As I type this , I reminisced what just happened at a gymn center I took my daughter to.

What effrontery, what audacity, what guts does the attendee has to push me away....

This the gist ......

It happens that I had the privilege to drive my daughter to a gymn center along stadium road here in port harcourt for her classes on Saturdays
( pls don’t ask me what is she doing at the gym place)

Today I dress very casual because I was watching a World Cup match ( don’t ask me who is playing either), just on my shorts and almost faded polo to go pick her because it was my cousin that dropped her in the morning .

This time my cousin who stay with me for the moment was looking so fresh up and nice dressed and I was looking like his driver. That’s not a big deal so we entered the building, everybody was greeting my younger cousin, welcome sir, welcome sir, even the security at the entrance. That’s not a big deal.

To my greatest surprise when we got into the mean arena my daughter is, she hasn’t notice me so I beckoned on one of the pretty young attendees to go fetch her for me , but she refuse, she downplayed my request.
because i wasn’t dressed well was totally ignored.
I almost wept,
My cousin noticed it and ask if he could help get my daughter, I oblige.

It was when the pretty lady saw my cousin that she opened up and ask him to wait, she will get her for us.

To cut the scenario short, my daughter ran towards me like daughter and father cruise that the foolish lady knew I wasn’t joking .
I just took my kid away and went home.

What did I learn from such scenario
1. To be properly dressed at all time
2. I learn also not to under rate people, the guy you think is a nobody can be the person you need for help
Stay blessed my people.

I don't understand these your write up oga

Congrats or I'm sorry all that happened to you.

Nigeria is a superficially deferential society...I mean it could happen anywhere I guess but Nigeria's own is on steroids. Sorry about that lol

Although you tried to portray simplicity in your write-up, yet your pride kept getting in the way.

Too much of "don't ask me" in your story.

Ekele22:
As I type this , I reminisced what just happened at a gymn center I took my daughter to.

What effrontery, what audacity, what guts does the attendee has to push me away....

This the gist ......

It happens that I had the privilege to drive my daughter to a gymn center along stadium road here in port harcourt for her classes on Saturdays
( pls don’t ask me what is she doing at the gym place)

Today I dress very casual because I was watching a World Cup match ( don’t ask me who is playing either), just on my shorts and almost faded polo to go pick her because it was my cousin that dropped her in the morning .

This time my cousin who stay with me for the moment was looking so fresh up and nice dressed and I was looking like his driver. That’s not a big deal so we entered the building, everybody was greeting my younger cousin, welcome sir, welcome sir, even the security at the entrance. That’s not a big deal.

To my greatest surprise when we got into the mean arena my daughter is, she hasn’t notice me so I beckoned on one of the pretty young attendees to go fetch her for me , but she refuse, she downplayed my request.
because i wasn’t dressed well was totally ignored.
I almost wept,
My cousin noticed it and ask if he could help get my daughter, I oblige.

It was when the pretty lady saw my cousin that she opened up and ask him to wait, she will get her for us.

To cut the scenario short, my daughter ran towards me like daughter and father cruise that the foolish lady knew I wasn’t joking .
I just took my kid away and went home.

What did I learn from such scenario
1. To be properly dressed at all time
2. I learn also not to under rate people, the guy you think is a nobody can be the person you need for help
Stay blessed my people.

stadium road now have a gym?

Waw! That's grate. I once stayed behind that filling station what's is it called self? Mosaic I guess.

I miss Port Harcourt.

But Indians dress same way, just on shorts with their faded polo.

If you see how polite, these attendants are, towards them. You will ask your "but if i was the one that dressed like this they will say am poor"

Ekele22:
As I type this , I reminisced what just happened at a gymn center I took my daughter to.

What effrontery, what audacity, what guts does the attendee has to push me away....

This the gist ......

It happens that I had the privilege to drive my daughter to a gymn center along stadium road here in port harcourt for her classes on Saturdays
( pls don’t ask me what is she doing at the gym place)

Today I dress very casual because I was watching a World Cup match ( don’t ask me who is playing either), just on my shorts and almost faded polo to go pick her because it was my cousin that dropped her in the morning .

