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I wonder why those who has already made up their minds on decisions to take come hear to disturb someone. You are looking for backup to call it quit. U don't want to feel like a bad person. You want support. Well you have gotten it online. The most useless people on earth are those who seek advice from public on relationship matters. No advice can be good enough unless you hear both party, do since both parties aren't here, the advice you would get here would always be faulty irrespective of who's giving it. Thanks

Brandiebird:


I’m not in your country and I’m not looking for long distance relationships. Thanks though 💋

all right dear. Drop that nigga like it's hot and focus on those who care about you fr

Brandiebird:


Wouldn’t you be tired of such a relationship yourself?

If you still want it too work , give it one last shot.

Be firm about what you want and how you feel about things.

If not ,end it take a break from relationship .
When you are ready, discuss all the things you feel could become an issue.
Simple😊

They're fucking Believe it or not Na u sabiY'all need to stop ignoring red flagsI'm sure you also have a guy you're tripping forThey're fucking Believe it or not Na u sabiY'all need to stop ignoring red flagsI'm sure you also have a guy you're tripping for...

The real truth is,there is no truth anywhere.it breaks your heart anytime he does it a day you have told him before,if moving on will give you peace then leave him and move on if it won't then call him and explain how you feel about when he dies such things

Brandiebird:


I wish I had a guy I was tripping over, I wouldn’t feel so stupid then!

It's actually very difficult for a girl to accept she's tripping
They always expect more effort and alot pestering except the guy is richly endowed

If everything you said upthere are true believe me they're seriously having sex
It might take a while for you to find out

Obviously, you are the one dragging the relationship. But if it's just status update on her birthday, then it's nothing.

Just a tip. If you want to know what he knows, always ask him about the girl once in a while and be nice while asking. The attitude you are showing about the whole thing is giving him the momentum to continue. Men will always go to or do what they were told not to do.

Brandiebird:
About 2 years ago, I warned my boyfriend about a girl; his childhood friend, that regularly calls him. I asked him to stop the regular conversation with her which he said he would do then. After some time I noticed he stylishly brings up unconnected and irrelevant issues about the girl regularly when we talk. Issues like how he is counselling the girl on relationship matter. My boyfriend asked this girl out way back in university days which is the more reason I got angry about everything.

For some time, I just pretend every time he raises those topics about the girl but to my greatest surprise, my boyfriend used this girl’s picture as status update on her birthday. I can't believe that after I almost broke up with him over this topic two years ago, he was still bold to display her on his status for me to see.

Though I am not sure anything is going on between them but I am thinking of ending the whole relationship because I am now convinced my boyfriend is in love with this girl since he was willing to take that risk of uploading her picture on his status when he knew I would see it or was he thinking I have forgotten about the girl?

Logically, I think the disrespect he gave me on this matter is just too much for me to let slide, I want to end the whole relationship but I need the thoughts and suggestions of men and women inhere to conclude if my action is too drastic, I have stopped picking his calls for 1 week now. 💔❤️‍🩹💔

end the relationship now, he's cheating on you.

Fmghewzy:
Talk to you man privately.

Nairaland is not the place to discuss relationship issues.

Unless you are tired of the relationship already,and need a reason to end it.(You would get plenty of terrible advice on Nairaland 😏).

like this one