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Please I Need Clarification .............. by Mainchip(f): 2:12am On Nov 27, 2022 |
I am a 28yr old lady .......pls I need advice I dnt know if something is wrong with me or it's my dad that is being over reactive cos I dnt have a mum anymore......my family thinks I am insane cos I stood my ground dat I do not want to get married....ryt frm time I had always wanted my own kids bt not marriage,cos I feel I haven't gotten anything out of life...I feel so unfulfilled with my level of success no1 believes I am normal...my parents marriage are d only peaceful marriage I ever experienced evryoda1 is a whack....I am currently pregnant and I am all excited Abt my pregnancy bt I dnt want to marry my baby daddy even if he is ready to take d big step.... nothing jst freaks me Abt d institution....I feel all d stress doesn't worth it,jst cos u want to be under a man,pple Even end up in psychiatric homes in d name of marriage,many unfulfilled dreams lies under d Institution to an extent I have it all planned out and I can take care of myself and my baby.... without my baby daddy.....I jst want to serve God make a nice footballer out of my kid..adopt another child and be happy does it mean something is wrong with me ...pls advice me ...I jst need other opinions apart from my family's own |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by clintz(m): 2:29am On Nov 27, 2022 |
Just stop being hard on yourself 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by Cutehector(m): 6:48am On Nov 27, 2022 |
You dont even care how your son will treat other women when he grows up without a father figure. |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by HarlequinLekex: 8:41am On Nov 27, 2022 |
I just dey laugh. You are an adult. Any step you take you bear the consequences whether good or bad. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by Nobody: 12:45pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Cutehector: What has her decision got to do with how her son treats other women? 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by Cutehector(m): 12:45pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jovialjune1:it has a whole lot to do. Raise up a son as a single mother and revert when he is of age 2 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by Nobody: 12:51pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Cutehector: Raising up a son as a single mother has NOTHING to do with anything, because we have men that grew up with both parents who turned out to be worse than the devil. 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by ibechris(m): 12:58pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Jovialjune1: If u are married,u will know how important that narration is. |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by Nobody: 1:03pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
ibechris: I am married, and I don't see any importance in it, because there are worse people in existence today despite living and growing up with both parents Live and let live. 3 Likes |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by dahmie2013: 2:17pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
The devil is always seeking to destroy what God created. Marriage is the only institution God created. God didn't create educational institutions. This OP will definitely want to further her education & does not see anything wrong with that, but has a problem with marriage. People celebrate more of the problems in marriage than the benefits & rewards in it. This is just the hand work of the devil 1 Like |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by frozen70(f): 8:39pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Mainchip: If within uou, you know that you are capable of taking care of your plans and you don't need a man's contribution Go ahead it's your choice |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by chinae(m): 9:47pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
Mainchip: I don't see anything wrong with your decision or mindset. My concerns is if you kept your baby papa in the loop before you got pregnant? Else I feel you have used him to drive your dreams. Have you imagined the kind of life he also envisaged (not having a child outside his final family) for himself. Since you insisted on no marriage. |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by Vision101(m): 11:14pm On Nov 27, 2022 |
This woman is only seeing today but she is not seeing tomorrow. It's your choice |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by ObalendeCMS: 1:07am On Nov 28, 2022 |
Selfish beech! I hope the pregnancy doesn’t come out as a boy child. |
Re: Please I Need Clarification .............. by meobizy(f): 10:06am On Dec 02, 2022 |
Follow your heart. You’re an adult. |
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