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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by HISSCRIBE1995: 11:17am On Dec 18, 2022
Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggarrrr
All this holier than thou people


Only if our tomorrow is guaranteed
Then we will exercise patience

But life is full of shit...and our tomorrow is never sure it is never guaranteed we will see tomorrow
See we niggarrrrs got to live life on the fast lane....smoke our weed, bang enough pussy, drink enough bottles before we die

Is that the reason why you were created ?
Is that the purpose of life for you ?

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Nobody: 11:18am On Dec 18, 2022
No sex is no sex. Not even romance sef. Celibacy is key to maintain purity before marriage. Sex before marriage is sex out of wedlock which is a sin. Don't ask me what a man or woman that had sex before. What God want us wether by mistake or by crook, go and sin no more. No sex before marriage is no sex before marriage

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by phemmyfour: 11:20am On Dec 18, 2022
ebubeson:
You may have heard "no sex before marriage" from various people, articles, media etc. You may have also heard people encouraging partners not to have sex until they marry. But the question is, what truly is "no sex before marriage?"

Does it mean not having sex with each other before marriage, but having sex with other people your are not dating till you do wedding with the person you are dating? Or does it mean total sexual abstinence from everyone until marriage? The later is correct.
No story, It's explicit enough
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Greenscientist: 11:24am On Dec 18, 2022
lansile:
No sex before marriage in Christianity seems to mean one or more of the below from what has become an open secret to christians and even Muslims alike:

A) Not having canal knowledge of your fiance but sample her friends, your neighbour, work colleagues and just any girl you can lay your dick on.
B) Having sex with your fiance but very protected one so that she doesn't get pregnant before the wedding time thereby you can lie to everyone who doesn't know better that you never knack her that's why she isn't pregnant yet or
C) (In less than 1% of true life situation) Having no sex at all with your fiance or anyone else until the wedding night when you will discover that while you were fooling yourself your partner has become so weak sexually as a result of excessive masturbation.

Sex is like "food" you have to do it.

The problem with religious people is that they want to abstain from sex and still not marry early - You will most probably be masturbating.
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by remzytimer: 11:31am On Dec 18, 2022
AntiChristian:
Where did Jesus explain all these in your Bible?

Please read (Gen 34: 1-29) to see the repercussion of such action from the scripture. Sex in a form of transaction that involves give and take and many have change their destiny for sex..
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by LordEclipse: 11:34am On Dec 18, 2022
If sex before marriage was a sin,then God should have given man and woman their sex organs on the night after wedding..my opinion

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by mukthar2000(m): 11:43am On Dec 18, 2022
No Sex Before Marriage


This phrase have ruined many happy home in the name of Religion said this ,Religion said that, May God help us.
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Pat081: 11:45am On Dec 18, 2022
No Lady or ladies can tell me that so on the wedding night I will be hearing bad news
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by RedCentaur(m): 11:53am On Dec 18, 2022
ukaface:
Questions have been asked by some Christian sisters : how do they know if the man is sexually active? ( like he is not a 1 minute man )

Majority asks;

Is he gay?
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by asapants: 12:06pm On Dec 18, 2022
Your tomorrow is guaranteed if you give your life to Christ Jesus
Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggarrrr
All this holier than thou people


Only if our tomorrow is guaranteed
Then we will exercise patience

But life is full of shit...and our tomorrow is never sure it is never guaranteed we will see tomorrow
See we niggarrrrs got to live life on the fast lane....smoke our weed, bang enough pussy, drink enough bottles before we die

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Lovestrong(m): 12:15pm On Dec 18, 2022
Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggarrrr
All this holier than thou people


Only if our tomorrow is guaranteed
Then we will exercise patience

But life is full of shit...and our tomorrow is never sure it is never guaranteed we will see tomorrow
See we niggarrrrs got to live life on the fast lane....smoke our weed, bang enough pussy, drink enough bottles before we die
damn! As sacred shiit
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Originalsly: 12:16pm On Dec 18, 2022
No sex before marriage is not from the Bible. According to the Bible ... it is good if a man can control his urge for sex. If he can't... then he should find himself a wife. If he doesn't find a wife but goes around having sex then he will be guilty of fornication. If he finds a wife but still have sex outside of the marriage then he will be guilty of adultery. It is as simple as this.... but some Christians and others can always find a way to twist it to explain and justify their action.

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by zoedew: 12:43pm On Dec 18, 2022
To smell what you know you shouldn’t eat is to end up eating it.
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by judedwriter(m): 1:46pm On Dec 18, 2022
As Christians, when God says no sex before marriage, He means it for our Good.

Sex outside marriage destroys blessings and destinies.

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by gommez: 1:47pm On Dec 18, 2022
shogotermies:
Does this includes not kissing your partner, not making out, no holding hands, cuddling, spooning etc?
I'm curious to know, please.
all wat u mention is d summary of how sseexx starts
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by chatinent: 2:03pm On Dec 18, 2022
How many people actually keep to it? You can hardly find one. All man dey dembele.
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by almarthins(m): 2:08pm On Dec 18, 2022
AntiChristian:
Where did Jesus explain all these in your Bible?

Jesus warned against immorality or immoral thoughts which make a man liable under the judgement of fornication and adultery. But his desciples warn against youthful lust, you can find in the bible.

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Onyiiobi7735(m): 2:28pm On Dec 18, 2022
Zee0007:
Sex is not bad. God initiated sex for a man and woman for their enjoyment but he only warns his children not to try it before he/she marries.

Why the haste to eat what you will eat all your life?

