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Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:28am On Jan 01, 2023 |
excesslove90:How? ![]() God would bless him too if he spent his same money on someone else in need. So why attach God to your choice alone? ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:30am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Baddosqqi:That Law was given as part of the National Constitution of the Nation of Israel in the Land of Canaan - Deuteronomy 30 vs 15 - 20. I doubt he lives in that country. ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:33am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Ddworld:Do you even know what a generational curse is to begin with? Who told you there is even a generational curse here to begin with? Na so una go dey yap about things you have no real clue of.. ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ghiloman28(m): 2:33am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Ok then. Do it for the good of humanity and kindness Kobojunkie: |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:37am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Vinesee:You haven't seen your children but have you at least tried to visit them at school? Made sure to know their friends and send them things through those or even through neighbors etc? ![]() Have you tried directly negotiating with your ex to speak to them? Make certain that you pay to support them? There is no excuse at all why any parent should abandon the kids. 2 years is a long time abeg. Make it your part-time job to figure out a way to reconnect asap. Consider what those kids are thinking right now and yes, to kids, mum and dad are the whole world, so imagine how they long to even catch a glimpse of you or even get a word or two regularly. Cellphone dey, email dey, letter dey.... so what reason is there for anyone to cut communication with his or her own kids? .. ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:38am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Tunagee:Abeg get away with this emotional blackmail born of foolishness! ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:40am On Jan 01, 2023 |
ghiloman28:If you even cared you would not help out others who you can and not some old man who just happens to be your dad. ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 2:43am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Lamasta:If not towing the same line is the aim, then your advice should simply be that he not abandon his own kids as his father did to him. That is how he gets to correct the error of his past. What you are asking him to do has absolutely nothing to do with that. All it amounts to is an attempt at emotional blackmail which is bullsheet! ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by kk2027: 3:10am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: 100% 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:28am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Tunagee:Lots of people actually do. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:29am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Ddworld:What is the world are you rambling about in your attempt to use God's name for whatever it is you are attempting to do here? ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:35am On Jan 01, 2023 |
jamesversion:1. Missed opportunity to right what wrong? A lot of you don't even understand your own dribble. The father abandoned his kids. The only way the kids can right any wrong here is to make certain they don't abandon their own kids. The death of the man that abandoned them in their past, and his last breath, has nothing to do with that. ![]() 2. If he doesn't abandon his own kids, why will his own kids treat him in his old age as though he abandoned them? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:37am On Jan 01, 2023 |
inosend:This new year, my advice to you is that you read more books on critical thinking and reasoning so you no longer regurgitate recycled bullsheet. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:38am On Jan 01, 2023 |
RPG2020:2023 please borrow wisdom! ![]() To make it right what they can do is make certain they do not abandon their own kids like their own dad abandoned them. End of story! ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:46am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Lamasta:How do you know this? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:46am On Jan 01, 2023 |
chidiwar:And People like you shouldn't because? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:47am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Akhaz024:The nerve on you! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:48am On Jan 01, 2023 |
OlumSOJ:What curse? Why let fear of a non-existent curse cause you to follow the path of foolishness abeg! ![]() His father abandoned him and so all he has to do is not abandon his own children. Case closed! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:51am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Komu1048:Why would his children threat him that way when he does not intend to abandon them like his father before him? ![]() Please borrow wisdom this 2023! ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by ghiloman28(m): 3:54am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Wo wateva. do anything you wish. Last time I checked it your personal problem. Good luck Kobojunkie: |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 3:57am On Jan 01, 2023 |
ahiboilandgas:Pretty much! ![]() Imagine the nerves of a man/woman who abandoned children to suffer for many years crawling back to the very same people he once considered of no worth seeking to be cared for. Na because tradition don't drug people mind say taking them back is the responsible thing. Problem is that also means these individuals also never reap the reward that awaited them and the wisdom from that is lost from the collective by that. Any wonder why these wicked folks seem to get bolder and bolder with each generation. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 4:01am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Pennywise2:Again, if he does not abandon his own kids, Surely, his kids will not consider him a father who abandoned them, right? ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Nobody: 4:23am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: The Lord's prayer say forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who.have trespassed against us. Please forgive him. 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 4:26am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Baddosqqi:To forgive means to forgive them of all their hurts against you. That is all. No aspect of forgiveness stipulates that you continue in relationship with the one who you have forgiven as though nothing has changed. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Pennywise2: 5:45am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:what makes you a child of God is not that someone wrong you. no its not. you are a child of God when you can forgive. bible says blessed are the peacemakers, they shall be called the children of God. he offended but in his time of need you now want to pay him back. read bible wella. instead of abandoning him, remember him. God says that whatsoever we do to anyone that is sick or in prison or naked etc, we did it to him. you dont have to live with him now. just check on his health. get some drugs or anything that will help. 1 or 2 days visit every week till hes fine should be more than enough. this action im talking about looks simple but thats the guarantee you have. Matthew 25:40. All the best 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 5:55am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Pennywise2:1. Forgiveness means to cancel a debt owed. Forgiveness does not however mean you continue the relationship you previously had with the one who offended you nor does it mean that you sit back and allowed said person to then continue to hurt you. ![]() 2. A peacemaker is one who forgives as opposed to not forgiving. The father abandoned and hurt the children and so definitely, they should look to forgiving him, not for his sake but for their sake since God will only forgive those who forgive others. But suggesting they must help him in his time of need is something else entirely. ![]() 3. You quoted there from Matthew 25 vs 40, but you forget that that is work required of those who have become righteous — recall that sin makes filthy all our good works, Isaiah 64 vs 6 —and the other poster did not tell you anywhere that he is a righteous man so requiring of him righteous work is overstepping on your part. Make we please try to dey leave God out of many of these things so we can be more reasonable in our judgment first. ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Clazzone(m): 6:23am On Jan 01, 2023 |
I don't joke with getting involved in my children welfare and being available for them |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Clazzone(m): 6:25am On Jan 01, 2023 |
But we don't need to pay evil with evil... safe your head. |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by RPG2020(m): 6:28am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You don't pay evil with evil know this and have peace of mind 2 Likes |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Father4all: 6:30am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I didn't say so. Infact, I hate irresponsible Father but man must reproduce |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 6:35am On Jan 01, 2023 |
RPG2020:But, by suggesting that he is paying evil with evil you assume he is responsible for this man who abandoned him as a child, which is not the case at all. ![]() |
Re: This Is What Happens When You Neglect Your Children by Kobojunkie: 6:37am On Jan 01, 2023 |
Father4all:No one is saying don't reproduce but do so responsibly is all we are asking. ![]() |
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