Vorpal:


My guess is, you must have done that in order not to be a target for sociopaths and the 'in-betweens'.

The internet is indeed filled with all sorts.

I may be wrong tho.

Nah, I just changed my mind about publishing some things, nothing to do with that

1bkaye:

Nah, I just changed my mind about publishing some things, nothing to do with that

Why?

Vorpal:


Why?

I honestly can't even remember what I changed and why, can't recall any of them being for any serious reasons though

1bkaye:

I honestly can't even remember what I changed and why, can't recall any of them being for any serious reasons though

Hmmm.....okay.

Enigmatic you.

pocohantas:
She was going to kill herself?
Hahahahahaha...continue fornicating o, una wehdone!

Is this part of your "new creature?" Your dp adds some bit of credence to it too.

Vorpal:


Is this part of your "new creature?" Your dp adds some bit of credence to it too.

LOL
It's part of it. You like?

pocohantas:

LOL
It's part of it. You like?

Whether I do or not,does it matter?

So I take it you are of the belief pre-marital sex is wrong?

1bkaye:

You haven't then? Ok, explains a lot lol. Back to Big Brother

Concerning this topic or something else included?

Enlighten me please, what experiences in the UK had somewhat left me ignorant lest you be found condescending?

Vorpal:


Concerning this topic or something else included?

Enlighten me please, what experiences in the UK had somewhat left me ignorant lest you be found condescending?

This topic, not just the UK, any country with a mix of races and/or a country where you're a minority, you haven't experienced these things personally so it's not as easy for you to relate, anyway not your fault sha

1bkaye:

This topic, not just the UK, any country with a mix of races and/or a country where you're a minority, you haven't experienced these things personally so it's not as easy for you to relate, anyway not your fault sha

If there is any.

But answer this question, which out of these two will go a long way in changing the perception and do alot more good to the black race.

A campaign against racial slurs,i.e nigger, that is just a name you are being called to denigrate you , taunt you or demotivate you.

or

A major awakening for the black race to take charge of their own future, be a major player in the scheme of things,particularly things that concern them.

Even here in nigeria where we are all blacks, there are still minorities that are being called offensive names. Even the three major ethnic groups have something to say to each other.

For me, I see it as the crumbs of racial politics not the crux.

Vorpal:


if there is any.

But answer this question, which out of thesebtwo will go a far way in changing the perception and do alot more good to the black race.

A campaign against racial slurs,i.e nigger, that is just a name you are being called to denigrate you , taunt you or demotivate you.

or

a major awakening for the black race to take charge of their own future, be a major playerbin the scheme of things,particularly things that concern them.

Even here in nigeria where we are all blacks, there are still minorities that called offensive names even the three major ethnic groups have someyhing to say to each other.

for me, i see it as the crumbs of racial politics not the crux.

Lol ok Vorpal. Nevermind

1bkaye:

Lol ok Vorpal. Nevermind

At end, you may end up with a white hubby whose ancestors were slave owners.

1bkaye:
Never

How would you see your partner if he does such to you?

Vorpal:

How would you see your partner if he does such to you?

If it wasn't his fault I wouldn't expect him to apologise

1bkaye:

If it wasn't his fault I wouldn't expect him to apologise

Am not disputing that with you or saying otherwise.

My main question is, how would you see your partner when he apologises for something that isn't his fault?

Assume its a one time thing or he does when he doesn't really want to get into an argument.

Do you find it weak or just being mollifying?

1bkaye:

If it wasn't his fault I wouldn't expect him to apologise

hello dear

Vorpal:


Am not disputing that with you or saying otherwise.

My main question is, how would you see your partner when he apologises for something that isn't his fault?

Assume its a one time thing or he does when he doesn't really want to get into an argument.

Do you find it weak or just being mollifying?

Oh ok, thought you were asking how I would feel if he didn't apologise. Lol context is important so it depends on the situation tbh

Victornezzar:

hello dear

Hello

1bkaye:

Hello

ow u doing

Victornezzar:

ow u doing

Fine thanks

1bkaye:

Oh ok, thought you were asking how I would feel if he didn't apologise. Lol context is important so it depends on the situation tbh

Then I guess the 'never' doesn't quite suit all scenarios. Or am I wrong?

1bkaye:

Fine thanks

ow was ur day

Vorpal:


Then I guess the 'never' doesn't quite suit all scenarios. Or am I wrong?

No matter the scenario, if I'm still not at fault then still never. I brought up context because you asked if I'd find him apologising 'weak' or 'mollifying', it depends what he's apologising for

Victornezzar:

ow was ur day

Not bad thanks

1bkaye:

Not bad thanks

Hmmmm
so what's ur name

1bkaye:

No matter the scenario, if I'm still not at fault then still never. I brought up context because you asked if I'd find him apologising 'weak' or 'mollifying', it depends what he's apologising for

You mean in some circumstances he may seem weak to you? Give me a scenario that would make you look at him so.

You are one tough girl.

Victornezzar:

Hmmmm
so what's ur name

1bkaye

Hello! Anyone?

Vorpal:


You mean in some circumstances he may seem weak to you? Give me a scenario that would make you look at him so.

You are one tough girl.

Lol it's not that I'm tough, hmm not so much weak as maybe an enabler, if I'm wrong or being irrational correct me with logic, don't just apologise to appease me, you get?

1bkaye:

Lol it's not that I'm tough, hmm not so much weak as maybe an enabler, if I'm wrong or being irrational correct me with logic, don't just apologise to appease me, you get?

I get you.

1bkaye:

1bkaye

lol
ur real name jare

Victornezzar:

lol
ur real name jare

Lol don't worry about that one