Person wey don drink. lmao.

FalseProphet1:
He should save in your bank, I don't understand did he tell you his bank has problem or he doesn't know how to save money. Madam keep your eyes out of his money and focus on your education if not, no guy would take you serious.

This I have seen.

Shey you are okay sha? Abi you're trolling?

Make the best decision for YOURSELF. GET A JOB AND HAVE YOUR OWN MONEY BII

Banilla:
I suppose. We weren't born rich, so I absolutely want us to live better. When I had a job, I saved but I don't think he did. And it's frustrating. He talks alot about the future but all this time, we haven't really started working towards achieving any of our goals, atleast I'm trying despite living in the poorest country. He's doing better, so I expect some effort but I'm getting nothing.

I'll encourage him to save, I did when he first got the job, five months after we started dating. I know he'll quit again, he keeps doing it. All I need is stability.

Or I should just risk it? Stop planning, depend on fate? Trust him to make the best decision for us both?

Has he been investing in you?

You definitely have a good plan and intention but it's just somehow funny how you ladies tend to be unpredictable. Just take your mind off discussing with him as regards the issue of saving in your bank account if you really mean well for the both of you.

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

Madam and what happened to CHANGE which your gender beliefs it’s constant;after the guy save his future in your account and you later change that he’s not in your class again, will you refund his hard earned savings, am sure his mother has warned him about your gender, if that guy save the money in your account make i bend, commot your eyes for somebody money and have your peace of mind, you are not even suggesting joint savings account with both of you as signatories to the joint account.

You have no shame.

Moh247:




Pigyvest nko?!

Corporative Society nko?!


Women!!! Too much wayo..


But why ain't Nigerian girls into Yahoo... They have nice formats



.

Lol, you called this one nice format?? if this is how yahoobois have being doing it,do you think oyinbo will be falling for it??


this is the dumbest format so far and only the idiotic man can fall for it. My fiancee dares not raise such issue in my presence..

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

go and use Kayamata or ask your set how.are they doing it

All these useless depressed Idiots wey Just full this forum. Imagine you create account for this year on the 10th and you don get almost 200 Posts.

See mumu people sef con dey comment. Such Nonsense.

Banilla:
Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.

Hi everyone! I have a boyfriend, we've been together for a year. I absolutely love him, he's my whole world! And that's the reason I'm pressuring him to save, if we're going to have a future together. And he's down for it, he makes nothing less than 200k monthly. I'm still a student, searching for a decent job. I can't invest sh** presently but I hope to start soon. Yesterday, I brought it up. I want him to send money monthly to my bank account, no matter how little. I'll save it for him. He's hesitating. He said I should be patient, he'll give me everything I need but he wants more time. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need his co-operation. I'm scared he might leave me, after I've given him the best years of my life. I subtly threatened him that my family would force me to marry a Nigerian but he made a joke out of it, saying I would never, that I'm his...

What should I do?

NB: I've never taken a dime from him. He drinks often and I don't want him spending 'our future' on alcohol! I'm way better at saving.

I'm worried if I press the subject, he'll get mad at me.

I also told him I want to leave Nigeria, he thinks it's a good idea and I also told him I can't afford it alone. He said he needs time.

Doesn't he love me? Should I let it go? Or insist we resolve this?

He told you to be patient
Listen woman
Tame your emotions

Cruise intended thread

Banilla:
He's one the other side of the world! How can I be sure? He's young, indecisive... I love h, and I don't want us to ever break up. But long distance relationships don't last! If we don't settle down quick, we are over. And I don't want to give all my heart to someone who could break it. Half the time we were together, he had no job. And I didn't mind cause the relationship was relatively young. Now, we need to work towards something. What's the point if we don't? I won't spend his money, it's a promise. But either that or I find some way to pressure him into saving.

I have seen where your plan worked and worked very well. She was his love and helped him save alot of money because he was earning quite some sum but before the end of month everything is gone. He couldn't even give money to his parents and kin till he met this lady who wasn't okay with his reckless spending and took OVER HIS SALARY o - when it is paid, its transfered over to her account and a tidy accounting is done that was how they paid for their wedding o , house and a car over 2 years of their SHIP and his parents started feeling their working son.
I have experienced it bad too but it comes with understanding and trust and when it's not there then you shouldn't be in that relationship

I will suggest leaving him and move on
Most people get a reset when it's done

*My earlier story has a part where she left and he came back after a year o. My former vicar had the same story too but pleaae guys and ladies. These works unless you are a Christian or raised right or of one mind and focus. Remember I have seen it work very well and have experienced it fail

Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.

You'll take a bullet...? Hahaha, that's hilarious. �
Abeg! Abeg!

He hasn't married you - yet, so there may or may not be a future.

I'm sure he can manage his finances on his own, without your assistance. Thank you very much.

Forget the money matter, and face your own life.

Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.

