Blessedmercy8:


Islam can permit it, fine. we don't have the same religious beliefs and practices, so it's cool but definitely not for christians.

Modified.
What I deduced from y'alls reactions here is. people enjoy and are so immersed in bad things a lot that if you try to tell them to stop, because it is sweeting them, they can bite off your head. That is what I see in all your reactions. .

Non is even arguing brightly, only attacking and tearing themselves up and down.

Bad things dey sweet. This is why it is difficult for majority to live a holy life. Too many bad things.

what is good for the goose is good for the gander

Prechgold1180:


Imagine on judgement day

You get punished for doing doggy

Like angel gabriel go just cast u into lake of fire
Bcus of doggy �

Lols...
Ahbeg oh....

Uhna stop this play oh....

[quote]Someone raised this question in church last week being a family weekend in my denomination.
She asked if it's right for christian couple to do other sex styles apart from the "mummy and daddy " style and there were mixed reactions from the youth and some of our old school parents.

One elderly woman said, there's only one way to the door while some young mothers said if both parties agree then it's fine but I ( representing the youth) was of the opinion that it's a sin. This didn't go down well with some of our middle aged mommies until I backed it up with some points..

One of the mommies was like, since they are now married, they own their bodies and can do whatever they like with it but I countered her by asking if such styles glorify God.

I went on to ask where such styles were copied from... Pornography. This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers; even if it was, it was probably during Sodom and Gomorrah and we all know God's take on their actions. Now bringing to our own time, these styles became popular when pornography took over the internet and most couples practicing it learnt it from pornographic contents ( which is a sin) probably during their worldly days and are now gradually bringing such practice into the church and trying to paint it nice by saying their bodies belong to each other therefore they can do anything.

Pornography where these styles emanated from is a sin and this makes the practice of such styles a sin as it doesn't give glory to God but the devil. As christians, I believe everything should be done in moderation and to the glory of God.

Remember, your body is the temple of the holy spirit. So, do not use worldly practices and fetishes to defile your bodies.

What you guys think?


Modified.

Ok guys, I see everyone trying to justify this act by saying it's not stated anywhere in the bible what styles couples should do but at the same time condeming the act of anal sex. What a double standard.

Now, if we are to go by your submissions, where is it stated in the bible that the VJ is the right entrance and not anal?

Were Adam and Eve taught where to use, going by your argument? No, they chose it themselves. So why kick against anal if I can't kick against different styles?

This shows that we all have a sense of right and wrong and should be able to do the right thing and not try to bend it to favor us when it's not convenient reason some can say anal sex is wrong and different styles is not right. Simple!


God bless you for this bold and correct submission.
Don't expect many people to agree you.
They've chosen the way of por.n, which is the way of Hell.

[quote author=Bahamas95 post=118711367] "This dirty styles were not in existence before now and was not practised by our forefathers;"



How did you know it wasn't in existence during their time? You dey there when dem dey knack? I dislike religious people.


Allow me enjoy my "dirty styles" in peace.

When you die and find yourself in Hell fire 🔥, you will wish you had listened to the point raised above.
The Bible warns that "There is a way that seems good to people but the end of the way is destruction. "

This is what happens when you always call the pastor to everything that is going on in your family matter Pastor will tell you not to do it but he will b doing it at home so far he or his wife will not tell you that they are doing it at home

Verysmart101:
I hate hypocrisy to the core honestly.Those sex styles are referring to that was created by porn is totally off point.People were using those styles wat before time before the advent of internet.Majority of movies including porn were real life happenings that was acted on TV.If same sex was as old as Abraham times,so Wats Ur point.Husband and wives have the right to practice whatever sex style they like.Nigerians like to be holy but the nation is getting terrible everyday.Rubbish

You're right. One of our problems is religious dogma. As far as sex is concerned in Christianity, you must be married. That's the basic prerequisite. The styles are not prescribed biblically but medically the emphasis is on safer sex: have pleasure without sexually transmitted infections & unwanted pregnancies. Science has provided us with knowledge on what to do.
The styles don't matter but some sexual practices should be avoided. Anal sex is unhealthy and is associated with anal tears, strictures, incontinence of faeces & flatus & higher risks of infections. The other problem is rape which could be associated with trauma to the genital tracts resulting in bleeding & even death. Sexual intercourse with minors is also associated with problems. Otherwise, couples should enjoy sex in a way that's pleasurable & makes them happy.

Did you think that Solomon used one style for all his 700 wives and 300 concubines?


Any style should be con sexual and not harmful to either partner.

All things bright and beautiful
All the holes deep and moist
All three holes in woman's body
The Lord made them penetrable with penis.

Amen.