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Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by 1Sharon(f): 4:50am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Justbehave: Pls how did you know? |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Yankee101: 4:54am On Jan 24, 2023 |
1Sharon: He didn’t lie to her She chose him. Produced his songs. Helped his career and married him. It’s a bit easier on men than women due to the childbirth complications and blood loss danger 2 Likes |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by 1Sharon(f): 4:56am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Yankee101: He told her he's ss? Well, I've said what I said. I'm not buying it. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by pfadom: 4:58am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Was he really deceived or a mistake of omission on his parr? Any prospective couple desirous to build a healthy home knows the need for basic premarital medical tests including genotype. Your brother is not responsible enough for marriage. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Yankee101: 5:01am On Jan 24, 2023 |
1Sharon: It’s easier for a woman to marry an SS than the other way round. She helped build a successful brand and you want another woman to enjoy her sweat? Nah |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Greenfusion: 5:05am On Jan 24, 2023 |
This is just foolishness on the part og the lady, you are SS, you want your children and yourself to suffer what you have gone through.... Just pure stupidity 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Georgejeez: 5:44am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Lifeemetu: Someone should help me tell this person he or she is a phuuul 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Munzy14(m): 5:46am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Shalommy:That is what he is about to do..Divorce! No marriage survives with lies...Be open and plain. Who wiĺl stay, wiĺl stay. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Deeprooted: 5:53am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Justbehave: My sister who noticed something unusual about the lady before marriage turned into my brother's enemy till after his discovery |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Paulheyman: 5:57am On Jan 24, 2023 |
AreaFada2: Note 1) SCD is not an infections so can't be likened to HIV. it's a genetic hereditary disease Traced to the mutation involving substituting valine for glutamic acid. These substitution actually leads to what you call SCD. Sometimes it's not only valine that is substituted it may be other amino acids. So, the disease severity is mostly determined (but not always) at the gene. 2) on treatment: Gene therapy to the best of my knowledge is the only valid treatment/cure in SCD however, SCD can be managed. In the management of SCD different pathways of the disease pathophysiology is considered. That's why SCD patients are advised to take vitamin C, folic acid, B-complex, pyridoxine, zinc tablet and malaria prophylactic drugs. If any sickler uses these drugs judiciously, then, you can't really tell if he is a SCD patient or not 3) on carrier: if you have AS or AC etc. genotype then you are a carrier of the sickle cell treat. Simply means you can give birth to a sickle cell child and you can also have sickle cell crisis under reduced oxygen tension 4) Many misconception exist in SCD. Mine is to enlighten you and many others My opinion on the subject of discuss: 1) She was wrong: you don't risk the life of others to get married. By deception the marriage is void. She is selfish too 2) If the man was at least AA, my point holds. I have met many young SS patients happily married. 3) In Africa; mortality rate are usually higher in infants so, at adulthood, the recurrence of vaso-occlusive crisis is significantly reduced to an extent that the patient may not even have crisis that's the reason the husband couldn't tell if the wife was sick or not. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by blaise26abj(m): 5:58am On Jan 24, 2023 |
What is your brother’s genotype ? You left that out . Please if you are AA and you love the lady , go ahead and plan on staying abroad for better health care . They didn’t make themselves SS . And your kids will not be SS . Women will do anything to keep a man they love . While it is wrong to lie , Nigerians too should stop the stigmatization of SS 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by blaise26abj(m): 6:04am On Jan 24, 2023 |
GentleChief:Best match ? Like AAs don’t divorce or die like other people . There are ways to have healthy kids even when AS marries AS or SS . It is just expensive . So if you have money , that my brother , you are truly limitless in your choice |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Deeprooted: 6:05am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Shalommy: My brother is already tired of life as a result of medical bills. I blame him for claiming to be busy when such a crucial issue was involved. I just felt pity for him when he called me yesterday. From his voice alone, I knew he had been through a lot. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by cyprex: 6:05am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deception of any kind is not acceptable in marriage especially on this issue of Genotype Though you did not disclose your brothers Genotype but I can assure you that there is little or nothing to worry about especially I'd your brother happen to have AA Genotype I don't know whether there are other issues, if not I encourage your brother to look better ways to manage the situation |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Shorty1980: 6:08am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Time bomb, fear woman,she hide it from him cha .. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by deebrownneymar: 6:32am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted: Oh shit! |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Cutehector(m): 6:35am On Jan 24, 2023 |