Take a bullet eeeeeh .,

Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.

Take a bullet eeeeeh .,

Moh247:




Pigyvest nko?!

Corporative Society nko?!


Women!!! Too much wayo..


But why ain't Nigerian girls into Yahoo... They have nice formats



.

Make dis your mouth no come kee you!

You're already talking as if you're his wife and that's not too good for you.
If you are not comfortable about his lifestyle of taking alcohol often or that he's careless with the way he spends his money, you may consider backing out of the relationship. Don't let love becloud your senses.

You are not serious.....psheeew! He should save his own money in your personal bank account.... He Shud av given u a dirty slap for saying this......so that u will start telling him story later. U are a scam

If you mean well for him tell him to download cowrywise app, set a saving plan, set a date you want the money to be locked and let him be saving there.

Any money he saves on cowrywise cannot be withdrawn until the withdrawal date.

Except you have ulterior motives I don't see any reason why he should save in your bank.

Banilla:
I'm not spending his money! Read the post. One of us has to hold it. We can't open a joint account, too far away to do so.

So what matters is who. And I'm better suited

...shayo...

Banilla:
I'm not spending his money! Read the post. One of us has to hold it. We can't open a joint account, too far away to do so.

So what matters is who. And I'm better suited

you ladies are clown, you don't have a source yet you're talking about joint account



please go and read the principle and policy of joint account. I guest you're dating an iidiot

Another destroyer of lives spotted. Were dey disguise. Better crawl back into the hole you came out from, you vermin

Moh247:




Pigyvest nko?!

Corporative Society nko?!


Women!!! Too much wayo..


But why ain't Nigerian girls into Yahoo... They have nice formats



.

Many of them are into cybercrime...it's just that they know how to conceal it, unlike guys

[quote author=Banilla post=119963796]Mods, take this to the front page. Thank you.


Not married to him and u want him to start keeping his money with you lol

Just imagine ur brother's girlfriend telling him same thing... Use that to advice yourself

Let's assumed you have good intention, it will be misunderstood. And even people with good intentions sometimes turn to self preservation.
Why not tell him to open an account in his name where he can save money that can't be access for a few years. Money only he can have access to.
That's the only way you will not be seen as a gold digger. People here are already calling you names which is justifiable because no right thinking man should save money in his girlfriend's name.

You sound like a crook who have an ulterior motive for a relationship that is just a year o.
Which better days of your life do you want to spend with him when you don't have anything meaningful doing and don't have money? U want to know?

If you have suggested he save, it would be a different thing and he then ask you to suggest how you want to go about it, would have been better and I don't even think it's wise for you to tell him to save in your account o, no be your mouth e suppose comot.

I saved in my wife's account when she was my girlfriend, but it was my own plan and suggestion after we had been together for about 3 years and I know the kind of person she is. If she had told me that, I would save and not even hint her I'm doing that so she Dosent elope with my money.

You should be thinking how to earn good money in future and not bothering about cajoling your boyfriend to save money in your bank account.

EnterpriseMan:


Abeg leave this clown!! Na she dey find suger daddy up and down the other day Hustle no go kill person

na was... LoL

Pls give me the guy contact let me help you convince him to BE DROPPING HIS MONEY IN YOUR PERSONAL ACCOUNT.

You get mind shaa... This a pure red flag

U don't plan future with someone whom u are not yet married to .You have good intentions,but no man wants to be controlled by an opposite sex.Particarly when u are not yet his wife.Thread with carefulness so u don't make him feels u are the type who will like to control him tomorrow even if u both gets married

EnterpriseMan:


Abeg leave this clown!! Na she dey find suger daddy up and down the other day Hustle no go kill person

it feels like i know the owner of this banilla account. Same typing style and madness.


Anyways, she will never grow up.

Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.

If you truly love him, encourage him to save, but not in your account. Has he officially married you? You appear as a manipulator.

Banilla:
You don't know me! I love him. Why would I betray him? I'll take a bullet for him if I have to. He wants to marry me! The joint account is to save for us both. That's why Nigerians are where they are, we are planning long term. You can't build a future on love alone. I'm being reasonable.

oversabi lover
Love is just a feeling. It fades. Ask divorced couples. It's a dumb idea

FalseProphet1:

You're not his wife so he has no business opening a joint account with you. You're just a girlfriend who can dump him tomorrow and abscond with his hard-earned money.

Leave him alone and Hussle for yourself.

Cc: Banilla

God bless you Falseprophet1.

Ignore that olosho who's only looking for means to suck that guy's hard earned money. Criminal, he should save his money in your account as per you're his Bank manager or what? Are you his wife? Is he your father? You're just GF and you're already eyeing his money, using the term "our future" as manipulation. Theif!

See the way you're screaming our future, this shows you're desperately looking for means to finish that young man and his money. You better remove your olosho eyes from his money before thunder go fire u there