Good day my fellow nairaland, pls I would want this to move to the front page of nairaland.
The reason am here is that I want to cut off my relationship I started 1year ago off
Thuo it all started last year December thuo this lady I knew her since and we where friends at some point she always come around to my place and we discuss and she go, and this repeat itself several times, a time came i started developing feelings for her and last year December I called her and she came around and I told her my mind and her response was that she like me to so from there we kick off our relationship,
The Relationship was moving very sweet , because it was just a new relationship, at some point within 2month she came around telling me she is pregnant for me, I was not surprised because before she came up to tell me that I already saw it in my dreams but I refuse to say it out, so my response was that I will come to her place let know how will would handle the issues and she left.

To cut the long story short, we agreed to remove the baby and the reason was that her Mon was late and they yet to do the burial and I don't know the tradition of their people thuo the process of removing the baby was not easy it cost me everything I had and the lady in question was a lady that is too scary, all the money I spent most times she refused to show up when we wanted to remove the baby,but at the end I pleaded with her to see reason and she leta show up and the baby was remove,I was not happy thuo because it was my first time of doing such,but I had to take a decision as a man.
After then the relationship continue again and this time it happens again but when the news came to me I decline it saying is not mine thuo I knew within those period I had a new girl. And I also did something with her when she comes most times and I trust the lady thou, after several declining, I didn't know she knew where my parents leave and she went straight to tell my parents about her second pregnancy for me I was called to come around and when I went my mom first ask me I said yes but I told her am not interested that she should remove it and by then too their where still making plans to burial her mom and I told my mom the reason and she said okay, a date was fix between me and the lady and after much discussion she agreed to remove it again.
But within me I felt bad and I knew I have done something bad to her and I have also done something bad to my God,so I call her and told her to forgive me and after several times she said okay, and we continue and within me I told myself I will eventually married her and everything was moving fine again.
but lately November ending this year she just decided to block me on all her social media handle and I didn't notice it untill I told one of my guy that knew her to send me her last seen on Whatsapp and the guy told me she chatted with her recently two days ago I was surprised and I call her and asked if she blocked me and her response was that she don't know and she started avoiding me both my calls and after I told my closet friend about it he advised me to call her let talk one and one which I did and she leta show up, I asked her what is the problem she said she is tired of everything I told her just within 1year u are tired, that I would not Force you but if you have made up your mind to go let it be up to you that u left me so you won't blame me tomorrow, that because of you I have given Red card to all my ladies I know before because I want to be serious with you at that point she felt a weak I told her to go if that what she wanted and she was like it okay that everything would be fine, I started trying to show her how important she was to me I go most time to her work place and buy food for her ,at most points she started acting Nice too
December came and I told her to pay a visit so we can plan the Christmas well since she said she would be having off for 1week, she keep saying she would I didn't see her leta she told me I should forward money for her that is Christmas I told her am not against but let us see so would know what and what will would spend money on and plan well toward this new year she said okay,I didn't see her I even went on the 24th night to withdraw money thinking she would turn up I didn't see her meanwhile she has started the 1week off since on the 23rd ,I didn't say anything on the 26th I received a call from her I should send her 10k that her cousin is not feeling fine, I boldly told her I don't have she cut off the call I sent her a text I told her clearly that if she wants the person she blocked on social media to borrow her Money that since she wants to continue on this her recent attitude I will definitely follow her that way, since then I refuse calling her and today is the last day of the year,i want to call it off from her and start the New year A fresh

Pls need a reasonable advice thuo I know nairaland can't be complete without and insult attached to it thanks in advance

Nigeria ladies Nigeria ladies,pls you people should learn to be wise where all this men are,stop allowing all this men to use your head,i can't imagine what i just read now,some of this men are just so heartless to the extent of even denying a pregnancy they know fully well they are responsible for,like seriously God need to punish some Nigeria men ,op i don't have advise for you, carry your cross.

You must be really stupid
You would get her pregnant , abort.? To repeat same process again.
She’s really silly for coming back to you after the second abortion.
Best would have been her terminating your life
Stupid op

You're just being wicked that's just the simple truth.


Someone got pregnant for you the first time and you had to force her to terminate the child, which I believe she reluctantly did
And you still had the mind to impregnate her again and this time around, you had the guts to deny it.....hmmm when you know fully well you were responsible

And the Yeye girl sef still get mind wan continue with you if she bn see 10k.mtcheww

See what coñdom of 200naira would have prevented

So want to turn her to abortion machine abi

Stop acting father roles to a girlfriend
She will lose interest in you sexually

All you nigggas do the same pattern and expect different result