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Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Irupetepete: 9:55am On Jan 07, 2023 |
Omo, uneasy lies the head that wears the crown... I am not the rich relative, infact, I just go by everyday doing the best I can.. I am this person that doesn't know how to beg cos right from onset after sec school, been fending for myself till I got married... Everyone knows the terrible situation in Nigeria right now so I can't but pity the rich among many poor relatives right now... I have a junior brother who just came in from outside... He was looking fresh and fly but looking at him yesterday, I almost shed tears... He has been the one shouldering many responsibilities and he is just 33yrs old... He said Egbon, you self no need anything? I told him he shouldn't worry that I will manage... I was eavesdropping one of his call last December and he was lamenting he has spent close to 13m in just 3months of coming home... The problem we have as Nigerians is, everybody tends to have a problem or the other when their rich or abroad relatives land... Spending for his immediate family isn't the problem but iru wa, giri wa,(diff. Sort of people) and as per naija mentality, if you don't do, they may inflict you with something or somehow diabolically stop you from traveling back.. The last time he was home was 8yrs ago, he sure me say if he travel again, na till retirement before he go come back.... So share your experience as per the aforementioned topic.. 88 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by yrhuhfy113: 9:59am On Jan 07, 2023 |
this is so apt... I have faced this, traveling from country to country peacefully and enjoying my life till someone told my family that I travel frequently and BOOMMMM all hell of demands broke loose... I wasn't married so the married ones began to place demands on me, tell their kids to call me so I can be manipulated to give... family responsibilites that I had no business with. I had to first relocate from the address they all knew... to somewhere they would never be able to find me, then I traveled out... changed my numbers, then I came back to Lagos and put on the FAMILY SIM just to greet them via SMS and remove it quickly before they call. Since then I have had peace, my own family has had peace, no more demands from extended relations EVERYONE WILL SURVIVE 264 Likes 17 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by ATEAMS: 10:21am On Jan 07, 2023 |
yrhuhfy113: LoL... Them go calm down las las 40 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Aareakinwunmi(m): 11:30am On Jan 07, 2023 |
Majority of Nigerians are not contented with what they have. I could remember when someone sent 500k to his uncle, after telling him things have been difficult. Only for abroad nephew to later heard uncle bought an expensive car, few months to the complain. Naso nephew vex block everyone say him self no see car ride for abroad. 180 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Nobody: 1:29pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
13million na jazz una jazz am abi wetin? This ur bro is too generous to be a regular nigerian abroad relative As for me from when i dey 5yrs till now na only $200 combined wey i don see from my devilish abroad relatives untop the 30yrs wey most of dem don stay there, no be like say i need dia moni but dem stingy die tufiakwa I’m sure all of dem must be obidient as dem no dey give shishi 45 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Hendrixky: 1:29pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Not easy But the quickest way to become a Billionaire is to ensure you make your relatives especially your siblings a millionaire first Only people with deep sense and critical thinkers will understand my statement above 243 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by God1000(m): 1:29pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Plenty Responsibilities, being the sole breadwinner is onerous 16 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by bro4u: 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
To be rich in naija sef na liability but I wouldn't mind experiencing it 43 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Opportuneke(m): 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hhhh |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by VawulenceProMax: 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Even scums that have not eaten for 3 days will write their experience as a rich relative 69 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by havenz(m): 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Gods willing am Still hustling to be rich because rich relatives no the help solve matter. #IHustleAndPray 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Deicide: 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Soon |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by NwaNimo1(m): 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
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Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by wunmi590(m): 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
In this present day government, there's nothing like rich relative, once you start working, you go chop billing both right, left, front, back and centre. 72 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Wickedfact: 1:30pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I have a boy who earns 2M monthly. In December, he collected 13th month making his pay 4M. First week of January, he chatted me on WhatsApp wanting to borrow 20k. Very stupid a boy. He's not the only one doing well in his family but since he has decided to be the Messiah of his family, they want to crucify him. 122 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Nobody: 1:31pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Poverty too much for the land naa. That's why some abroad people cut ties from those in Nigeria cos of too much demand 60 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by TalkTalkTwins(m): 1:31pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I've not made it in life yet but my phone is always on DND. When I was starving, almost no one was there for me. 72 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by theophorus(m): 1:32pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Once you just look Fresh then go think say your Account Frosh. But you self, once dey begin their story, you self suppose start your own too before dem go land, cos those people no mind to collect your last card. Of course don't borrow them any money irrespective of the story being told. Just give what you can afford and once you give twice tell dem say nothing dey again. If possible help them get job if you can. If you are not careful they will turn you to their Maga and will be using your money to drink and eat cat fish. 64 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by SocialJustice: 1:33pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I no make my money for anybody. When I'm broke, I'm broke alone, why should I be rich and be weighed down by people I barely know. By the way, from 200m Nigerians, 133m are dirt poor, less than 500k people have more than N1m resting in their account. If you think you can solve Nigeria's problem because you have little money, it will all get exhausted. 95 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by SIMONEKPA7: 1:33pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Billing, billing and more billings but we are not complaining because it is better to have and be giving than asking and be given. God no go shame us. The goal is to make everybody okay so billings go reduce 38 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by money121(m): 1:35pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Ok |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Johnjanrt: 1:35pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Eya! Learning from you all so when I make it I know how to go about life. Keep typing...... Even lies are welcome. 5 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Jestin: 1:35pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Them nor dey put family problems for head like gala because E nor dey finish. Do the ones you can and leave the rest for God 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by lagonovo: 1:35pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I am not but I know your middle name automatically becomes “Stingy” among the broke ones no matter what you do. Even if you help regularly, you become a bad person the day you say no to their stories. They offer advice on how to spend and invest and you wonder why they are always broke if they are that smart and disciplined. 37 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by Nolevel666: 1:36pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hendrixky: I hear you. So long you don’t make the wrong relative a millionaire while you’re broke. 10 Likes |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by BigDawsNet: 1:36pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I thank God |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by phorget(m): 1:36pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Hendrixky: Some siblings would rather remain a leech. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by faithfull18(f): 1:36pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
I will share my experience when I become rich 2 Likes |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by phorget(m): 1:37pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Wickedfact: Your boy is not serious with his life. 11 Likes |
Re: Your Experience As A Rich Or Only Rich Relative.. by EmahBoss(f): 1:38pm On Jan 08, 2023 |
Wickedfact: Tell me this is not true. If it is, then he is foolish, you mean for the whole year earning 2m he was not saving and putting for cash away for December spending? Tell another story 10 Likes |
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