yes. lol

shes my wife to be so we wan sort things out

Nway stick to the thread.This we can discuss in the religious section but just know your assumptions are wrong.

back to thread pliz

ok. waiting for the challenge

Ma'am adoption is not on the list. . I expected you to suggest "contract marriage" make babies and bounce

abeg una this is not a religious thread whats going on

And who said it is?

5stardude:

Ma'am adoption is not on the list. . I expected you to suggest "contract marriage" make babies and bounce

I got a better suggestion for you.Get her to sign the Prenup. I see nothing wrong with that.
I guees its one and the same thing ,isnt it?

in the uk here marriage institution is long dead and buried the new pikin is cohabitation and born pikin then bounce

All that matters nowadays is peace of mind not status.

But that jumping in and out has its own faults as well.

Whatever the case.have peace.

My point exactly. . Why the heck do I got to lie of being faithful till death with one woman for the rest of my life when I knw I can't keep that promise plus other craps that comes from marriage? Nah.

@pendo ma'am wake up to reality please. .

REALITY101% lol

My point exactly. . Why the heck do I got to lie of being faithful till death with one woman for the rest of my life when I knw I can't keep that promise plus other craps that comes from marriage? Nah. QUESTION

Russialane:

My point exactly. . Why the heck do I got to lie of being faithful till death with one woman for the rest of my life when I knw I can't keep that promise plus other craps that comes from marriage? Nah. QUESTION

Am as real as one can get.
I once opened a thread asking if the marriage vows 'for better or for worse are a fallacy'
If you ask me I would say yes.
Things have changed soo much and sometimes things hit rock bottom so are u gonna wake up singing for better or worse till death even when its staring at you in the face?
Trust me yeah the death will surely happen like in that story I read here on nl about some lady banker plus a similar one involving a journalist.
But since people put money first nowdays then to be on the safe side.Sign the prenup!
Infact that will cause somebody to behave a bit and its a good way of testing somebody's real love if either party is loaded!

@pendo89 if i were to marry you and i give you a prenup to sign would you sign it.

Russialane:

My point exactly. . Why the heck do I got to lie of being faithful till death with one woman for the rest of my life when I knw I can't keep that promise plus other craps that comes from marriage? Nah.         QUESTION

Then you have 3 options.

Do not marry
Sign prenup and be safe
keep on cohabiting.

While you are at the 3rd option,rem that age is catching up with you and sooner or later you may not be 'all that'
Its also expensive in the long run.Dont you think so?

Russialane:

@pendo89 if i were to marry you and i give you a prenup to sign would you sign it.

And why not? I would infact draft it! I have no issues with prenups.People are just too greedy nowadays

@pendo89 that prenup way you wan draft nothing for you inside hope you are aware

i might even leave my properties for my mistresses will you sign?

75% of Nigerian women will file for divorce the following day if their men lose their jobs today.

Russialane:

@pendo89 that prenup way you wan draft nothing for you inside hope you are aware

Russialane:

i might even leave my properties for my mistresses will you sign?

Lets be clear here and this is just an example.
I dont meet a dude next thing is sign a pre and start living.Damn! I can only be a wife or single not mistress.
Prenups are mostly done by people that have wealth and want to safeguard it.
See,people come together with clear intentions but stuff happens and they go separate ways.
Then the battle for property begins.Now this is the kind of headache nobody wants to deal with.

For me to sign any prenup there must be something called marriage in the horizon. Not mistress.
That is too shallow.

*Yawns*