madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.

You haven't seen anything.
Some, just for the sake of last respect, will not say anything at all. But if you insist or force them to talk, they WON'T lie.

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father show he did unspeakable things. The children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

Come on,you know all of these by just looking at the dead man's picture ? Oh my..... you're even a woman ! How could you judge a dead man that couldn't even defend himself so harshly ? May God forgive you !

Regardless of how any man might have treated you in the past,it is very wrong for you to judge a dead man so cruelly as you just did. In case you're already planning to launch a verbal assaults at me,as some frustrated girls who roam this street usually do,I don waka comot this space,girl !

Ire o !

Another one.

Such promonent r not to say to corpse,to b sincere is not good..no matter how...R.i.p
May God overwhelmed ur sins

EBMedia:


https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/

i'm very sure his frm delta state...

Must have been quite a brutal mothérfúcker

Burn in hell dude, you obviously deserve it

adecz:



Which "legacy" can a tailor leave
for his children apart from sewing machine❓❓

A good name they say is better than gold and silver........ Integrity is an expensive virtue but you don't have to be very rich to acquire it

madridguy:
E sure me die na another man pickin they carry come give this man. Your own blood will never write something like this.

Make God no allow us born our enemy as child.

Na brainwash from mama

Whatever these uncouth children have written irrespective of their Igbo traditional practices will be written about them as well.

Some children grow up out of childhood into mature human beings participating in their native societies social and economic activities while some will forever remain a breast sucking children in adults body, called bodybags never appreciating whatever their fathers have done in their lives.

Such people abound in Nigeria and world over. People that never bear responsibilities to themselves or any other person. Reply to every questions thrown at them is I don't know and truly they never know and will not make efforts to know till living passed them by. These ones have exposed their folly and their mothers folly except it is not the tailor that fed them till his burial. Shameless children. These children will be further deceived by their extended family members because it is obvious that they have not learnt family history lessons from their late father.

To other growing boys, if by the age 22 _ 25 years of age you have not begin to appreciate your father's role in bringing you up to that age better go for a good brain scan. If it is only food that he was able to provide adequately for you till that age you should thank him and ask for his tricks for doing it. At least you would have learnt a lesson from your father that is useful in your future live.

abobote:
Ungrateful children, bringing them to the world should be a legacy, and he gave them education which gave them the audacity to express themselves arrogantly

The thing is did the children consider the legacy their grandfather left to their dad?

To problem is probably related to inheritance he didn't leave much of.

I guess the man was generous to people in general and has was even crowned with a title.

In some cultures or clans where money is way too important, the man's generosity is a crime it seems.

The man's kindness and generosity may be the legacy they don't realise. It may be their saving grace at some point in their lives.
My dad was very public spirited and kind. So was his dad. People talk about it endlessly today. Now I know the value of it.

EBMedia:


https://igberetvnews.com/1434218/left-us-single-legacy-sad-children-write-late-dads-biography-photo/

Most Nigerian fathers are so useless to their own family... Life's experiences will leave you with a lot of good and bad memories.

Lagos2Berlin:


He's probably one himself... When you see people denying the obvious, it's a sign of guilt.

Pesin wey deny say young people die for Endsars, how eim no go support bad parenting
Make una dey check these monikers before una dey quote them

I wish one man that I know who abandoned his children and said thay God said he should abandon his children and live alone while eating and sleeping under a roof will see this post, read comments here and change his mind and look for his family.
He eats well and has a shelter to lay under, but he doesn't care if his children are under the bridge.

This man abandoned his children to his wife, relocated and would not have any thing to do with his biological children even when they tried to reach him severally.

Many of you would say maybe his children are not his, na lie. They all look like him. He doesn't deny their paternity, but he says God said he should abandon his family

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father shows he did unspeakable things. His children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

Deduced all these just from his looks? You're such a lousy dullard

GoooodHardDick:


You have no right to call a man stingy except of course you're a beggar.

However, I except by now you must have gotten a job and be useful to yourself and family. stop depending on men for survival

It appears to me she’ feels entitled, obviously a misandrist that’s lazy
Probably as a result of her foolish decision making skills in selecting men
No need explaining things logically to peeps like that, experience & time teaches them the hard way
She obviously needs to see a shrink to help with her mental issues/trauma.

Jennyclay:
I think I've warned you never to quote me in your broke life again . What is your problem? Biko leave me alone .

Am I the cause of your brokeness and poverty stricken life? . Be warned for the last time. Nonsense!!

Have you gotten a Job now? You should get a job and work. Stop depending on men for survival. Be useful to yourself. Stop being a leech and a parasite

Laple0541:
Flat headed child of curse, if your father was good to outsiders, it's very obvious he was more than good to you his children at home.

The only problem was you were a very lazy child who expected the poor man to do everything for you and he wanted you to be a man who can fight for himself, hence the reason you saw him as a bad father.

