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Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by pacino26(m): 8:03am On Jan 20, 2023 |
I tried not to bring this to Nairaland or any social media platform until justice is served but matter is taking a new twist. Sometime in August last year, my friend’s fiancée was beaten and raped by her boss. She walked in on him freaking the cleaner in his office and after the act with the cleaner he sent for her to come up and did what most cowards thinking with their third leg do; forcefully had his way with her. This was almost at the close of work so he went on to give her money 5k for medication plus the first threats. Young lady told my friend as she got home and got him arrested same evening by the Police in Enugu. There he admitted verbally and was apologizing until he was bailed and turned tiger to take back his words that he only beat her for coming to use his bathroom (which is open to all staffs and the only functioning one in the plaza as at time of the event). There was an agreement that if the girl brings an affidavit she will be given NGN600,000 at the police station. My guy kept demanding for justice and he is not bringing in any affidavit. I joined them at the station to ask questions which the IPO and DCO couldn’t provide to actually establish a case before talking about compensation. Was the scene of crime visited after the complaint? No! Were other staffs interviewed to establish the usage of the restroom by the office? No! Did the IPO collect or tried to view recordings from the CCTV in the office and retrieve the hard disk for further analysis? No! The clothes and tights submitted have they been taken into evidence and sent for analysis? No! When she went to the police clinic for checks and tests what was the report from the doctor who met her, was there evidence of forceful penetration and other signs of rape aside the physical bruises on her? To this last question she was just seen by a doctor and even her samples collected that day were not analyzed neither did they carry out swab on her for DNA and semen. It was when I was asking these questions that they reminded me that she was asked to come the following day after obviously taking her bathe to come to see a doctor. In other words no medical report from the police on the day of incident. There and then I knew it was going to be a difficult case to prove. As usual IPO was sponsored to go and visit scene of crime 4days after the incident and took gratification from the accused in front of the complainant with the boss threatening to deal with my friend when this is over. The next scene was at the OC medical’s office. I must thanks the medical director for her blunt address to a rape victim. The summary of her comments is that female staffs take low paying jobs with the hopes of having affairs with their boss and receiving benefits more than what they earn. That from her POV the young lady is having an affair with her boss and this is a case of lover’s jealousy and makeup. That for the fact that the young lady is not a virgin, there is no way they can ascertain if she was raped or not. My friend was expressly told that he failed by allowing his fiancée to continually work in an environment where she could be sexually assaulted and is culpable for negligence and conspiracy! Omo I was shocked to my very genes. So those women working in banks, corporate offices and even some forces who are harassed by their bosses is a fault of the husbands? I lost hope there and this further emboldened the IPO to go and tell the man that there are no evidence to prove rape. My only question to the head of medical was; who was the doctor that examined her on the night she visited and what were his observations? There are no records, in fact as they didn’t pay for tests that day no card was issued and it was assumed they were not coming back. At this point all hope was lost. My brother took his fiancée and made way to their house to wail in peace and seek redress in native courts. The man was summoned to a community close by his own. He evaded all summons and threatened fire and hell. We neglected and left it for the land to handle. He came up later to admit his crime which my friend have on phone records but is not willing to accept terms such as ; vowing not to ever rape someone again, paying for all expenses incurred in pursuing justice and compensating the young lady for emotional trauma and other pains caused. We left the venue of the talks few days ago and I was informed by my friend who took his dad for eye surgery that the police came to their house early morning looking for him and his father that they are thieves. All through the talks my friend has maintained his stance for justice and have made it clear they will only accept compensation when the man openly admits to his crime and apologized. This is to avoid been tagged a criminal for blackmails and extortion same thing the police came to say this morning. May this piece guide those who may be in similar situation to act as I implore those who have good suggestions to drop. We have contacted a lawyer and the outcome was disappointing. Thanks Update: She has been arrested at her new place of work. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Jashub: 8:04am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Nigerian police that's still struggling to know the whereabouts of bandits is the one you're hoping to give you justice for rape ...? Baba, must be out of your goddamn mind ![]() |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Zonefree(m): 8:05am On Jan 20, 2023 |
This was almost at the close of work so he went on to give her money 5k for medication So, your friend's beloved girlfriend collected the 5k after the alleged rape? 2 Likes |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by rickpat(m): 8:15am On Jan 20, 2023 |
rape is a criminal offense before it can be established in a criminal court you must prove it beyond all reasonable doubt,in this case your evidence is too sketchy(you have little or no evidence)...YOUR BEST BET IS TO SEEK FOR COMPENSATION FOR ASSAULT IN A CIVIL COURT good luck to her 1 Like |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by pacino26(m): 8:17am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Zonefree: Money she paid back into company account the next day. The money was forced on her and she returned it after stating same in her statement at the station. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Zonefree(m): 8:22am On Jan 20, 2023 |
pacino26: ![]() Forced on her indeed. Guy, I'll advise you and your friend to take the advise of the OC medicals. She's well experienced in cases like this and I believe she's right in her words. Her words; . That from her POV the young lady is having an affair with her boss and this is a case of lover’s jealousy and makeup. That for the fact that the young lady is not a virgin, there is no way they can ascertain if she was raped or not. 4 Likes |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by fman(m): 8:40am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Office romance.... After owerri, fear enugu babes... Ask wakumsy wetin desperate chicks do am back in the days.... |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by pacino26(m): 8:53am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Zonefree: It’s no news that decadence and immorality is the order of the day. I am well aware and also a guy man. But there exist few out there true to themselves. I agree with you because to prove it within existing laws is dead on imagination not even on arrival. That explains why people go beyond the law for justice. Same reason why after looting billions folks will receive 9months with option of fine 800,000. Thanks 1 Like |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by kenedyx: 9:10am On Jan 20, 2023 |
