Tokskob2008:
She doesn't cook for him nor let him have access to his bed rights yet don't want him to have a second wife

Your sis needs her brain checked instead of trying to stop him from having a second wife and I'm pretty sure those were the bad attitudes in her the husband saw before seeking a second wife... She can't eat her cake and have it at the same time.

madridguy:
Your sister should go and seek for Allah forgiveness and allow the megida to have second wife in peace.

gasparpisciotta:
Your sister’s husband reserves the right to take more than one wife. After all your sister has not been performing her duties as a wife.

All I can say is that your sister should improve on her communication skills, discuss with her husband or better still consult a respected elder in the family to intervene

Otherwise her new ringing tone will be “ o ti lo...it’s gone!!!

satandeterrible:
Your sister denies him sex?
God punish your sister.

I wish I knew the man personally I will contribute to his second marriage.

Instead of you to caution your stupid, I'll-mannered sister, you're here asking foolish questions.

Worthless woman (your sister).

fyzaila:


Shooo why all this insults naa... it is just a harmless advice that is needed here.

satandeterrible:


What kind of harmless advice do you need again?

The man provides for her jobless, wretched and broke self, the man sponsors her education, the man still participates in house chores yet she denies him sex and doesn't cook.

May God punish her again and again.
Useless and worthless woman.

Samantha123:
Since your religion permits polygamy, then she should just stop being dramatic and deal with it.

Day169:
I'll suggest that your sister looks inwards first of all and make amends from within.
If she's truly concerned about sharing her husband with another woman then she should go to him and apologize and do right by him first and then hopefully he sees the reason he made you his first choice.
Wish her the best of luck.

fyzaila:


Shooo why all this insults naa... it is just a harmless advice that is needed here.

Richy4:


<<The religion that the husband practice, does it permit polygamy?
<<If yes, While your sister was courting the husband before marriage, was there any time the issue of getting another wife ever came up?

Richy4:

<< where they having misunderstanding in their marriage prior to her discovering the chat?...and she was denying him the conjugal right as some claimed?
Please make it more clear

ukaface:
She should allow him now

Your sister should also learn to mind her business once he takes the second wife, to prevent hypertension.

fyzaila:
she said she even denies him s3x sometimes because of this and also she's nonchalant about cooking and house chores all so that he can change and stop. But he doesn't seem bothered. And they have 2 kids.

Nairalanders please what can you say about this situation now.

fyzaila:


God will not answer your prayer... it is my sis issue i brought here. She isn't even aware. Please control your tongue and stay off.

I know there are some certain people who learn the hard way probably she's one of them.

fyzaila:
I don't know how i can help this situation gaskiya. My sis has been troubled ever since she went through her husband's WhatsApp chat with one particular woman. She told me she has been suspecting her husband who is always with his phone 247 for like 4 months now. She said he is always pressing his phone even till past 12am. When she noticed this she talked to him about it but he told her "it is his phone not hers, everyone should do whatever they like with their phone" she said she even denies him s3x sometimes because of this and also she's nonchalant about cooking and house chores all so that he can change and stop. But he doesn't seem bothered. And they have 2 kids.

So one particular night he slept off and the phone fell off his hand so she took it b4 it locks and went through his chats. She discovers he has been having emotional affairs with a divorced woman. It seems to her the woman was his ex. He is planning on marring her as his 2nd wife. And the woman also has two kids.

She said he hasn't defaulted in his responsibilities to the family. Me personally, i don't know what to do to console her to accept reality. Since our religion permits polygamy.

Nairalanders please what can you say about this situation now.