Total abstinence has myriad of benefits. Stay chaste. It pays more than NNPC!
God bless you for this.But ignorant fools would attack you like rabid dogs, that's if they have not started already on this forum.But never mind them.

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by chiboycue: 2:37pm On Dec 18, 2022
ebubeson:
You may have heard "no sex before marriage" from various people, articles, media etc. You may have also heard people encouraging partners not to have sex until they marry. But the question is, what truly is "no sex before marriage?"

Does it mean not having sex with each other before marriage, but having sex with other people your are not dating till you do wedding with the person you are dating? Or does it mean total sexual abstinence from everyone until marriage? The later is correct.



no sex before marriage simply means no marriage no sex. It also means sex after marriage. For example Mr. A marries Miss AB. If Mr. A wants to have sex, then Mr A must do so with Miss AB because Mr. A is married to Miss AB. Mr A must not have sex with any other person except Miss AB.

But If Mr A is not married to Miss AB, then Mr A cannot have sex with Miss AB or any other lady except he is married first to Miss AB. It is after he marries Miss AB that he can start having sex with her. This is God's instruction.
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Nobody: 2:38pm On Dec 18, 2022
ebubeson:
You may have heard "no sex before marriage" from various people, articles, media etc. You may have also heard people encouraging partners not to have sex until they marry. But the question is, what truly is "no sex before marriage?"

Does it mean not having sex with each other before marriage, but having sex with other people your are not dating till you do wedding with the person you are dating? Or does it mean total sexual abstinence from everyone until marriage? The later is correct.

It means what it says, no sex before marriage. But it further said children are gifts from God. sad sad shocked
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Lighthouse50: 2:40pm On Dec 18, 2022
Iamthoney:
Gbefun Naira Marley
Empty self glorification. You are lucky to have touched unrighteous ones. Touch the wife of a righteous man and you wont live to glorify yourself about it. BEWARE!!!
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by PDPGuy: 2:49pm On Dec 18, 2022
grin
BadEnglish:
No sex b4 marriage na scam.
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by Truvelisback(m): 2:54pm On Dec 18, 2022
AntiChristian:
Where did Jesus explain all these in your Bible?
What do u understand by the word "fornication"?
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by prepresh(f): 2:54pm On Dec 18, 2022
Wisdom
quote author=Zee0007 post=119239216]Sex is not bad. God initiated sex for a man and woman for their enjoyment but he only warns his children not to try it before he/she marries.

Why the haste to eat what you will eat all your life?

Total abstinence has myriad of benefits. Stay chaste. It pays more than NNPC![/quote]
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by edoairways: 3:08pm On Dec 18, 2022
AntiChristian:
Where did Jesus explain all these in your Bible?
Mark 7:21 “For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders.
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by mrksquare: 3:08pm On Dec 18, 2022
ebubeson:
You may have heard "no sex before marriage" from various people, articles, media etc. You may have also heard people encouraging partners not to have sex until they marry. But the question is, what truly is "no sex before marriage?"

Does it mean not having sex with each other before marriage, but having sex with other people your are not dating till you do wedding with the person you are dating? Or does it mean total sexual abstinence from everyone until marriage? The later is correct.



I have a female friend who got married years ago. And she insisted on no sex before marriage. Her would be husband agreed in principle during their courtship period. They got married and it turned out that the man had erectile dysfunction. They have been going from one hospital to another to correct the abnormality. She told me in confidence that if she could turn back the hands of time that she would have had sex with the guy to ascertain if his mojo was working.

Well, at present the both of them have parted ways. The woman could not afford to be in a union were she was consistently deprived of earth shaking sex. And her husband isn't even helping issues as he consumes alcohol alot.

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Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by edoairways: 3:14pm On Dec 18, 2022
chatinent:
How many people actually keep to it? You can hardly find one. All man dey dembele.
There are still some men and women that are still faithful to that biblical instruction
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by AntiChristian: 3:20pm On Dec 18, 2022
edoairways:

Mark 7:21 “For from within, out of the heart of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, fornications, murders.

How is this spelt out in the context of marriage?

S/He's know as your fiance/fiancee. What is fornication?

What about other acts of pre-intimacy and jumping on one another?

The verse you quoted didn't forbid fornication!
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by AntiChristian: 3:26pm On Dec 18, 2022
Truvelisback:
What do u understand by the word "fornication"?

Answer the question first and stop answering a question with another!
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by AntiChristian: 3:27pm On Dec 18, 2022
almarthins:


Jesus warned against immorality or immoral thoughts which make a man liable under the judgement of fornication and adultery. But his desciples warn against youthful lust, you can find in the bible.

Show us where fornication in the light of the topic is forbidden by Jesus in the Bible?
Re: As Christians, What Does It Truly Mean By No Sex Before Marriage? by edoairways: 3:27pm On Dec 18, 2022
AntiChristian:


How is this spelt out in the context of marriage?

S/He's know as your fiance/fiancee. What is fornication?

What about other acts of pre-intimacy and jumping on one another?

The verse you quoted didn't forbid fornication!
1 Corinthians 6:18-19 says " Run from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body. Don’t you realize that your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit, who lives in you and was given to you by God? You do not belong to yourself

1 Thessalonians 4:3-4 God’s will is for you to be holy, so stay away from all sexual sin. Then each of you will control his own body and live in holiness and honor.
1 Corinthians 5:9-11 When I wrote to you before, I told you not to associate with people who indulge in sexual sin. But I wasn’t talking about unbelievers who indulge in sexual sin, or are greedy, or cheat people, or worship idols. You would have to leave this world to avoid people like that. I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people.

1 Corinthians 6:18 “Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.”

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