Thank you, good thinking. You don't need to live with the family. The logic, if outsiders perceived that the tailor was a good family man, but his children could not as attested by the children then it is the children life standard and practices that a not the same as their fathers hence different perceptions.

Some children nowadays are very lazy at work and thought processes and blame their fathers for all their failings. Such children don't marry when they should, fail job interviews or fail off work, complaining of poor salary/pay.

In USA the Americans call them basement children because they are actually supposed to be living on their own but could not and are still living and feeding with their fathers but their fathers push them out of the main house to the basement or car park.


These low quality children should grow up quickly and fit into a space in the society.

illicit:
My father left me a good name
Many years after he died, I met several people associated with him and anytime I introduced myself they are always crying.

They are always crying

oluwaseyi0:


He may even be worse than absentee dad, at least absentee are absent and you can easily forget about them

What about dad that you can see but will carry all his money for concubine younger than his daughter

Children at home can't eat but baba is providing steadily for womanfriend's children


Imagine sending your hungry and out of school children to give food and money to your concubine children owned by another man, this is real life event I'm telling you

Useless ba_stard dead beats justifying a dead deadbeat.
God will judge.

From my understanding of Nigerian men, the Hausa/Fulani has the highest percentage of deadbeat fathers. Imagine over 14milion out of school children in one particular region of a country and nothing is being done to curtail it. We are now wondering how bokoharam got large number of foot soldiers.

So bad to the the point that average Hausa children doesn't understand what it means to have a parent not to talk taking responsibilities on your home. What a tragedy!

This should serve as a warning to everyone reading this piece that you may end up getting this type of content on your obituary biography if you turned out becoming an irresponsible parent to your kid's to the point where they wished they never had someone like you as a father/mother.

For someone's kids to pen down such a brutal piece about their late father means the only memories about him was that of pain and anguish and his demise is such a huge psychological relief.

Lessons should be learned from this piece as it will soon become the new normal moving forward.

Lagos2Berlin:


Are you sure you're not writing out of guilty conscience?

For his children to have written such about him, it says a lot about how he lived his life. . . Don't blame the children, they must have been deeply hurt.

I have seen fathers that will blow money on women and strangers outside while leaving their children hungry and lacking basic things. If you're a father, try to take care of your home. What's bad is bad.

Oga, the man don kaput, it doesn't matter if he was the assistant devil, They should have just wrote something neutral if they dislike him that much that they can't put a few nice words. What they penned down there should have being said to d man when he was ALIVE... No need to speak ill of the dead

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father shows he did unspeakable things. His children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

You just typed like a bitch, would do, Real women that know their worth, would work to better thier own lives, than feeling entitled and crying over entitlement.

It seem you were given birth to, into a broken home

You dey para for men.. well, u make sense

Jennyclay:
Looking at the man's picture one could tell he was truly wicked to his children.
These are the kind of men that would squander money in beer parlour but won't give their children money for school fees and up-keep

These are the kind of men that would squander money on ladies but won't give their wife money for food. And if the wife complains he would beat her up.

These are the kind of men that compare their children to other people's children whereas he's not making any effort to better the life of his own children.

For his children to have regretted having him as a father shows he did unspeakable things. His children were nice enough to attend his funeral. If I were to be in their shoes, I won't dare attend his funeral.

Stingy ko ko men everywhere!

byrron:
This should serve as a warning to everyone reading this piece that you may end up getting this type of content on your obituary biography if you turned out becoming an irresponsible parent to your kid's to the point where they wished they never had someone like you as a father/mother.

For someone's kids to pen down such a brutal piece about their late father means the only memories about him was that of pain and anguish and his demise is such a huge psychological relief.

Lessons should be learned from this piece as it will soon become the new normal moving forward.

If my siblings will let me, I know I can give my father this exact kind of writeup.
This African tradition of respecting old people NO MATTER WHAT is a demonic tradition that needs to be destroyed.
My own father never cared if my panties were torn or I had cloth to cover my na_kedness.

Roboto11:


Just as you think there are bad fathers, so can one have terrible kids.

You're correct. But I doubt that ALL your kids and wife can agree that you're a bad father if you were truly good to them...

Elsueno:


Oga, the man don kaput, it doesn't matter if he was the assistant devil, They should have just wrote something neutral if they dislike him that much that they can't put a few nice words. What they penned down there should have being said to d man when he was ALIVE... No need to speak ill of the dead

If you read my post well, you would know that I didn't support what they wrote, albeit, it's a sign that they were still nursing a deep hurt over his actions...

You have written well, who's gone is gone after all. C'est la vie.

Doyou2019:


Pesin wey deny say young people die for Endsars, how eim no go support bad parenting
Make una dey check these monikers before una dey quote them

Oh so madrid deny endsars killing that year? Na wa o... Why him go talk that kind thing na...

Many fathers are irresponsible.
They call them living dead father.

But there are many reasons why the children could wrote that.
The man might be good father.
Those children may be supporting their mother against their late father.

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