This time my cousin who stay with me for the moment was looking so fresh up and nice dressed and I was looking like his driver. That’s not a big deal so we entered the building, everybody was greeting my younger cousin, welcome sir, welcome sir, even the security at the entrance. That’s not a big deal.

To my greatest surprise when we got into the mean arena my daughter is, she hasn’t notice me so I beckoned on one of the pretty young attendees to go fetch her for me , but she refuse, she downplayed my request.
because i wasn’t dressed well was totally ignored.
I almost wept,
My cousin noticed it and ask if he could help get my daughter, I oblige.

It was when the pretty lady saw my cousin that she opened up and ask him to wait, she will get her for us.

To cut the scenario short, my daughter ran towards me like daughter and father cruise that the foolish lady knew I wasn’t joking .
I just took my kid away and went home.

What did I learn from such scenario
1. To be properly dressed at all time
2. I learn also not to under rate people, the guy you think is a nobody can be the person you need for help
Stay blessed my people.

soo u went to gym to get ur daughter.
Thats d story.

U need weed in ur life

Miracood2:
One of the greatest quote I learnt this year is 'invest in your looks'

true for women

Miracood2:
One of the greatest quote I learnt this year is 'invest in your looks'

Na dem

This story reminds me of an experience I had some years ago.

I stopped a girl selling fufu and indicated interest in purchasing 5 wraps. She put down the big container, sold it in a nylon and went to look for change in a nearby shop. A Lexus jeep then drove by and the man asked me if the fufu was hot? I replied in the affirmative! . Then he asked me to quickly bring four wraps and bring 1000 naira change! I was flabbergasted! I told him I was not the seller but he refused to believe me....the thing pain me o! It was when I got home and sighted myself in the mirror that I understood!

Learn to dress well o!


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I know how it feels to be disrespected but in reality no one owes you respect.

And really you shouldn't expect anything from anyone or you'd be utterly sad And disappointed.

Timagex:
This story reminds me of an experience I had some years ago.

I stopped a girl selling fufu and indicated interest in purchasing 5 wraps. She put down the big container, sold it in a nylon and went to look for change in a nearby shop. A Lexus jeep then drove by and the man asked me if the fufu was hot? I replied in the affirmative! . Then he asked me to quickly bring four wraps and bring 1000 naira change! I was flabbergasted! I told him I was not the seller but he refused to believe me....the thing pain me o! It was when I got home and sighted myself in the mirror that I understood!

Learn to dress well o!

Lmao. Dressing is important.

It's one of the core values of rotaracts club.

Ekele22:
As I type this , I reminisced what just happened at a gymn center I took my daughter to.

What effrontery, what audacity, what guts does the attendee has to push me away....

This the gist ......

It happens that I had the privilege to drive my daughter to a gymn center along stadium road here in port harcourt for her classes on Saturdays
( pls don’t ask me what is she doing at the gym place)

Today I dress very casual because I was watching a World Cup match ( don’t ask me who is playing either), just on my shorts and almost faded polo to go pick her because it was my cousin that dropped her in the morning .

This time my cousin who stay with me for the moment was looking so fresh up and nice dressed and I was looking like his driver. That’s not a big deal so we entered the building, everybody was greeting my younger cousin, welcome sir, welcome sir, even the security at the entrance. That’s not a big deal.

To my greatest surprise when we got into the mean arena my daughter is, she hasn’t notice me so I beckoned on one of the pretty young attendees to go fetch her for me , but she refuse, she downplayed my request.
because i wasn’t dressed well was totally ignored.
I almost wept,
My cousin noticed it and ask if he could help get my daughter, I oblige.

It was when the pretty lady saw my cousin that she opened up and ask him to wait, she will get her for us.

To cut the scenario short, my daughter ran towards me like daughter and father cruise that the foolish lady knew I wasn’t joking .
I just took my kid away and went home.

What did I learn from such scenario
1. To be properly dressed at all time
2. I learn also not to under rate people, the guy you think is a nobody can be the person you need for help
Stay blessed my people.

Op is just like me..I am not bothered about my dressing and I am not bothered what ppl say..only improving my cash flow and looking for the next best investment opportunity. If you see me for road I fit worse pass your house boy sef.

