomplish sensible stuff when you are still young so that when you get older, you love the little or bigger achievements in your life, without regrets of lazing in your youth age when you were super energetic to get work done.

2. People will want you to grow and achieve, but not beyond them
Everyone wants to become the best and be respected by society. Most people would want to achieve many significant goals in life, and although they wish their fellows success in life too, most people will not like it if your success is beyond theirs.

Because many people want to be the best of the generation, and want to be the example in every story.

3. Nobody wants to be friends with poor people.
There is nothing good about being poor until the government and other well-wishers give some free food and other free pieces of stuff.

Poor people are assumed to have no significant and practical ideas to share with others. Since everyone wants to learn from the best.

Most tycoons will tell you that there is no advice to benefit from poor people.

So, many young people with bigger expectations will only see it practical to associate themselves, with guys who have walked the path they are willing to take.

4. Your mistakes are other people’s opportunity
There are just as hundreds of other people willing to replace you if you are messing in your dream job.

There are hundreds of people that are just about to commit to those ideas in your brain that you fear launching today.

Your faults and fear are other people’s opportunity

5. Your virtue will not save you in old age but your saving will.
Do not forget to invest in yourself and strongly embrace self-reliance over expecting reciprocated hands

6. You will lose a lot of friends as you grow, especially those you thought would always be with you.
Friends are made up of individuals with similar ideas. If you select one path, you will definitely lose the bond with your friends who have taken different paths or professions.

For instance, when you were in high school you had friends and always spend quality time with them.

Regardless, when you joined your College, you lost some best friends and formed new friendships as well.

Therefore, you shouldn’t hesitate to lose some of the close friends in the journey of your life if necessary.

Likewise, not everyone will view your business ideas are the best fit, in this case, they will depart and invest in the kind of ideas they value

7. No one cares about you unless you are beautiful, rich, or popular.
No one will take you seriously when you are launching your ideas. It is upon you to persuade your prospects and sell them your quality products.

And that is how to grow your influence and become popular like the beautiful, the rich, and the popular people on social media with huge, humble, followers who mind what they have to post every minute.

You have to accept that you are young and be consistent with whatever you do until someday, people recognize your brand

8. People will hug you in front and will stab you in your back.
Not everyone you meet and share your business idea with will be honestly willing to help you. They can raise barriers and sponsor your failure.

Involving everyone in your life journey is usually not the best approach. Be careful when making every move in life

Therefore, you should not post your small achievements on social media, rather, keep silent about your moves.

9. Sometimes, Your Best Isn’t Good enough
Most people are used to the idea of

“Work hard and you can achieve anything.”

But here is the contradiction,,

‘You can not achieve everything by working hard

For example, only the best athletes do participate in the Commonwealth Games, however, not all the participants will get the Gold, Silver, or Bronze despite putting in all their energy.

People have varied abilities and each one should identify where their strength will bear them better results.

10. The amount of money you have determines the amount of “ respect” you’ll get from the people.
Unfortunately, it is bitter to lose respect for the fact you are not rich.

But who cares?

Society will always respect the wealthiest first. Then, the rich amongst the poor will come last, and that is the reality, society doesn’t treat every member equally.

Well, we just get to the end of the hurting truths of life.