As a male, guy or man whichever one your ego picks, that a lady is showing you attention doesn't not mean she wants to date you and not also all the ladies in your life are not sent cause of a relationship or intimacy, alot of us are short sighted by peer pressure and social media that you should not be in a ladies friend zone, I can tell you first hand that humbly staying in a ladies friend zone has done me more advantage than the sex and romantic moments you are looking for ( Got access to a celebrity, got an idea out of our discussion that's probably making me a millionaire,met with some top people here in my state. We just wanted each others growth and we are very far from romantic talks, we are always busy on one project or the other.

If all I always wanted was relationship I would have missed a particular opportunity that I am still enjoying till today and I can tell 97% of the ladies I have ever met still have the same respect they have for me when we first met.

Pick one person, define the relationship from day one and work with the definition, how will all you are looking for is just to have sex with another person's daughter, will you be happy if your sister is in her shoes?

Look beyond emotions and look into the advantage, your real wife might be in your lady friend's status but because you wanted relationship, sex and dating or bestie zone she rejected you and you missed out.

True I've learnt something today....

In summary. If u wanna be in lady's friendzone. Choose the one with sense. I repeat WITH SENSE Coz if u dnt. She'll be d one tellin her cycle that u r a maga and a daft.

Lowkey, the same ones with sense that u gain from (not sex or romantic relationships here) will or may start feeling something 4u. If u refuse them the attention, just knw dey r lowkeyly beefing ur real babe coz they feel they shud b d one despite d favours n gains.

In another summary. Dnt try to understand that gender.
Coz if u do. U will fail. The male psych is different from female psych.

Ablemax:
True I've learnt something today....

I am happy you did.

Natbrowny:
In summary. If u wanna be in lady's friendzone. Choose the one with sense. I repeat WITH SENSE Coz if u dnt. She'll be d one tellin her cycle that u r a maga and a daft.

Lowkey, the same ones with sense that u gain from (not sex or romantic relationships here) will or may start feeling something 4u. If u refuse them the attention, just knw dey r lowkeyly beefing ur real babe coz they feel they shud b d one despite d favours n gains.

In another summary. Dnt try to understand that gender.
Coz if u do. U will fail. The male psych is different from female psych.

Also true you have a point, I have been in a case where the emotions part entered, though she didn't feel entitled but was hidding the it. Like you said the one with sense which alittle easy to know.