alobright17:
you're laughing at your shame madam mudder gang

1Sharon:


Were you denying her sex at home?

As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

alobright17:
are you running away from mudder and murder? What a shame.

Nextlife1:

We are married for more than 5 years now and I love her
Reason for me to send her to study.

alobright17:

You can even post this but not posting mudder meaning of uduak gang. Imagine mudder gang. Ode

jessylaurel:


Sorry about that.
1. Does she live in school? If yes probably she's doing it to get more funds for her education.
2. Doing it to get good grades because her friends does same.
3. To get money to fund her campus lifestyle.
4. To spite you because she suspects you're cheating or cheated on her.

1Sharon:


Were you denying her sex at home?

As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

Votex2022:


How about my case, though we were not married yet but planning to marry.
We courted for a year and I already told her my plans that I will marry her... Problem started when one of her family members came to stay with us and since then she had been looking outside. Late got evidence that she's sleeping with a guy and she got pregnant in the process. Thank God I never touch her during the time her siblings stayed with us and this runs to two months.

I don't need anyone advise as I have forgiven her and told her I can't continue in the marriage again. If she's not pregnant, I swear I would have forgiven her but getting pregnant... No. Red card

EmmaEpic:


im a firm believer of marrying only virgins for lasting loyal marriage ...
sooo.....

its stupidity to start a match at 0:1


how old did you meet her as a virgin --- becuz it could be virgin by lack of opportunity .....?

second question --is she from a broken home?

nd i hope you knw what virgin means ------ simple word is blood .... anything else is fake .... inluding super glue tightness .... infact rich religious kids can get a hymen surgery --- crazy world out there --- hahaha

ahnie:

Expect the weyreys to come for you...bunch of stupid idiots.
People that cannot maintain 2 minutes erection.

1Sharon:


As soon as your wife starts cheating, just know there's something that you are not doing, go down on your knees and pray, don't let another man break your home. Always appear neat the way you were the very first time you approached her and don't yell at her all the time, show her care and love so that she will not look outside, sometimes walk around naked and don't wear anything to bed, always try to catch her attention. Thanks and God bless you as you do so.

Nextlife1:
All I needed is kind advise I believe we still have good people here on nairaland
Am so confused now.
I have told her about it she is still writing her final year exam I don't want her to fail exam because of this problem reason am keeping it to myself for now.

ahnie:
Sir Gbos na only you make sensible comments
The first hyena and the second cheetah that commented were just yapping like imbe.ci.les displaying their acute stupidity insulting Nigerian women including the stupid mother's that birthed them.

To the op....I believe she has family,call for a family meeting.case close

Zonefree:

Oga, in whatever you do in life, never take marital advise from women, especially from nairaland useless women. There's one local hen up there that her moniker started with A, she's one bad looking mf bastàrd that got rejected by her useless husband. Avoid her and her advise.

Shalom.

Otunbakayce:
Ori e lo buru!

Otunbakayce:
Ori e lo buru!

Eagba:
how did you found out

Xkale1996:
na fake story bro

grandstar:


She probably married you because you sent her to school and not for love. Even if the love was initially there, higher institutions are very immoral where youths want to taste life.

I would suggest you first confront her about her cheating. Tell her you suspect she is cheating, that you just have that inkling. Inform her that the day you catch her, that will be the end of the marriage.

The motive here is to get her to stop or better still, create the atmosphere to send her packing. It's like you are cleverly giving her a second chance. Perhaps, invite her family. Do not say you have any evidence. That it is just a hunch.

Why I say you should go this route is because you would have kicked her out already if you wanted to without seeking our advise. You are not so keen on kicking her out though the revelations has truly troubled you.

If she knows you have evidence, she will either beg for forgiveness or change her tactics. What you really, really want is for her to change her ways and be faithful.

You too need to be faithful (Read Hebrews 13:4).. it is double standard and hypocritical for you too to be engaging in adulterous acts and expecting her to put up with it. Perhaps, let her know you too will be faithful.

If she does not change, then do what you have to do.

Nextlife1:

No she was not like that when I meet her
And we love each other we have children together.

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

Nextlife1:
Hi
I never expected that this day will come in my life.
I discovered that my wife I sent to school is cheating on me with her school matter and other married men.
Please I need advice on how to handle this.

Nextlife1:

No she was not like that when I meet her
And we love each other we have children together.

hardon1:
How did you conclude she is cheating, did catch her cheating or you are just speculating

MufasaLion:


Wether you have been married for a decade or century, your actions are not justifiable. It's unwise to do what you are doing. Even the elites that their kids will end up marrying rich folks, will always enroll their kids in school, some till Ph.D. level before/after marriage.

You people (both genders) always let love becloud your reasoning hence the reason you always settle for less. Your wife was not exposed to some lifestyle before marriage but now that she's schooling, she's met men of different social class which has made her feel more valuable and reckless at the same time.

Also, men like you that have plans to enroll their woman in school should also upgrade their own life in terms of education, enlightenment and social class because women like your wife will be carried away easily by some basic things.

Women are hypergamy in nature, so it's part of the reasons you're being cheated on and disrespected.


Very true !!!