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Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Nobody: 9:30am On Dec 16, 2022
Chee59:

I said what I said. Let that be my problem, not yours.

Audio noise ....ooni of ife wives once said " I will never be a second wife" and guess what , they are all educated...you women only make noise online but end up facing reality....so run along

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Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Justbehave(m): 10:00am On Dec 16, 2022
Chee59:

Your daddy is my regular customer.
Atleast I have a daddy but in your own case. You were picked up from the gutter and taken to an orphanage.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Chee59(f): 10:02am On Dec 16, 2022
Rayban25:


Audio noise ....ooni of ife wives once said " I will never be a second wife" and guess what , they are all educated...you women only make noise online but end up facing reality....so run along

Justbehave:
Atleast I have a daddy but in your own case. You were picked up from the gutter and taken to an orphanage.
Cry cry babies
You want to see your mummy
SHAAAAAAAAAAAAAMMMMMEEE
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Lannister360: 10:36am On Dec 16, 2022
Chee59:
If we agree that doing hookup is wrong, it's immoral and makes a woman disqualified for marriage, we must equally agree that a person who pays random girls for sex is a terrible choice for a life partner.
Everyone should hold themselves accountable.

You women keep trying to compare yourself with a man, you forget that the man is responsible for incurring the cost of the marriage which in this current day economy, runs into millions.

He is the one sponsoring the marriage, and after then, he will feed and cloth and shelter you for the rest of your life, while you stay at home watching telemundo and African magic. A man chooses, not you, a man who patronise olosho has the right to marry a decent girl.

On the other hand, you women are going to be fed and clothed and sheltered for the rest of your life for doing NOTHING. The least you can do is to come into the marriage with your Virginity and dignity intact. We are the ones buying women, no one wants to buy an over used cloth when he can get a brand new tear rubber cloth for the same amount
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Nobody: 10:37am On Dec 16, 2022
Chee59:
Why the uproar? There are so many negatives to marrying a man who patronizes hookup girls.
1, he can’t purely bond with a woman, cos he sees them as objects.
2, his wife will have STIs and STDs with a pinch of pH issues.
3, he will dedicate his finances to that habit.
4, he will retain the habit in marriage.
5, his wife will not be able to sexually satisfy him.
6, high chances of having kids outside his marriage.
7, increases the chance of divorce.
8, no peace of mind for his partner, kids get affected.
9, constant disrespect to his family....
https://twitter.com/beautyofthesun_/status/1602905607258148864?t=H9PdOkIKYSzUMjTW9w_GNg&s=19

I agree with her 100%



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Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Nobody: 10:39am On Dec 16, 2022
Chee59:
Why the uproar? There are so many negatives to marrying a man who patronizes hookup girls.
1, he can’t purely bond with a woman, cos he sees them as objects.
2, his wife will have STIs and STDs with a pinch of pH issues.
3, he will dedicate his finances to that habit.
4, he will retain the habit in marriage.
5, his wife will not be able to sexually satisfy him.
6, high chances of having kids outside his marriage.
7, increases the chance of divorce.
8, no peace of mind for his partner, kids get affected.
9, constant disrespect to his family....
https://twitter.com/beautyofthesun_/status/1602905607258148864?t=H9PdOkIKYSzUMjTW9w_GNg&s=19

I agree with her 100%

HUH? in 2023??
chika..u dont want men to chase olosho?...are u 4real? please are u ok please?(no oofeinse) angry
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Chee59(f): 11:48am On Dec 16, 2022
Lannister360:


You women keep trying to compare yourself with a man, you forget that the man is responsible for incurring the cost of the marriage which in this current day economy, runs into millions.

He is the one sponsoring the marriage, and after then, he will feed and cloth and shelter you for the rest of your life, while you stay at home watching telemundo and African magic. A man chooses, not you, a man who patronise olosho has the right to marry a decent girl.

