Are you Married because the Holy Book Mentioned it ?

Are you Compel.by the statement in the Holy Book ,Do you Personally just look into it and decided to Marry .

With the Alarming rate of Divorce .

Why do you Marry ?

Because you want Children ,Companionship. A Bed Mate to Avoid Messing Arround.

Why Would a Woman/Man you claimed you love sooooo much Decide to Divorce you..

Someone you might have said you can take a bullet for now turn out to be the one you do not need anymore ..Chai !

Many of the Youth in this Generation would tell you Oga ,What is the need for Marriage ,If it ia for Recreation ,Children,They can always find a Lady to Sleep with and have Children...

What is this Nagging ,Wahala ,Saucy ,Disrespecful Woman /Man be this Self.

They Would even say ,Freedom Is not in Marriage ..


Quite Unfortunate.

knowhowk:
Are you Married because the Holy Book Mentioned it ?

Are you Compel.by the statement in the Holy Book ,Do you Personally just look into it and decided to Marry .

With the Alarming rate of Divorce .

Why do you Marry ?

Because you want Children ,Companionship. A Bed Mate to Avoid Messing Arround.

Why Would a Woman/Man you claimed you love sooooo much Decide to Divorce you..

Someone you might have said you can take a bullet for now turn out to be the one you do not need anymore ..Chai !

Many of the Youth in this Generation would tell you Oga ,What is the need for Marriage ,If it ia for Recreation ,Children,They can always find a Lady to Sleep with and have Children...

What is this Nagging ,Wahala ,Saucy ,Disrespecful Woman /Man be this Self.

They Would even say ,Freedom Is not in Marriage ..


Quite Unfortunate.

Is there a POINT to your post?

Because married or not, relationships are no longer as PURE and BLISSFUL as it used to be in the days of our parents when love was genuine.

Single men are achieving so much more without marriage and even without sex.... because a critical look at Marriage, they soon discover many promising men went downhill after marrying a jobless entitled lady, who innocently brought kids to this world and because of the heavy responsibilities, the finance of such men sunk.... and they became broke or struggling.

Many marriages have ended long ago but both parties just keep staying together because of society and kids.

So its not holy book... this generation doesn't care about being holy... we just want PEACE AND PROGRESS.

knowhowk:
■Are you Married because the Holy Book Mentioned it ? Are you Compel.by the statement in the Holy Book ,Do you Personally just look into it and decided to Marry .
■ With the Alarming rate of Divorce .
■Why do you Marry ? Because you want Children ,Companionship. A Bed Mate to Avoid Messing Arround.
■Why Would a Woman/Man you claimed you love sooooo much Decide to Divorce you... Someone you might have said you can take a bullet for now turn out to be the one you do not need anymore ..Chai !
■Many of the Youth in this Generation would tell you Oga ,What is the need for Marriage ,If it ia for Recreation ,Children,They can always find a Lady to Sleep with and have Children...
■What is this Nagging ,Wahala ,Saucy ,Disrespecful Woman /Man be this Self. They Would even say ,Freedom Is not in Marriage .. Quite Unfortunate.

1. Which "holy" book? No be paper, glue ,and ink dem all be? Or is it the process of making the materials that makes a book holy?

2. Why is it necessarily alarming? People now realize that Marriage was never meant as a prison for any man or woman to endure in pain, shame and defeat, so why be alarmed?

3.

4. Technically, nature does not provide anyone with an endless supply of love chemicals as the brain can only sustain supply for so long, so expect that all Marriages founded on love sponsored by brain chemicals are bound not to last.

5. Are they necessarily wrong in their answer?

6. Marriage is not meant to be chains on anyone. Instead it is supposed to be enjoyed by both people in it --- it is an agreement between a man and a woman, not shackles for a man or woman for the sake of the other.

yrhuhfy113:
■Is there a POINT to your post? Because married or not, relationships are no longer as PURE and BLISSFUL as it used to be in the days of our parents when love was genuine.
■ Single men are achieving so much more without marriage and even without sex.... because a critical look at Marriage, they soon discover many promising men went downhill after marrying a jobless entitled lady, who innocently brought kids to this world and because of the heavy responsibilities, the finance of such men sunk.... and they became broke or struggling.
■ Many marriages have ended long ago but both parties just keep staying together because of society and kids. So its not holy book... this generation doesn't care about being holy... we just want PEACE AND PROGRESS.

