You are legally married and you are this close to the opposite sex, it is not friendship, it is not mentoring, it is not a partnership, it is not business, it is not counseling and prayer, it is LUST! Let's call a spade a spade and stop confusing emotion up and down!
You are lusting after that man/woman. You have crossed all boundaries in your mind and you want them in bed!
You are going to ruin your marriage for good, sorry, for worse!
Your life will end up broken, damaged, and shattered!

Same for singles who are engaged yet close to their EX or keep an intimate, close friendship with the opposite sex!
Singles who get to this level with the opposite sex are playing with the devil and he will hurt you badly! That guy is dangerous, don't you dare play with him. Satan is not nice, okay?
Say NO to all tempting environments/relationships.
Say NO to pre-marital and extra-marital sex.
Say NO to the devil.
Don't waste your spiritual life.
Don't waste your courtship.
Don't waste your future.
Don't waste your destiny!
© Seun Oladele, 2019; updated, reposted, 2022