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Re: Am I Wrong? by kernniejay(m): 5:42pm On Dec 27, 2022
StrongAlphMale:
OP, you sound like a weakling.

Dude, you don't tell a girl you want to date her, you go straight to the point and initiate the banging mood ASAP and bang the hell out of her. The new year is coming, ensure you don't take this attitude of your weak nature along
I can imagine the sort of girls you meet daily.
Re: Am I Wrong? by placeofallure(f): 7:51pm On Dec 27, 2022
StrongAlphMale:
OP, you sound like a weakling.

Dude, you don't tell a girl you want to date her, you go straight to the point and initiate the banging mood ASAP and bang the hell out of her. The new year is coming, ensure you don't take this attitude of your weak nature along

You don't do that to every girl, especially the decent girls. Some relationships are nurtured to graduate to something substantial. How can you tell me straight on you wanna bang me? You won't even dare cause I comport myself well. I don't know anyone in real life who'd be as rude and indecent as that. Haba!
Re: Am I Wrong? by Exceed15: 9:20pm On Dec 27, 2022
toujurs:
You just behaved childish,you messed up big time but you don't know, she even told you she wanted friendship, while you wanted to Bleep her, and you still blocked her. It's from friendship you two can get into a relationship, and you will get what you want. You are too fast, slow down.

There are ladies that are very reserved, especially introverts, they have E-friends, and very quiet and boring.

If you see her talk to her physically, don't do chat, talk physically more often with her

No he didn't. He only guarded his emotions the girl has been tampering with. By blocking her on WhatsApp is a sign he is not interested anymore. If she's not ready , he can choose to move on. There is no specific time frame to that.

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Re: Am I Wrong? by Exceed15: 9:24pm On Dec 27, 2022
U v done well. She's not ready and u can't dwell there either. If u keep on you will become a pester. Infact when next u see her keep a straight face. Don't give room to any girl to play with your emotions. Guard it well.
Re: Am I Wrong? by toujurs: 9:24pm On Dec 27, 2022
Exceed15:


No he didn't. He only guarded his emotions the girl has been tampering with. By blocking her on WhatsApp is a sign he is not interested anymore. If she's not ready , he can choose to move on. There is no specific time frame to that.
I can't disagree to this. We all gat different focus.
Re: Am I Wrong? by ifihearam: 11:56pm On Dec 27, 2022
gimakon2:
Because she no give you kpekus na e u restrict am for whatsapp, and you wan marry, you no understand woman and you wan make she stick with you. Uncle see make i tell you something No woman , i repeat, no woman will love u when u no get patience with am. You gas get patience if you really really want to have a woman in your life.

You will not expect her to come once and you shift her pant just like that, she would not want to look cheap for you na.
I am dating one working in MTN now, aunty nearly turn me to mad person before i give her small space. I did not restrict her, i did not stop calling her, i just reduced my hand make she use her hand think things well.

Does not mean she does not know she is not behaving well too. The part you did not do well was restricting her, dont do that, allow her to mumu her sef finish, she go find u by herself come back.

One day monkey like that for my area, i just day allow her have her fun, i know what to do with humans like her, no worry.

You are a simp
Patience is for the weak, a girl you are being patient for is dying over another man who doesnt feel same way with for her.
The OP did well at least he asked her twice and she said no..so what else? she does not like him simple.
A woman who likes you doesn not stress you no matter what, things becomes easy even if she is slow to have sex for fear of being used, she will show you the green light and encourahe you all the time on why you should put in effort.

There is no time as we are all mature, if she says no..kindly move to the next Kings..no time.
Re: Am I Wrong? by gimakon2(m): 5:35am On Dec 28, 2022
ifihearam:


You are a simp
Patience is for the weak, a girl you are being patient for is dying over another man who doesnt feel same way with for her.
The OP did well at least he asked her twice and she said no..so what else? she does not like him simple.
A woman who likes you doesn not stress you no matter what, things becomes easy even if she is slow to have sex for fear of being used, she will show you the green light and encourahe you all the time on why you should put in effort.

There is no time as we are all mature, if she says no..kindly move to the next Kings..no time.

Wasting my time with someone who does not know anything? Just read your first line, and i have a conclusion, You obviously do not know anything, and i would not indulge a careless and stupid person further.
You have sisters, if they are treated like animals, then you would call the man a person with a better heart.
You have lost your sense of morals and decadence. Run along. No time to waste with an empty skull . No matter how long or how hard u try to make u know something, you just wont. Your kind of person no believe say woman fit do anything good for you, and that is why you would always meet who you want to show power with.

