Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible.

A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day.

The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes.

Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

Hmm...

I'm cumin...

Make I finish my meeting with Bubu and Emebobo...

We are pressing necks..

Tomorrow, we dey go commission Niger Delta creek.

We no get time for any yeye campaign train


Modified:

Abeg, help me tell them make dem disengage this okiri union before children begin enter inside. No be by force to marry or stay married.

He doesn't need any other advice.

She's made it clear it was a mistake on her part to have married him, what else does he wish to know?

What you or your friend had wasn't and isn't marriage but a well-orchestrated and elaborate scam by someone hoping to reap ewa by sowing agbado...

My biggest fear in life is marrying the wrong woman. I pray I never carry the bone that does not belong to me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

YinkaOlusesi16:
My biggest fear in life is marrying the wrong woman. I pray I never carry the bone that does not belong to me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Abeg, make sure to involve your entire clan in this prayer point.

The worst self-inflicted carnage anyone could be trapped in and wish for.

Fkj2021:
Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible.

A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day.

The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes.

Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

The marriage is dead on arrival. The man is a fool for accepting to get married to a woman who sees him as an option. That marriage is as good as null and void. He had better snap out of that fornication he is calling marriage, collect the bride price he was scammed of and heal before jumping into the relationship that will push him to the edge. How come more and more men are getting emasculated and more and more women are becoming stupidly daring in their idiocy.

Mumu Man

Fkj2021:
Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible.

A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day.

The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes.

Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

ITS A SIMPLE CASE.


He needs to relocate. simple.

HE NEEDS TO GET HIMSELF ANOTHER APARTMENT... OR STAY WITH A SINGLE FRIEND.

CHANGE HIS NUMBER/EMAIL

IF SHE KNOWS HIS WORKPLACE, THEN HE MAY NEED TO CHANGE JOB.....

Whatever it takes for him to GHOST for 6 months, to recover his morale, his finances, etc. THEN COME BACK only after she leaves or she is begging.

A man who tolerates disrespect from a woman is weak. She needs to be afraid of disrespecting him...

He should be ready to divorce her.... so this GHOSTING must be close to when his rent will expire.... so she can MOVE OUT then he can come back and pick his things and move to another place she won't know.


LIFE WILL TEACH HER.... He should heal and move on

As you're a third party in this marriage,I have no advice for you. Let your friend come here and seek advice.

But before he does that,he should make sure that those two people that is in the family go back to where they came from. The marriage is still too young to have outsiders. And the economy is not smiling also

Fkj2021:
■ Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible. A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day. The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes. Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.
■ Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning. Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.
■The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband. The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

1. Your friend knows why he allowed his wife to sit back without demanding she contributes her fair share to the family finances so I say you stay out of it.

2. OK?

3. Well, I say the husband and wife need to call in a professional marriage counselor at this point to help them better understand their relationship at this point in time, and possibly renegotiate their contributions to the wellbeing of their family. With no children yet, this is a good time for them to decide whether they are to be partners in the relationship or simply headed in a master-slave type union at this point. As for her suitors, they can both negotiate whether they will allow themselves hold on to such in marriage or get rid of them completely too.

Is he (you) the first man to fvck her?

No!
You're not wise enough to fvck any girl and marry a virgin when you're ready for marriage.


Op go marry girl wey many men don fvck and mount. How him wan take get peace of mind?
Mumu like you.
Op, you never start to dey suffer.
Your suffering go wake your mama from grave. Idiot.

ha ha ha

Fkj2021:
The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

YinkaOlusesi16:
My biggest fear in life is marrying the wrong woman. I pray I never carry the bone that does not belong to me🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Try ur best not to use money and gifts coner woman to marry you.

2. Make sure you run away from materialistic cum selfish woman.

If you can stick to two above advise above, ur problem has solved at least by 75%

Fkj2021:
Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible.

A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day.

The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes.

Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

Nawaoo!
Men are becoming more and more feminine these days.

The so-called wife is requesting for a refund of the 300k she contributed for their wedding, while keeping her option B suitors standby and active! .
What's your friend waiting for before he starts asking for his own refund
That marriage is already over, and it's unfortunate your friend doesn't know yet.