This is the main reason why i say women are emotional and not realists. They allow love becloud their sense of reasoning and that is why as a man, you have to stamp your feet to demand what needs to be done. It is very normal for a woman to deceive you and say, hunny but there is no need for you to come with me, this is the result, i have a doctor friend who has done the test already. Lies! You have to insist you go with her to a neutral lab where nobody knows both of you. Men, always learn to stamp your feet when it comes to decisions, there is a reason why God let the female Gender submit to you because of your ability to apply reason without emotions. Never ever let them have their way or you will be manipulated. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Cutehector(m): 6:38am On Jan 24, 2023 |
blaise26abj:women will do anything even if it is stupid to keep a man such as making her children SS. Chief, nobody is stigmatizing SS, we do not want children to suffer from the SS genes.. Simple. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Geesaintagape: 6:40am On Jan 24, 2023 |
My guy, ur brother deceived himself claiming he was busy. Is he no longer busy now? Idiot |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Roon9(m): 6:43am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted: The lady is wicked and selfish. I mean she's not even concerned for her kids |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by blaise26abj(m): 6:44am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Cutehector: Never said it’s ok to lie . Besides I didn’t see where he said he is AS . If he is AA , the. There is no cause for alarm for the kids . For the wife though ,it is a serious issue that I believe can still be resolved if the guy truly loves the girl . Please don’t say it is dumb . It is quite difficult to find love normally in this world . Then you get to lose it because of something you had no direct responsibility for. It is difficult to let go and it is perfectly normal to want to damn the consequences . |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Zico777(m): 6:45am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Amayabor1:Did u read the part where I asked of the guy's genotype? Learn to comment sensibly. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by riverbird: 6:45am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted: The only thing a humble man like me will say is that every damn thing was built on lies, the BOY should kick her ass's out immediately. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Kkkem: 6:48am On Jan 24, 2023 |
If your brother is AA,it will be save but been AS,there is issue o,because of d children. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Nobody: 6:51am On Jan 24, 2023 |
The compulsory surgery to deliver through CS is one of the many travails of getting married to a lady with SS. I just don't want them to churn out more SS children. He should divorce her but care for the Baby except he has enough to cater for extra persons with SS. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Ade4God: 6:52am On Jan 24, 2023 |
If your brother is AA genotype, he should stick with his wife. When he say "I do", it was to be with the wife no matter what. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Sofyix: 6:54am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Na wa o.. this betrayal is deep. That means she can fake anything/cover up any evil in the future. You people shouldn't make him to stay in the marriage if he says he wants to divorce. He can still be responsible for the child regardless. Deeprooted: |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by Sofyix: 6:58am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Na wa o.. this betrayal is deep. That means she can fake anything/cover up any evil in the future. You people shouldn't make him to stay in the marriage if he says he wants to divorce. He can still be responsible for the child regardless. Deeprooted:[color=#770077][/col |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by DJInfluence: 7:00am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted:After saying this what else do you want us to add? Your brother is not thinking straight right now because abandoning his wife and child in the hospital says a lot about his character as a man. Nothing wrong in taking care of the mother and child until she's out of the hospital. Which will also give your brother time to get over his initial anger. This will help him make a more rational decision. Right now his decision making is marred by his feeling of betrayal. |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by maasoap(m): 7:00am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted:Divorce, straight!! No any other way around it. Have they carried out the genotype test on their kid? |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by jessylaurel(f): 7:05am On Jan 24, 2023 |
Deeprooted: Your brother is a fo*l and an illiterate. Even with his education. He can get her pregnant but can't go to the hospital for test before marriage. Nobody forced or deceived him to marry her. 1 Like |
Re: How My Brother Was Deceived Into Marrying An SS Lady by maasoap(m): 7:05am On Jan 24, 2023 |
DJInfluence: You don't know what you are saying at all. He just found out that he was deceived, but you didn't want him to be human. Abandoned was a temporary decision to be able to process what is happening, not like he wouldn't go back to the hospital or take care of the mother and child. A lot would be going on in his mind, the wife should even be grateful that his family were there 1 Like |
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