Simp or whatever, nothing day inside your head, day go. I no get your time.
Re: Am I Wrong? by obinnazy(m): 7:04am On Dec 28, 2022
toujurs:
You just behaved childish,you messed up big time but you don't know, she even told you she wanted friendship, while you wanted to Bleep her, and you still blocked her. It's from friendship you two can get into a relationship, and you will get what you want. You are too fast, slow down.

There are ladies that are very reserved, especially introverts, they have E-friends, and very quiet and boring.

From friendship, she will start asking him for financial favors.

The OP is wise

If you see her talk to her physically, don't do chat, talk physically more often with her
Re: Am I Wrong? by StrongAlphMale: 7:05am On Dec 28, 2022
placeofallure:


You don't do that to every girl, especially the decent girls. Some relationships are nurtured to graduate to something substantial. How can you tell me straight on you wanna bang me? You won't even dare cause I comport myself well. I don't know anyone in real life who'd be as rude and indecent as that. Haba!

Try get sense na and read my comment below.

How can a guy just walked up to a girl and says he wanna bang her? That's absurd. U don't tell her directly, you tell her indirectly by letting her know through your body language. Aunty you're a girl stop pretending like you don't understand what I'm saying. Which is how can a guy walks straight to you and say he wanna bang u? Besides sef with this your comment, it shows you even Love it. So stop pretending like you don't understand what I mean
Re: Am I Wrong? by Wyrax: 7:50am On Dec 28, 2022
Thank you all for you input.

It might be a good decision after all.
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 8:38am On Dec 28, 2022
gimakon2:
Because she no give you kpekus na e u restrict am for whatsapp, and you wan marry, you no understand woman and you wan make she stick with you. Uncle see make i tell you something No woman , i repeat, no woman will love u when u no get patience with am. You gas get patience if you really really want to have a woman in your life.

You will not expect her to come once and you shift her pant just like that, she would not want to look cheap for you na.
I am dating one working in MTN now, aunty nearly turn me to mad person before i give her small space. I did not restrict her, i did not stop calling her, i just reduced my hand make she use her hand think things well.

Does not mean she does not know she is not behaving well too. The part you did not do well was restricting her, dont do that, allow her to mumu her sef finish, she go find u by herself come back.

One day monkey like that for my area, i just day allow her have her fun, i know what to do with humans like her, no worry.

So you have to debase yourself to have a woman?

Don't you have dignity?

A woman misbehaves simply because she doesn't rate you at all.

And you are there waiting to serve a second fiddle.

She falls back to you as an option she can manage.
Re: Am I Wrong? by gimakon2(m): 8:56am On Dec 28, 2022
LagosInter:


So you have to debase yourself to have a woman?

Don't you have dignity?

A woman misbehaves simply because she doesn't rate you at all.

And you are there waiting to serve a second fiddle.

She falls back to you as an option she can manage.




English no hard. I no know which one be debase and undebase for there na you sabi. Rate or not rate, if you feel relationship no work, baba day go. No be to do the one of whatever you write here, she be human being too. Get patience, if you cannot, just leave. Two people in getting to know each other , one must be calm for the other, i dont care whatever nonsense you write here, that is strictly your headache.
If man beat your sister or your daughter you no go carry fight go e house abi? e reach your own turn you talking debase because of woman.

Oga if you no ready get tolerance, be single. To Bleep is not compulsory, neither is having a companion compulsory. I go follow u day see woman as sexual objects to uphold your nonsense you call statement abi wetin? If you cannot learn to have patience and tolerate short comings, be single. Mxm

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Re: Am I Wrong? by Prettygirl200(f): 10:58am On Dec 28, 2022
SPAMBOX7:
You could have told her point blank you not interested in friendship if she's not ready to fvck. Y'all soft niggas always quick to block women. That's some weak ass move man. Let her see you thrive and regret
What is the difference between what u Just said and what the op did, this una alpha bullshit has really gotten to some of your head that u couldn't even comprehend before commenting.
Re: Am I Wrong? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:01am On Dec 28, 2022
StrongAlphMale:


In all you do, don't reply to the SIMP above the second commenter after the "evil". he's notoriously known on nairaland for for simping
Weak alpha male don drop quote!!!
Re: Am I Wrong? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:04am On Dec 28, 2022
Wainey:
the difference between myself and u is that you came from a home where your father disrespect ur mother so u feel women should be treated as thrash, thats why u see nothing wrong when a girl was insulting ur mother and calling her names like olosho on the other thread