I don’t have any advise for your simp friend, he shall perish till he learn, and I hope other simps would one day learn from this your friends



Marriage no be by force these days, it doesn’t favor men, it has outlived its importance but many of una no go hear, you will call me names and what not, now look at what your friend has found himself in, deep smellly shiiit

I don’t have any advise for your friend, if he’s not ready to kick that werey of a wife from his house and live a happy fulfilled life, if not the wife will soon kick him to death or he kick himself to death(suicide)

Dear husband,

Whatever you do in life, make sure you are richer than your wife.

my 1cent

gaby:
Hmm...

I'm cumin...

Make I finish my meeting with Bubu and Emebobo...

We are pressing necks..

Tomorrow, we dey go commission Niger Delta creek.

We no get time for any yeye campaign train

Make I tag along?
I fit make hot coffee give una,Incase una wan pour coffee for unu face

ahnie:

Make I tag along?
I fit make hot coffee give una,Incase una wan pour coffee for unu face

We get fura da nunu already...

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Why will a man kill himself because of a loose woman? By the way of a whorish woman a man is brought to a peace of bread. Guy that woman has her eyes outside. Your friend is making a big mistake by still keeping that woman.

Fkj2021:
Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible.

A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day.

The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes.

Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

My relationship advice is now worth $250 .....

But because this is a very simp_le case to solve I think I will charge $75

Fkj2021:
Good day everyone. I will make this as short as possible.

A friend of mine got married January 2022 and he has been having issues from his wife every single day.

The wife was working but stopped working August 2022. While she was working, the husband paid for every bill at home, all the lady does was to send money to her family and get herself clothes.

Before I forget, the woman added 300k during the marriage ceremony but this has led. To alot of issues because the woman asks for this money every single day.

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

Marriage comes lots of problems

Both premeditated problems and unexpected problems

The man can not kill himself, let her get another job and take care of her needs

As for the man, let him just ignore her with her attitude till it gets to a point where he can not cope, then he can return her back to her parents so that they will have absolute peace

Things are hard and we have to manage ourselves

If they can't handle themselves well now
When children starts coming, what will they do

Fkj2021:

Back to the story, when the woman stopped her work due to issues that the company had, the husband continued providing for the family including his brother and brother in-law who came to stay with them due to the work they started learning.

Due to the fact that funds were not coming as it should due to the situation of the country, the woman started making comments of the man not been wealthy and this has led to issues of disrespect from the wife.

The man is a jealous type according to him but his wife always have suitors online and offline whom she keeps and always say that incase she break up with the husband.

The husband is a good friend of mine and he asked for my advice. Please what advice do. I give to him?

Point #1:
Marriage is not for children.
It is not something you get into to test-run in real time.
Apparently this wife is holding the man solely responsible for the economic fortunes of the family.
It is not fair, because she is supposed to be helping him to keep the family buoyant.
Blaming him, and then emasculating him for this, is unjust.
A good wife stands by her husband in times of hardship, and not be looking for the next best husband.

Point#2:
Jealousy is never a helpful thing, and often beclouds a man's judgment of situations.
It makes a man insecure, and I am yet to see a woman succeed under a jealous (read insecure) husband.
He should man up.
Funny thing is that being self-confident has little to do with riches.
I know a few poor guys whose wives swear by and never insult or diss them.
IMHO, a man should always be confident of himself. And if you meet a woman who somehow makes you less confident (and there are women like that), then DO NOT MARRY HER.
It seems that this marriage can only be saved by God.
Good luck bro.

I need to speak a little more on the issue of men's confidence , jealousy and insecurity...

What I know, for sure, is that no woman can make great economic or career advancement under a jealous and insecure man.
You see all those women executives of big business, or government agencies? They are people's wives!
And the only way they got to where they are is because their husbands "unleashed" them to go and make exploits.
Without their husbands letting them go, they would NEVER have made any big career advancements.
So, it then boils down to what a man really wants from his wife.
Does he want a woman who is permanently under him financially?
If yes, then he should be ready to bear all financial responsibility of the family.

