fiditi:

Not all ladies want material things. its just that what we want are different. I have been standing by my guy through tough and thin and still hope to continue till everything is alright. The funniest part is recently i was accused of still talking wt him as my parents belief I have left him. but they made a statement that no one dey manage Olorunsogo but Jokotola (sit down with wealth). Life is a two side coin and we re on different sides. I still belief in my guy and his future, and i am ready to continue standing by him. I love him so so so much.

You would live to reap the fruits of your labour

Its women like you - every man out there craves for

IbroSaunks:

I wud like ter meet @harakiri someday,

ActiveMan:

They are many good girls out their,
My girl friend took me some month to get her, then all was  LOVE LOVE LOVE, now December will be our 5 years.

This was what i did

1. Make sure we went to the same University, the same course, the same department just a year different.
2. I keep a close look at her, gave her some space, and also sometimes i might be hard like the wood on her.

All this was not by my power but God

Also about material things, why would Your Girl need something from you and you can not provide her, huh?
If she ask 10 naira i would try to get her 8 naira.

it's 5 years now, so what will she ask me that i will not buy if i have the money. and if i do not have the money i save for her and i keep her down that i will get her the money in some matter of time

TO ME THEY ARE GOOD GIRLS OUT THERE.

BUT A GOOD GIRL CAN TURN TO BAD GIRLS OH IF NOT PROPERLY CHECK.

Note: I notice that all woman like material things.

harakiri:

Materialism has always been the first thing people check before going into relationships (especially the lady in question and her family). Even the ladies who presumably date guys who aren't "paid" have seen some potential in the guy and are bidding their time. It's not a "good or bad" thingy. It's about animal survival instinct. True, a lot of ladies advertise their materialistic tendencies from the onset of the relationship BUT it's up to the guy whether to play ball or not. Mind you, if you give in to a lady's demands from the beginning of the relationship, be rest assured that the life blood of that relationship will depend on the size of your pocket coz the demands will keep getting bigger e.g from recharge card to I-phone 4, from taxi cab fare to buying her a car, from paying her rent to buying her a house (or land at least), from making her nails to buying Brazilian hair, from taking her to eat at KFC to vacation trips in Aruba! It ain't never gonna end.

The solution is simple. Don't give in. She ain't worth it (Trust me). You're better off with a girl who hawks her "goods" at night.

Nuff said! ! !