I am nothing like your father
Don't mind the weak alpha male, guys like him are the ones who don't respect their mother's so he transfered that same rotten character to all female's on this forum. Who will u blame? Their father's ofcourse.
Re: Am I Wrong? by StrongAlphMale: 11:05am On Dec 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
who's this fool? You should know by now that i don't engage with idiots Oloshos like you !!
Re: Am I Wrong? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:05am On Dec 28, 2022
Cholls:
my brother na mouth you get
Lol see casting!!!
Re: Am I Wrong? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:07am On Dec 28, 2022
HellVictorinho6:


The mouth is even overrated.
Yet another casting!!! Lol
Re: Am I Wrong? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:08am On Dec 28, 2022
[quote author=StrongAlphMale post=119490329][/quote] Hahaha e pain am oooo weak alpha male is pained oooo lol
Re: Am I Wrong? by StrongAlphMale: 11:11am On Dec 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
you're starving of my attention? This is the last attention I'll give on NL
Re: Am I Wrong? by Prettygirl200(f): 11:32am On Dec 28, 2022
[quote author=StrongAlphMale post=119490572][/quote] Weak alpha male dey hype himself. cheesy
Re: Am I Wrong? by ifihearam: 12:14pm On Dec 28, 2022
gimakon2:


Wasting my time with someone who does not know anything? Just read your first line, and i have a conclusion, You obviously do not know anything, and i would not indulge a careless and stupid person further.
You have sisters, if they are treated like animals, then you would call the man a person with a better heart.
You have lost your sense of morals and decadence. Run along. No time to waste with an empty skull . No matter how long or how hard u try to make u know something, you just wont. Your kind of person no believe say woman fit do anything good for you, and that is why you would always meet who you want to show power with.

Simp or whatever, nothing day inside your head, day go. I no get your time.

I only called you a simp and took back the real words I had in mind and see how you reacted?
what if i told you the truth? fir instance, you girl working in MTN has other guys she respects and adores that bleeps her for free?
Where does respect for women or treat them as animals have to do with this? ehn oloshi?
He asked her out and she refused, he blocked her for his mental health and you call that treating her like animal? are you such a foooll and weakling>

Its men like you women use and dump no mater what you do for them, I say unto thee, you are a simp and a big ode.weakling
Re: Am I Wrong? by gimakon2(m): 12:16pm On Dec 28, 2022
ifihearam:


I only called you a simp and took back the real words I had in mind and see how you reacted?
what if i told you the truth? fir instance, you girl working in MTN has other guys she respects and adores that bleeps her for free?
Where does respect for women or treat them as animals have to do with this? ehn oloshi?
He asked her out and she refused, he blocked her for his mental health and you call that treating her like animal? are you such a foooll and weakling>

Its men like you women use and dump no mater what you do for them, I say unto thee, you are a simp and a big ode.weakling

Stupid person. you can go. Bigger ode.
Re: Am I Wrong? by Nobody: 12:28pm On Dec 28, 2022
Hi
gimakon2:


English no hard. I no know which one be debase and undebase for there na you sabi. Rate or not rate, if you feel relationship no work, baba day go. No be to do the one of whatever you write here, she be human being too. Get patience, if you cannot, just leave. Two people in getting to know each other , one must be calm for the other, i dont care whatever nonsense you write here, that is strictly your headache.
If man beat your sister or your daughter you no go carry fight go e house abi? e reach your own turn you talking debase because of woman.

Oga if you no ready get tolerance, be single. To Bleep is not compulsory, neither is having a companion compulsory. I go follow u day see woman as sexual objects to uphold your nonsense you call statement abi wetin? If you cannot learn to have patience and tolerate short comings, be single. Mxm

I have lots of them and I cut off any that tries to snub or disrespect me because if have got my ego and dignity.

A man without dignity and self respect is doomed.

You have none.

You go about begging women who don't want you.

If they want you, they make things easy for you.

A simp is a danger unto himself, his family and others.

Spits.
Re: Am I Wrong? by peterincredible: 1:54pm On Dec 28, 2022
Wyrax:
There's a lady I had been friends with. I asked her out twice but she said no.

She still kinda trys to make friends with me and all sort.
she revives the feelings I have for her and makes me make bad decisions

So, I told her point blank that she needs to stop making contact with me etc.

She didn't really till I restricted her on WhatsApp (I use GB WhatsApp).

So I observed she doesn't have my number again I guess she deleted when she thought I had blocked her. And also she doesn't greet me again when she sees me physically.

