First story link https://www.nairaland.com/6393827/mother-law-wont-allow-me



My twins girls are staying with their late mum twin sister , it took me almost 5 years to meet with them because my mother in law refused me to have access with them and i took the matter to court they granted me visitation rights during school holidays and i am also paying child support.

So far I have been Up to date with the child support but their aunty doesn't allow me to have access to my children. I am grateful that she is taking a good care of them. They are happy, healthy and clean it is one of the reason why I haven't reported her to court . I've decided to be patient and wait for christmas holidays to see if she will bring them. And she didn't she said her entire family are battling with a nasty virus it is very contagious she cannot send the girls for our safety.

I had enough of her and i want to report her to court for them to deal with her so she can allow me to have access to my girls.

Your advice would be greatly appreciated

Although you have not told us what happened that led to them having those babies in their custody but she is sounding manipulative with the virus claim.
Just Report Her before she brain washed those babies against you

Careful.

If she dumps them permanently on you in anger you'll struggle.

Children always go looking for their dad with time.
Keep that in mind and keep picking the bills

Kooldon:
Although you have not told us what happened that led to them having those babies in their custody but she is sounding manipulative with the virus claim.
Just Report Her before she brain washed those babies against you

Thanks

BigCowHornn:
Careful.

If she dumps them permanently on you in anger you'll struggle.

Children always go looking for their dad with time.
Keep that in mind and keep picking the bills

I will not struggle because I had never abandoned them

Oga please sue them, your children being girls are safer around you,or isn't your m alive to help you with one of them,rape, sexual harassment and all dey happen every day...I am not happy about all this,if they were boys no problem but you see girl,No! It's your right as a dad matter what please, try to settle with them too...i wonder why they are aggressive to you in the first place, hope you weren't abusive... anyways like someone said previously the dead doesn't speak, what a world we leave in may God help us all to see our children and reap the fruits of our labour on them,amen.

Daddyejima4:



I will not struggle because I had never abandoned them

These are girls. Men hardly train girls well without a woman around

It doesn't happen. No court will give you custody as a single man and there is no guarantee your wife will like them

They are better off with their auntie, you confessed as much yourself

That lady is what is called a necessary evil. Get used to her

What virus is she taking about?
Are you the one infected?
Is that what killed your late wife?

Please can you be more detailed?

By the way, she has not right to flout court orders and you should let her know the implication of doing such. That way she'll tread carefully and release your girls as ordered by the law court.

Oga, go and get your children and take them with you to your house.

Also make sure you protect them from your new wife before we hear front page story of how your new wife burns twins with hot iron and is sentenced to jail for 10 years.

Women no de reason o

You need to explains why your in-law are avoiding you. Probably you were not good to their daughter why she was alive