She caught her boss with her colleague, then came back to collect her own share.. So she prolly was already having an affair with the man and only came back to confront him out of jealousy. As for rape... Nah! As far as it was just one man without a weapon, what stops you from grabbing his scrotum till he starts to cry? You allowed him till he finished and even gave you money for postinor 2 which you collected. Definitely don't believe this entire write up. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by pacino26(m): 9:36am On Jan 20, 2023 |
kenedyx: Oh how much I love Nairalanders and their savagery. Lol. This write up is not to confirm if there was a rape or not or gather sympathy. The culprit admitted what he did at the police station and some other place. So it’snot a question of the girl lying. The write up is for those who may be in a similar situation tomorrow and I dropped flaws that has prevented the lady from getting due justice. Your POV follows general assumptions of Nigerians. The man was crafty enough to drop cash with her under duress to invalidate all claims of rape and nothing can be done to state otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by TheChameleon: 10:14am On Jan 20, 2023 |
Really sad how rape victims are treated. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Baronthecelebri: 10:32am On Jan 20, 2023 |
To me my advice is to go to war with the man's family, forget police. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Saintmary(f): 12:54pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
pacino26: I'm so sad for the lady. Rape is a very traumatic experience. But I think you and your friend should have sat the lady down and asked her what she wants before pursuing justice. She is the one wearing the shoe, she is not a child, you should have laid all the options open to her so she can chose the best way to go. The medical officer that was talking trash about her personal unfounded suspicions, may her own Karma meet her in front. 1 Like |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Germanjoe(m): 2:40pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Make I ask oh abeg,one man fit rape a lady? I just wan know how possible. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Wealthoptulent(m): 6:56pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
pacino26:Ok ! Women, men! None can be trusted, o leave God for judgment |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by pacino26(m): 7:37pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Few hours ago the barrister we employed his services informed us that the case is being handled by the FCIB in the state, the petition states that the young lady and my friend seduced and lured the petition to a shrine with the intention of duping him the sum of 5m. The IGP gave a directive to all formations and commands of all FCIB/IGP teams to only treat cases brought forward by DPOs. This is to avoid instances where persons who were granted bail will go and institute cases against their complainants because they weren’t favored in the case. The IPO where the first case was reported is not on the know of what is going on. As usual it’s an order from above. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by pacino26(m): 7:39pm On Jan 20, 2023 |
Germanjoe: Never underestimate the rage of a Hot mad man/woman |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Germanjoe(m): 4:54am On Jan 21, 2023 |
pacino26:Hmmmm,people are trying.5-10s of sweetness will land man to total regret. Which might be too late to cry will the head is off. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by JONSYN7154: 6:46am On Jan 21, 2023 |
Send an unknown gun men to kill him. Case close. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by PoliteActivist: 9:20am On Jan 21, 2023 |
Germanjoe: See this one. In primitive times that's the only way - you are horný, you overpowered a woman. Which is why women still say no even if they want do - they want to be overpowered and "forced". Sex is more fun that way - it's in animal DNA. And man is an animal! |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by dnawah(m): 9:21am On Jan 21, 2023 |
pacino26:una the waist time,if una dey sure,make una carry am ok juju. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by PoliteActivist: 9:25am On Jan 21, 2023 |
dnawah: Why juju no dey work for world cup and olympic games? I just dey wonder (BTW did you have to quote the entire article?? Go back and modify) |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by Germanjoe(m): 1:15pm On Jan 21, 2023 |
PoliteActivist:N wit all those forcefulness their manhood still stand.nawa |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by PoliteActivist: 3:33pm On Jan 21, 2023 |
Germanjoe: Why not? Plus in most cases it's not that kind of forcefulness. If a woman presents horný and eager and the one pursuing you, e dey somehow |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by pacino26(m): 12:17pm On Jan 22, 2023 |
dnawah: Oyibo Naija say na Trial by ordeal. The effectiveness of that side in issues like this is not questionable, na the grammar later be the issue.
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Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by PoliteActivist: 4:02pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
Germanjoe: It is not forcefullness that way. It is a little token resistance that you then overcome. It's more fun that way, than a woman simple throwing open her legs |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by backnbeta(f): 6:22pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
PoliteActivist:This is why we still have many rape cases in Nigeria! Forcing yourself on a woman was never and is never right- whether in your so-called primitive times or now! No woman wants to be forced! They may succumb out of powerlessness, but not because they want it! Please erase this mindset @OP, Contact NGOs and Rights groups in the state through the ministry of women affairs or get someone in the gender unit of NSCDC or even the police. These organisations have active gender desks in at least one station. Look for WARDC, UNFPA desk office or FIDA. |
Re: Raped And Been Threatened With The Police by PoliteActivist: 7:20pm On Feb 23, 2023 |
backnbeta: Notice I put "forced" in quotes. It's a game that simply makes sex more interesting (exception being long-term partners). You never, never, NEVER force sex on anybody. NEVER!!! Here's how I put it in an earlier post: It is not forcefullness that way. It's a game you both understand. It is a little token resistance that you then overcome. It's more fun that way, than a woman simple throwing open her legs |
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