On the other hand, you women are going to be fed and clothed and sheltered for the rest of your life for doing NOTHING. The least you can do is to come into the marriage with your Virginity and dignity intact. We are the ones buying women, no one wants to buy an over used cloth when he can get a brand new tear rubber cloth for the same amount
Son of a bond woman, sorry, bought woman. cheesy
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Lannister360: 12:56pm On Dec 16, 2022
Chee59:

Son of a bond woman, sorry, bought woman. cheesy
Tell me, what is the meaning of a bride price?
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Geovanni412(m): 1:45pm On Dec 16, 2022
Chee59:
Why the uproar? There are so many negatives to marrying a man who patronizes hookup girls.
1,[s] he can’t purely bond with a woman, cos he sees them as objects. [/s]
2, his wife will have STIs and STDs with a pinch of pH issues.
3, [s]he will dedicate his finances to that habit.[/s]
4, he will retain the habit in marriage.
5,[s] his wife will not be able to sexually satisfy him. [/s]
6, high chances of having kids outside his marriage.
7, increases the chance of divorce.
8,[s] no peace of mind for his partner, kids get affected. [/s]
9, constant disrespect to his family....
https://twitter.com/beautyofthesun_/status/1602905607258148864?t=H9PdOkIKYSzUMjTW9w_GNg&s=19



I agree with her 100%

Men can bond with their wives regardless of the number of partners they have. Men have sex without falling in love or feeling emotional about it. A guy can have sex with a girl and realise afterwards that he never liked her. That is what we call post-nut clarity. Dedicating his finances to that habit is laughable. Otedola is not broke and none of our bigwig politicians that patronise hookup girls is broke. - https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4068582/Toronto-sisters-arrested-attempting-extort-Nigerian-billionaire-claiming-evidence-having-affair.html. Remember that hookup girls extends to our nollywood 'actresses' and young university 'runs girls'.
Sexual satisfaction is never guaranteed between a man and a woman. No woman can satisfy a man sexually enough for him not to cheat. The same can be said about women. Even Pastors have been known to cheat on their wives.
Peace of mind is a function of the woman's expectations from the man. Happiness comes from within. How do you expect to marry a billionaire and you want him to be faithful to only you? Reason am, na grin. There are 100's of girls that want him. If he chooses you as a wife, he takes care of your children , gives you reasonable attention but cheats once in awhile - accept ya package as it is. 1000 women were willing to share Solomon yet you wion't allow guyman have 2-3 sidechicks cool.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by thymm: 2:13pm On Dec 16, 2022
Kollins11:
First of all, I'm not gonna do that useless thing called marriage because I can't monopolize my dick to one useless Nigerian girl.

Secondly, we don't give fvck if you call off the relationship/marriage because of mere cheating... I mean, there are many kpekus to be drilled, so why must I take your kpekus special?

Las las you go old for your papa house.

Meanwhlie, I told y'all last week that I will be going to Shiloh to track some evening newspapers and deceive them with marriage just to have my own share of her kpekus.

I drove to Shiloh last week thursday and I meet this useless evening newspapers, she's been acting all nice, and me too I just dey play along. The way I go scatter this girl kpekus ehh, i will not only destroy her kpekus, I will also destroy her womb. She go drink postinor2 tire until her womb damage.

The girl doesn't know what she has gotten herself into. If truly she serve a living God, I just hope the God deliver her from me. Because my plans for her is brutal.

You will testify of her God
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by ModCaller: 3:16pm On Dec 16, 2022
Kollins11:
First of all, I'm not gonna do that useless thing called marriage because I can't monopolize my dick to one useless Nigerian girl.

Secondly, we don't give fvck if you call off the relationship/marriage because of mere cheating... I mean, there are many kpekus to be drilled, so why must I take your kpekus special?

Las las you go old for your papa house.

Meanwhlie, I told y'all last week that I will be going to Shiloh to track some evening newspapers and deceive them with marriage just to have my own share of her kpekus.

I drove to Shiloh last week thursday and I meet this useless evening newspapers, she's been acting all nice, and me too I just dey play along. The way I go scatter this girl kpekus ehh, i will not only destroy her kpekus, I will also destroy her womb. She go drink postinor2 tire until her womb damage.

The girl doesn't know what she has gotten herself into. If truly she serve a living God, I just hope the God deliver her from me. Because my plans for her is brutal.

WTF bro.