1. Pure and blissful as it was during the time of your parents? You mean the stories they fed to you abi?

2. What you posted is part of the "pure and blissful" of your parent's time. Why do you claim their time was "pure and blissful" yet reject part of what added to making it so?

3. More because of society since and not kids because there many of those kids are deprived even as they are housed in those loveless marriages.

knowhowk:
Are you Married because the Holy Book Mentioned it ?

Are you Compel.by the statement in the Holy Book ,Do you Personally just look into it and decided to Marry .

With the Alarming rate of Divorce .

Why do you Marry ?

Because you want Children ,Companionship. A Bed Mate to Avoid Messing Arround.

Why Would a Woman/Man you claimed you love sooooo much Decide to Divorce you..

Someone you might have said you can take a bullet for now turn out to be the one you do not need anymore ..Chai !

Many of the Youth in this Generation would tell you Oga ,What is the need for Marriage ,If it ia for Recreation ,Children,They can always find a Lady to Sleep with and have Children...

What is this Nagging ,Wahala ,Saucy ,Disrespecful Woman /Man be this Self.

They Would even say ,Freedom Is not in Marriage ..


Quite Unfortunate.

The holy bible did not make marriage mandatory

It is not compulsory to marry tho.

Kobojunkie:
1. Pure and blissful as it was during the time of your parents? You mean the stories they fed to you abi?

2. What you posted is part of the "pure and blissful" of your parent's time. Why do you claim their time was "pure and blissful" yet reject part of what added to making it so?

3. More because of society since and not kids because there many of those kids are deprived even as they are housed in those loveless marriages.

Point of correction sir....
over 70% have proven is pure bliss, your own personal experience with your parents does not count.... I have met too many to come and be doubtful.

They didnt marry whom they loved... they loved whom they married and DIVORCE was a taboo UNLESS by cheating.... and cheating was punishable by the gods of their land.... or by some other means and it was a stigma.... LISTEN... MARRIAGE is not for everyone... it is FUN when both parties are ready to work it.

KIDS and SOCIETY equally because when you love your children, you know separating from their mom will destroy their world... and you will stay even though you no longer love their mom. Not everyone cares about society as much as they care about offsprings of their very own loins. So get it clear.

Marriages can only work when people do not marry for LOVE... because before marriage, LOVE IS NOT YET PROVEN... it is after marriage, childbirth, several years.... we know who loves who. Marrage is work when both parties LOVE to do the work. Simple

yrhuhfy113:
■ Point of correction sir.... over 70% have proven is pure bliss, your own personal experience with your parents does not count.... I have met too many to come and be doubtful.
■ They didnt marry whom they loved... they loved whom they married and DIVORCE was a taboo UNLESS by cheating.... and cheating was punishable by the gods of their land.... or by some other means and it was a stigma.... LISTEN... MARRIAGE is not for everyone... it is FUN when both parties are ready to work it.

1. What 70% are you ranting about? And where is this proof you speak of?

2. Official divorce was a taboo since society was more accepting of marriage abandonment(unofficial divorce) you mean?

By the way, what gods punished cheaters? Why una dey like to dey twist facts any which yeye way? Your forefathers who were notorious for bringing in new women and concubines, abandoning some(children as well) as they saw fit told you cheating was punishable by the gods. It seems you too like fairy tales that is why you feed on such bunkum.

Autobot05:


The holy bible did not make marriage mandatory

Hmmmm !

Autobot05:
The bible did not make marriage mandatory

In addition, it doesn't even make procreation mandatory either.

knowhowk:
Hmmmm !

Procreation is also not mandatory..

Kobojunkie:
In addition, it doesn't even make procreation mandatory either.

If you dont marry .. then you cant procreate if not it will be the the process of fornication

I dunno if artificial insemination counts tho lmao

Autobot05:


If you dont marry .. then you cant procreate if not it will be the the process of fornication

I dunno if artificial insemination counts tho lmao

Alternatives dey

Autobot05:
If you dont marry .. then you cant procreate if not it will be the the process of fornication
I dunno if artificial insemination counts tho lmao

Whichever way, there has never been a mandate to procreate.

Kobojunkie:
Whichever way, there has never been a mandate to procreate.

Exactly

Companionship and Children !

It's get lonely as you age !