Thank you everyone for your input. I will definitely inform her mum about this. It is for her benefit and not reporting her will be irresponsible on my part. I don't care if she thinks that I am wicked, the thing is I don't even want her staying with me anymore. I am too young myself to be handling a teenager that I just got to know two months ago. I can't bear that responsibility.

toujurs:
Your behind, looks attractive. E dey enter my eyes, i wan choke am

Commot body, cos e dey choke

Reminds me of a girl they brought from our village who lives with her grandma. My mama take am in oay her school fees from jjs3 to ss3. Even bought her jamb form. The quiet innocent looking girl ran off with a yahoo guy in ajah. She is 21 now with 2 kids ( last we heard of her) with the yahoo boy . You are at fault here what kind of useless reading is that TDB. Which parent go allow another child to come read with their own child overnight self. Your life and safety self is at stake with the okada man and her. What if they plan bad for u

Kooldon:

Commot body, cos e dey choke

Abeg choke me . E reach to choke ontop.

I hope am not catfished o, because ehn

Whatever you do, don't report her to her mum if you do she will will start covering her tracks.
Seat her down like an elder sister and let her know she's not doing anything evil or bad by being attracted to men but she's doing it the wrong time.
Become her friend and confidant, she will you how far she has gone with this man. She's in the puberty age, her hormones are in overdrive.

dominique:
The okada man is filling her head with lies and fake promises, you have to tell her that the he-goat is messing with her life. After he has destroyed her life, he will be amongst the people that will taunt her. These useless men will pick up naive young girls, mess with them, saddle some of them with pregnancy then come online and start crying that girls have gone wayward. Why can't you shameless men leave these young girls alone to build their lives? You mess up their lives and still turn around to shame and judge them.

The harsh and unpleasant truth is that most of these kids never had any foundation to start with. Very few of them can move past the life they were raised in.

People who grew up in a one room hut where their parents were knacking in front of them are already in a hurry to do same.

What is an education to someone who grew up in a village and whose ultimate life goals are to start having pikin and maybe a small corner shop?

I have deleted my post already. I don't want the issue reaching front page. This thread is closed already, thank you once more everyone.

nahr:
Thank you everyone for your input. I will definitely inform her mum about this. It is for her benefit and not reporting her will be irresponsible on my part. I don't care if she thinks that I am wicked, the thing is I don't even want her staying with me anymore. I am too young myself to be handling a teenager that I just got to know two months ago. I can't bear that responsibility.

This girl is your litmus test. She has opened your awareness never to judge a book by its cover. I bet her demeanor, including your standard when your were in same age took you off guard on this discovery. She only has like 7 weeks more, if I were you I won't tell her mother. Having personal phones triggers most of these kids fantasies

nahr:


Why not? Like in a building where if I stand outside our gate I will be seeing their gate too? I once stayed with my sister for putme, she was not overbearing and I never for once misused the opportunity to misbehave. No matter how overbearing you are, if a kid wants to misbehave trust me he or she will definitely find one way or the other to.

This same girl attends coaching lessons and she returns late at night sometimes. Where do I know she might have been during the day? Am I going to put a tracking device on her or I should be stalking her? I am a student myself and I have a lot of workload to do. How am I expected to be monitoring her like a hawk?

So the mother came all the way from that distance for nothing.. Why didn't you tell her you wouldn't be able to monitor her like hawk?

you accepted the responsibility, what's all the nonsense you are typing gan.