i feel so much hatred for my ex,it scares me sef.i hv tried to get over it,but its soo hard.jus wen i thought i had heard the last of him,he proposed to his Ex, that same girl he crushed wen askin me out,dat it was over btwn dem,she's not a good girl blah blah, and silly me jus fell for his rhymes n 3months later,duh!!he dumps mi n heads back to her,jus wen i felt i was securing my rship!ooh!so much for my naivety.now i jus hate the mere mention of his name anywere!

Sorry to hear that,erm what's his name,so that we don't mistakenly mention it here.

Confirmed Evidence.

LOVE IS A MENTAL ILLNESS.

Don't worry dear.I know you are not new here so you know what to do.
Cry the river,build the bridge then make sure you get over it.
Don't build a wall cz u wont move on and the day you stop feeling bad at the mention of his name is the day you will know you have healed and moved on.

sorry to hear that poster but you were a classic rebound.

he rebounded with you and his breakup didnt take so boom he is back. a rule you should live by is never to date someone who just got out of a relationship at least 4 to 5 months

askmee:

i feel so much hatred for my ex,it scares me sef.i hv tried to get over it,but its soo hard.jus wen i thought i had heard the last of him,he proposed to his Ex, that same girl he crushed wen askin me out,dat it was over btwn dem,she's not a good girl blah blah, and silly me jus fell for his rhymes n 3months later,duh!!he dumps mi n heads back to her,jus wen i felt i was securing my rship!ooh!so much for my naivety.now i jus hate the mere mention of his name anywere!

is that why you had to create a new NL id? askmee= erm, erm pendo89. 

see a woman spending so much energy on a deadbeat simply because she loves the guy but he chose someone else. . . . . . . . . . na wa for you lot!

OP, look at all the positive that happen to you during the short time you were with him, rather than spend energy hating his guts for loving someone else. be glad he parted ways with you before you REALLY fell madly in love with this dude.

sauer:

is that why you had to create a new NL id? askmee= erm, erm pendo89. 

Are u kidding me? Here I am poking the op cz I have noticed so many new names of late in this section with less than 10 posts.
Now am ask me? pendo saying 'sef' congrats.

Try to forget everything about your Ex. its kind of hard by the way he treated you but i believe with time you will be OK and forgive him.