This man in the OP should first acquire self-confidence, sit his wife down, engage her is SERIOUS family economic planning meeting/discussion.
Find out from her what plans she can suggest for the family.
Not saying that this woman may not be up to something bad by chatting other men online, but she could be making business and career contacts. There are lots of businesses and even careers online these days. The only way for the man to know what is really going on is to first control his jealousy, and then only take appropriate action if he determines that this woman is a fair weather wife who is only interested in already made men.

An aside: When I was young and still dating, I often ran away from ANY woman that made me insecure for whatever reasons.
The most common of such women were the one's who manipulated men into contesting for their love.
I even ran away from the ones who were too attractive or who (like I used to think of the matter) I can "fall hopelessly in love with".
Any woman who you cannot control how much you love, cannot be good for you. Quote me.
This life is highly unpredictable. Therefore falling uncontrollably and hopelessly in love is DANGEROUS.
Some men fall in love that way, and then when the woman starts doing anything the men remotely can't understand or handle, the men start killing people around their wives! They forget that they caused the problem themselves by marrying women above their leagues.

I speak to your friends marriage


Peace be still

A married woman with suitors? Nigeria we hail thee!

Though both couples should love themselves, but I've been pondering on this thought for long, and I believe it's better for a relationship when a woman loves the man more.

Since men carry the burden of a relationship, a woman who loves you very much will make herself light and airtight, so the burden will not crush you.

It's also why it's mostly parents that disown their kids, not kids disowning their parents, because parents carry the responsibility of the kids, and if the kids won't act right, life becomes hard for the parent.

If she loves you, she will understand and be your best friend when tough times comes, adding her own strength to make life bearable for the both of you. She will be a supporter, and not emasculate you, especially using her reckless past as a weapon.

And this is why it is the duty of a woman to choose who he marries, then submit (love and respect) him. Hence I don't understand why some men use money to attract women. And I'm asking, do you hate yourself?

It won't work. It doesn't work. At best, she will settle, not desire you. Most relationship problen can't be traced back to one single fact, and it's that, "you're not her first choice".

Mr man, your marriage is over. Let her go marry the other rich suitors that she have. You can't get her heart again. Don't stress it. Life is simple if you play by the rules. Don't force things. Don't force love. I wish you well.

pansophist:
■Though both couples should love themselves, but I've been pondering on this thought for long, and I believe it's better for a relationship when a woman loves the man more. Since men carry the burden of a relationship, a woman who loves you very much will make herself light and airtight, so the burden will not crush you. If things becomes hard, she will understand and be your best friend, adding her own strength to make life bearable for the both of you. Your presence alone is enough. And this is why it is the duty of a woman to choose who he marries, then submit (respect to, and love) him.
■ Hence I don't understand why some men use money to attract women. And I'm asking, do you hate yourself? It won't work. It doesn't work. At best, she will settle, not desire you. Most relationship problen can't be traced back to one single fact, and it's that, "you're not her first choice".
■ Mr man, your marriage is over. Let her go marry the other rich suitors that she have. You can't get her heart again. Don't stress it. Life is simple if you play by the rules. Don't force things. Don't force love. I wish you well.

1. So, if the story here had been that the man had lost his job and the woman had to bear the responsibilities of carrying the burden of the relationship, would you also have here to spew this same load of bullocks from your mental then? So, never mind that this "love" can vanish into thin air overnight, you actually think what you spewed forth here makes sense?

2. Probably because many of them know they do not have much else to offer. Our father's before us knew this hence the reason why homogamy was fully embraced by them as the way for a man to sit as though a god over women in marriage. And generations later, the same foolishness continues.

3. oh boy!

pansophist:
Though both couples should love themselves, I've been pondering on this thought for long, and I believe it's better for a relationship when a woman loves the man more.

Since men carry the burden of a relationship, a woman who loves you very much will make herself light and airtight, so the burden will not crush you.

Men should love their wives more. It's the oldest and most proven rule of thumb to make your marriage work. And I don't see any burden men carry. Nowadays, that burden you are talking about is a collective effort between both genders, so what exactly is the burden?

You all will always look for excuses to shift away from responsibilities. The little responsibility that was bestowed on you people is still trying to find its way away from the original order. Why?

We all know that women are naturally emotional and will likely show the most affection than men. It's why the Bible commanded men to first LOVE their wives, then submission follows. It's cause and effect. Never in the history of mankind should a woman love a man more. Never.

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