Na man you be. Break that toto
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Truvelisback(m): 3:29pm On Dec 16, 2022
Chee59:
Why the uproar? There are so many negatives to marrying a man who patronizes hookup girls.
1, he can’t purely bond with a woman, cos he sees them as objects.
2, his wife will have STIs and STDs with a pinch of pH issues.
3, he will dedicate his finances to that habit.
4, he will retain the habit in marriage.
5, his wife will not be able to sexually satisfy him.
6, high chances of having kids outside his marriage.
7, increases the chance of divorce.
8, no peace of mind for his partner, kids get affected.
9, constant disrespect to his family....
https://twitter.com/beautyofthesun_/status/1602905607258148864?t=H9PdOkIKYSzUMjTW9w_GNg&s=19

I agree with her 100%
Easily said than done.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Chee59(f): 3:56pm On Dec 16, 2022
Geovanni412:


Men can bond with their wives regardless of the number of partners they have. Men have sex without falling in love or feeling emotional about it. A guy can have sex with a girl and realise afterwards that he never liked her. That is what we call post-nut clarity. Dedicating his finances to that habit is laughable. Otedola is not broke and none of our bigwig politicians that patronise hookup girls is broke. - https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-4068582/Toronto-sisters-arrested-attempting-extort-Nigerian-billionaire-claiming-evidence-having-affair.html. Remember that hookup girls extends to our nollywood 'actresses' and young university 'runs girls'.
Sexual satisfaction is never guaranteed between a man and a woman. No woman can satisfy a man sexually enough for him not to cheat. The same can be said about women. Even Pastors have been known to cheat on their wives.
Peace of mind is a function of the woman's expectations from the man. Happiness comes from within. How do you expect to marry a billionaire and you want him to be faithful to only you? Reason am, na grin. There are 100's of girls that want him. If he chooses you as a wife, he takes care of your children , gives you reasonable attention but cheats once in awhile - accept ya package as it is. 1000 women were willing to share Solomon yet you wion't allow guyman have 2-3 sidechicks cool.
Please go and cry to your mummy.

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Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by sammyuche(m): 10:58pm On Dec 17, 2022
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Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by 1Sharon(f): 1:28am On Dec 18, 2022
Absolutely not the same sis.

The equivalent would be a woman dumping her man for being an ex or current jigolo.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by 1Sharon(f): 1:44am On Dec 18, 2022
Lannister360:


You women keep trying to compare yourself with a man, you forget that the man is responsible for incurring the cost of the marriage which in this current day economy, runs into millions.

He is the one sponsoring the marriage, and after then, he will feed and cloth and shelter you for the rest of your life, while you stay at home watching telemundo and African magic. A man chooses, not you, a man who patronise olosho has the right to marry a decent girl.

On the other hand, you women are going to be fed and clothed and sheltered for the rest of your life for doing NOTHING. The least you can do is to come into the marriage with your Virginity and dignity intact. We are the ones buying women, no one wants to buy an over used cloth when he can get a brand new tear rubber cloth for the same amount

How many men in Nigeria are actually doing this?

What is the percentage of middle-class to wealthy Nigerian men again?

You're saying what you think men should be doing, not what actually happens in reality.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by zanshi: 3:36am On Dec 18, 2022
Kollins11:
First of all, I'm not gonna do that useless thing called marriage because I can't monopolize my dick to one useless Nigerian girl.

Secondly, we don't give fvck if you call off the relationship/marriage because of mere cheating... I mean, there are many kpekus to be drilled, so why must I take your kpekus special?

Las las you go old for your papa house.

Meanwhlie, I told y'all last week that I will be going to Shiloh to track some evening newspapers and deceive them with marriage just to have my own share of her kpekus.

I drove to Shiloh last week thursday and I meet this useless evening newspapers, she's been acting all nice, and me too I just dey play along. The way I go scatter this girl kpekus ehh, i will not only destroy her kpekus, I will also destroy her womb. She go drink postinor2 tire until her womb damage.

The girl doesn't know what she has gotten herself into. If truly she serve a living God, I just hope the God deliver her from me. Because my plans for her is brutal.


Your comment brutal gan
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Lannister360: 8:52am On Dec 18, 2022
1Sharon:


How many men in Nigeria are actually doing this?

