I know there are fewer decent ladies these days,but all things being equal,is it decent for a lady to speak with the opposite sex (that's not her boyfriend or husband) on phone after 11pm

Nothing there,

are u serious? is dis really a  question?

is she married?

then its not wise since that's time she should be spending doing other things.

although it depends on the nature of the call.

if its trivial, then there's no need.

sirs and mas lets say the truth. a responsible wife or wife material should be in bed latest 10 except if she got something important to do that keeps her awake other than posting or making phone calls. i wouldnt date or marry such late night talking babes

In the UK a lady can answer her phone at any time, it would not make her less of a lady.
My best friend who is a female may call for a chat at 11.30,

is it decent for a man?

people talk as if their bodies are robots?

God created man to rest occasionally, just like he himself rested on the 7th day.


heart attacks and hbp are both real!!

be wise, jeez.

amazing thread

Why talk at 11pm,when MTN forces Nigerians (who love freebies) to make free nite calls from 12.30am -4.30a.m.lol
imo Anyone who calls at past 11, except for emergencies, is suffering from insomnia,webmania or extremely active social life which is common among youths, but tends to fade as age increases with sensibility decreasing exuberance and replacing it with regret or decorum.

how and why would answering the phone after a certain time determine decency?

Its relative to the african values and moral upbringing.

Anyone who calls at past 11, except for emergencies, is suffering from insomnia,webmania or extremely active social life which is common among youths

cant remember making or receiving any such non-essential calls even when younger.




maybe in this era of facebook, webcams and whatnot, time of day no longer matters.

Might be the only time to talk to folk in another timezone.

@toba,well said
@deniyan,nice question,hmmmmmmm!
@lari03,very funny

Good question.


But u see, if it's sensible talk & u know him i don't see anything wrong, although i do ave a policy about that, i only push it sometimes with 1 of my guy friends he's pretty decent.

C nothing wrong with that.

Married or not a woman should be able to answer or make calls on her phone at anytime of the day as lond as she does not disturb anyone wit her calls.
What is wrong with everyone? I am sure y'all will say a married man can answer his phone as you wish

^mschew, don't mind dem (toba, u inclusive), women should watch their weight, women shdnt rcv calls past 11, women should remain virgins n stop sleeping around, bla bla bla!

Like seriously?? Wat is with these 'boys'

i don't know what to do about these ladies that keeps mentioning my name. truth be told, a decent babe, wife material or a wife shouldnt be heard or seen making calls at such odd times. except for emergency, job routine or different time zone, it would be improper to engage in such frivolous chat. a girl responsible to her guy or husband if married at such odd times. come to think of it, what biz do pple transact at 11pm if not to toast and flirt or exchange contacts? that's my opinion. my girl or babe cant engage in such BS if she must continue with me. i have an acute insomnia hence, i hang around till 1am reading on line or watching CNN to be abreast of latest around the world. if not, by 10.30 pm i should be in bed

Well, dats u, You should judge others ( seeing them as irresponsible)cos they are not like you,

Pathetic. i have asked some fundamental questions which a decent lady should answer. check my post again to see the questions. im not judging anyone i just hate BS.

bhusayor:

Well, dats u, You should judge others ( seeing them as irresponsible)cos they are not like you,

sexkillz im not sure u read my post at all or u did but couldnt understand it. review it again and address the fundamental questions raised therein. im talking in general and in relative terms. i for as one individual is an advocate of decency and as sucq no holds barred in talking down to earth

I'm not in for late night calls, find long conversations boring, but I tnk u n websurfer mentioned 'chatting online' at nyt too as being indecent, reason I made my comment, If u are also guilty of chattn online, flirting n all, then you shouldn't dee yourself as a decent man and shouldn't get worked up wen your gf does that.

NOTE-I'm not talkn aboutn married women

young lady. whats so important about late calls? why wouldn't any reasonable individual talk at early hours? why wait till 11pm. my babe knows the rule. she dares not engage in such frivolities. its still fair for a guy but not a lady. a guy can flirt but not a lady. if its outside emergency, diff time zone or job routine, the fellow is out to either gossip, flirt or in for some mischievous act. not forgeting health grounds or exam. exam self u shd be reading and not posting on nl or making illicit calls

bhusayor:

I'm not in for late night calls, find long conversations boring, but I tnk u n websurfer mentioned 'chatting online' at nyt too as being indecent, reason I made my comment, If u are also guilty of chattn online, flirting n all, then you shouldn't dee yourself as a decent man and shouldn't get worked up wen your gf does that.

NOTE-I'm not talkn aboutn married women