i saw this on a site n i know it will help many homes. u should add yours too.


What could I do to make you feel more loved?
What could I do to make you feel more respected?
What could I do to make you feel more understood?
What could I do to make you more secure?
What can I do to make you feel more confident in our future direction?
What attribute would you like me to develop?
What attribute would you like me to help you develop?
What achievement in my life would bring you greatest joy?
What would indicate to you that I really desire to be more Christ like?
What mutual goal would you like to see us accomplish?

Optional - Have I overlooked any question you would like for me to ask?

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Are you married and if so, practice them on your wife if you're male.

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i'd prefer the question to be
do you want more money
how much do you want more
would you like a new wardrobe?
do you feel like going shopping (not shopping for food o)

Money and Sex are not the major motivation for most people - the questions are great and I think for MOST people (not all) it does cover some real issues that pop up in solid marriages.

chaircover:

These sound like interveiw questions LOL. Way too technical. The wife probably doesnt know the answers herself. I certainly cant answer all the questions 

3 important questions that you missed out;

Are you happy?
Do I satisfy you in bed?
If you had a choice will you choose to marry me again?

u r very correct.