What is the percentage of middle-class to wealthy Nigerian men again?


Most men are still doing this, wealthy or not, despite the economic difficulty, I've not seen a woman who sponsored her own wedding, it is still the man who covers all the expenses.
Women don't want to know the economic situation, all they know is that it is your responsibility to 100% cover the marriage expenses.

I however agree that some women support their husband financially in marriage, but that usually comes with a lot of insult and disrespect from the woman. If she spends her #100, she will feel very pained and take it out on her husband. Forgetting that her husband accepted and married her with her 500 body count.

Na wa, 500men don fück person wife, God forbid.

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Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Greystone: 8:56am On Dec 18, 2022
Chee59:
Why the uproar? There are so many negatives to marrying a man who patronizes hookup girls.
1, he can’t purely bond with a woman, cos he sees them as objects.
2, his wife will have STIs and STDs with a pinch of pH issues.
3, he will dedicate his finances to that habit.
4, he will retain the habit in marriage.
5, his wife will not be able to sexually satisfy him.
6, high chances of having kids outside his marriage.
7, increases the chance of divorce.
8, no peace of mind for his partner, kids get affected.
9, constant disrespect to his family....
https://twitter.com/beautyofthesun_/status/1602905607258148864?t=H9PdOkIKYSzUMjTW9w_GNg&s=19

I agree with her 100%

Double standards.
I see no reason why any man should be upset with this.
If a man is into hookup, he should be fine marrying an Olo$ho.
She (the Twitter poster), was absolutely right.
For all those that are wailing, the truth is indeed, very bitter.

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Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by faithfull18(f): 10:31am On Dec 18, 2022
I support.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Qatar2022: 11:56am On Dec 18, 2022
Chee59:
If we agree that doing hookup is wrong, it's immoral and makes a woman disqualified for marriage, we must equally agree that a person who pays random girls for sex is a terrible choice for a life partner.
Everyone should hold themselves accountable.
See you in 2030 disturbing pastor
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Chee59(f): 6:24pm On Dec 18, 2022
Greystone:


Double standards.
I see no reason why any man should be upset with this.
If a man is into hookup, he should be fine marrying an Olo$ho.
She (the Twitter poster), was absolutely right.
For all those that are wailing, the truth is indeed, very bitter.
Very bitter my dear.

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Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Chee59(f): 6:25pm On Dec 18, 2022
1Sharon:
Absolutely not the same sis.

The equivalent would be a woman dumping her man for being an ex or current jigolo.
You're entitled to your opinion. And so am I.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by 1Sharon(f): 7:54pm On Dec 18, 2022
Chee59:

You're entitled to your opinion. And so am I.

Your point was a false equivalence. It's not an opinion, it's the truth.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Chee59(f): 9:39pm On Dec 19, 2022
1Sharon:


Your point was a false equivalence. It's not an opinion, it's the truth.
Sing about that to the birds. Get lost.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by 1Sharon(f): 10:57pm On Dec 19, 2022
Chee59:

Sing about that to the birds. Get lost.

After you bitch.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Chee59(f): 4:56am On Dec 20, 2022
1Sharon:


After you bitch.
Donate your tears here.
Pathetic loser

Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by baretalk: 5:29am On Dec 20, 2022
Chee59:
If we agree that doing hookup is wrong, it's immoral and makes a woman disqualified for marriage, we must equally agree that a person who pays random girls for sex is a terrible choice for a life partner.
Everyone should hold themselves accountable.
There is difference, a girl doing hookup is a whoore, and has more likelihood of contracting diseases, being an olosho also mess up the brain matter of these girls, they become depraved mentally.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by Chee59(f): 5:30am On Dec 20, 2022
baretalk:

There is difference, a girl doing hookup is a whoore, and has more likelihood of contracting diseases, being an olosho also mess up the brain matter of these girls, they become depraved mentally.
Actually I don't care what you think.
Re: I Would Call Off My Wedding If I Find Out My Man Patronises Hookup Girls by baretalk: 5:31am On Dec 20, 2022
Chee59:

Actually I don't care what you think.
Whoores get no credits from me, they are scum.

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