First impression matters. Unfortunately, you are learning this late in life.

jclassiq:
I know how it feels to be disrespected but in reality no one owes you respect.

And really you shouldn't expect anything from anyone or you'd be utterly sad And disappointed.

Very wrong. Everyone deserves respect until they lose it. You sound like a terrible person!

Hmmm

Ekele22:
As I type this , I reminisced what just happened at a gymn center I took my daughter to.

What effrontery, what audacity, what guts does the attendee has to push me away....

This the gist ......

It happens that I had the privilege to drive my daughter to a gymn center along stadium road here in port harcourt for her classes on Saturdays
( pls don’t ask me what is she doing at the gym place)

Today I dress very casual because I was watching a World Cup match ( don’t ask me who is playing either), just on my shorts and almost faded polo to go pick her because it was my cousin that dropped her in the morning .

This time my cousin who stay with me for the moment was looking so fresh up and nice dressed and I was looking like his driver. That’s not a big deal so we entered the building, everybody was greeting my younger cousin, welcome sir, welcome sir, even the security at the entrance. That’s not a big deal.

To my greatest surprise when we got into the mean arena my daughter is, she hasn’t notice me so I beckoned on one of the pretty young attendees to go fetch her for me , but she refuse, she downplayed my request.
because i wasn’t dressed well was totally ignored.
I almost wept,
My cousin noticed it and ask if he could help get my daughter, I oblige.

It was when the pretty lady saw my cousin that she opened up and ask him to wait, she will get her for us.

To cut the scenario short, my daughter ran towards me like daughter and father cruise that the foolish lady knew I wasn’t joking .
I just took my kid away and went home.

What did I learn from such scenario
1. To be properly dressed at all time
2. I learn also not to under rate people, the guy you think is a nobody can be the person you need for help
Stay blessed my people.

And never go beyond your ratings based on low keys, I use to think like that but people will disrespect or disregard you.
The second part, I can resonate with it based on the people you think are your friends are not. But the people you think are your enemies would shock you to be the people who are your friends.

jclassiq:


Lmao. Dressing is important.

It's one of the core values of rotaracts club.

What is the rotaracts club?

It seems like the Op ego was bruised, no wonder he wrote this to calm himself down

juniorstar:

Op is just like me..I am not bothered about my dressing and I am not bothered what ppl say..only improving my cash flow and looking for the next best investment opportunity. If you see me for road I fit worse pass your house boy sef.

If the Op is not bothered, he won't be here writing his long story

AndroidAI:


Very wrong. Everyone deserves respect until they lose it. You sound like a terrible person!

Lmao

Respect in Nigeria

Is when you have beard, dress properly , have money and have a car.

People will respect you.

Timagex:


What is the rotaracts club?

Rotary club

AndroidAI:


Very wrong. Everyone deserves respect until they lose it. You sound like a terrible person!

Hahaha.
And you sound ignorant.
You don't always get what you deserve in reality.
Wake up and smell the coffee.

this story and it's delivery are questionable...
anyway, there is a reason "dress" is in "address".

jclassiq:


Hahaha.
And you sound ignorant.
You don't always get what you deserve in reality.
Wake up and smell the coffee.

Like I said, you sound like a terrible person!!

Op that girl is not your biological daughter. Don't ask me how I got to know.

All Nigerians are hypocrites including you sir because you will still do the same to someone else in your own turf. Nothing bad in dressing casual but even then, try to add responsibly to it to avoid future recurrence.

AndroidAI:


Like I said, you sound like a terrible person!!

Okay, buster!

Timagex:
This story reminds me of an experience I had some years ago.

I stopped a girl selling fufu and indicated interest in purchasing 5 wraps. She put down the big container, sold it in a nylon and went to look for change in a nearby shop. A Lexus jeep then drove by and the man asked me if the fufu was hot? I replied in the affirmative! . Then he asked me to quickly bring four wraps and bring 1000 naira change! I was flabbergasted! I told him I was not the seller but he refused to believe me....the thing pain me o! It was when I got home and sighted myself in the mirror that I understood!

Learn to dress well o!

This got me dripping tears.