I don't know if I did something extreme. Or bad?

I know she wanted friendship. But I am NOT in a relationship now. I would just die if jealousy if
I allow it continue.


Bros u did well most girls just love attention you asked her out she rejected you, u moved on and only greet her but she continued to try to get your attention you told her point blank that you are not ready for frienship and now she is angry, the truth is she is angry because she isn't getting any attention from you and it hurts her, she coming to you is not because she likes you but she want to use you for just validation and nothing else you are a man and a strong man

What men don't know is that women love to keep men around just for attention when their boy friend gets them angry dey go look for the one they have rejected who she is stringing along to validate her self and once she and her boyfriend get back together she withdraw from the simp

Men know this you attention is value only give it to some one that Is worthy of it

I faced one like that during my service year I cut communication with here she did the chasing and I Neva looked back after the rejection
I am facing another one at work she rejected me I moved on greet her in the morning but don't talk to her she is craving for attention from me I just ignore here or give her one short reply and go my way at first she got angry that I gave her space now she is coming back trying to get my attention but I don't give a second chance there are many women out there

Pls op don't give her any attention just greet her when you see her but don't give her attention she is just an attention freak
And don't start a friendship with a woman you want to date be honest go to her and tell her if she rejects you cut communication and move on don't be friends it will only make you sad and open you up for manipulation

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Re: Am I Wrong? by HellVictorinho6(m): 2:18pm On Dec 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
Yet another casting!!! Lol


Does it mean you agree with me?


Anyways ,it's been another terrible year for me.... additional death threats ..... that's all I can remember mostly.
Re: Am I Wrong? by ifihearam: 5:05pm On Dec 28, 2022
LagosInter:
Hi

I have lots of them and I cut off any that tries to snub or disrespect me because if have got my ego and dignity.

A man without dignity and self respect is doomed.

You have none.

You go about begging women who don't want you.

If they want you, they make things easy for you.

A simp is a danger unto himself, his family and others.

Spits.


he is a simp..leave that good for nothing simp.

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Re: Am I Wrong? by ifihearam: 5:07pm On Dec 28, 2022
gimakon2:


Stupid person. you can go. Bigger ode.

You see how you have shown your clownish tendercies>?

even @Lagosinter and other people noticed..you will remain a slave to women.
Re: Am I Wrong? by ifihearam: 5:09pm On Dec 28, 2022
Prettygirl200:
What is the difference between what u Just said and what the op did, this una alpha bullshit has really gotten to some of your head that u couldn't even comprehend before commenting.

Na small kids nor mind them...and in real life dem soft pass banana before girls.
Re: Am I Wrong? by gimakon2(m): 5:34pm On Dec 28, 2022
ifihearam:


You see how you have shown your clownish tendercies>?

even @Lagosinter and other people noticed..you will remain a slave to women.

Until then we shall see.
King to women. How is your relationship and home?
Re: Am I Wrong? by Wyrax: 8:20pm On Dec 29, 2022
peterincredible:

Bros u did well most girls just love attention you asked her out she rejected you, u moved on and only greet her but she continued to try to get your attention you told her point blank that you are not ready for frienship and now she is angry, the truth is she is angry because she isn't getting any attention from you and it hurts her, she coming to you is not because she likes you but she want to use you for just validation and nothing else you are a man and a strong man

What men don't know is that women love to keep men around just for attention when their boy friend gets them angry dey go look for the one they have rejected who she is stringing along to validate her self and once she and her boyfriend get back together she withdraw from the simp

Men know this you attention is value only give it to some one that Is worthy of it

I faced one like that during my service year I cut communication with here she did the chasing and I Neva looked back after the rejection
I am facing another one at work she rejected me I moved on greet her in the morning but don't talk to her she is craving for attention from me I just ignore here or give her one short reply and go my way at first she got angry that I gave her space now she is coming back trying to get my attention but I don't give a second chance there are many women out there

Pls op don't give her any attention just greet her when you see her but don't give her attention she is just an attention freak
And don't start a friendship with a woman you want to date be honest go to her and tell her if she rejects you cut communication and move on don't be friends it will only make you sad and open you up for manipulation

Hmm
Re: Am I Wrong? by DonroxyII: 2:57am On Jan 01, 2023
placeofallure:


You don't do that to every girl, especially the decent girls. Some relationships are nurtured to graduate to something substantial. How can you tell me straight on you wanna bang me? You won't even dare cause I comport myself well. I don't know anyone in real life who'd be as rude and indecent as that. Haba!
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