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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by SPiderman23: 11:34pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
phorget: why come to the romance section if you are tired or dont want to be reading women and men matter? |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 11:37pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Are you in need of a business partner or a wife? What's your business if she's hard-working or is good at business? You had better get your priorities right. You sound very naive and confused. You aren't ready. Ready men don't dabble and aren't confused. Back to the matter. Look at innate qualities and virtues that are non-negotiable. Virtues such as patience, authenticity, care, cleanliness, commitment, fidelity, integrity etc. These should be your guiding light to choosing right. Who also says you can't have it all? I mean, beauty with the other alluring packages? I get tired when people come up with the fallacies of beauty fading and all that mumbo jumbo. Even ugly women can be vile coupled with other attitudinal problems. You should be able to look at your woman when she errs tomorrow and not regret double the dose. It's a sin to be ugly and have a bad attitude. Also miffs me when virginity is used as a hallmark for the definition of a ‘good woman’. I have read the most from you people. After the piece of hymen, what next? By all means, settle with the first lady (Judith). If you will ask me why, I'll say that there's a bond, friendship, compatibility and also attraction from your end which is very sacrosanct. Don't marry who you don't feel ‘jiggy’ for. Disregard this and be doomed. You never mentioned disrespect or other bad vices about her which further cements my reason to pick her. The latter is still playing pretend. My observation about what I read about her. She's good at business, so what? Well, whatever. Suit yourself. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Nobody: 11:41pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins:Pick anyone !!! Women are all the same !!! It's just a matter of time before Dem show you thire UNIFIED CHARACTER
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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by greggng: 11:42pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins: You have already stated that you don't have feelings for the one with.nce ...That one is ruled out cos you can't force yourself to love her. The undergraduate can only be an option if you can wait till.she graduates. But if you can't wait then go find yourself a working class lady that can support your dream ...this is my advice to you |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by zakkxx: 11:45pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Ifoema is ready, avoid any lady that is less than 25 years! Judith don’t know what she want yet because of her age. The prefrontal cortex mature fully at 25 any woman below 25 is disaster! Don’t invite ifoema for weeks to stay with u, once u fornicate with her u will loose your sense of Judgment. Keep your self till your wedding if not what if she get hiv, hpv or stds! Be warn ooo! |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Tribalism123(m): 11:54pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
U never sleep with any of them u de select. Wahala opor. |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by sharone21(f): 11:57pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Men's definition of love is fickle. Both are good choices however, for a man: " Marry the woman YOU LOVE" for tomorrow's sake. Not that tomorrow anything happens and u now look at the other one with disdain.... Marry what pleases your eyes and soul that isn't bad... Marry who you can do ANYTHING for without much promptings. Beside that first girl and you have known for long Pray also for God's wisdom. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Midex88(m): 11:57pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Albertone: 600k is not enough for you. Don't settle for less. Focus on how to be getting billions every month |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by GudPpleG8Nation(m): 11:59pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins: Why would you judge someone from distance? How are you sure the virgin lady isn't pretending? Personal experience: I thought my gf(wife now) wasn't beautiful because we just talked on the phone for years without seeing each other. I don't even know she's a very beautiful lady(her pictures wasn't helping matters) because she wasn't a fashion type due to different businesses she was doing until I invited her and I saw a very beautiful lady, good character, hardworking and God-fearing. So, I will advise invite the other lady in school and when she comes around pretend you are a bit broke, give her little money to cook, take her to your shop and see things for yourself. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by PetieT(m): 12:03am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Wow, it's amazing how many people help solve this issue |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Fairview1(f): 12:05am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Go for Ifeoma. People with that name are known to make good wives. Judith? Majority of those ladies are usually into themselves and hardly keep secrets...Lol. Modified: Trust me, I read only the first paragraph of your post when I made my first comment. And going back to read the body of the entire message confirmed and validated my point. See, my brother....You have a wife in IFEOMA. Expert survey shows that Nsuka babes makes the best of wives with the least divorce rate after Ebonyi Girls. You served somebody and now you are a man of your own...that shows you have some level of self discipline. You need a lady who can compliment you, keep your house and help you grow your business. If you were not a businessman and was to be professional white collar job holder, I would have advised you keep to Judith so as to compliment your lifestyle. What you need is a lady who can keep your home, raise healthy, strong and intelligent kids for you, to carry on your legacy even when you will grow old and weak and gone. Don't settle for anyone who spends more time on themselves to look good for others than they do on their career to look good for you. However, have you prayed about it? Have you discussed it with your pastor friends to seek their counsels? Allow God to lead you. Read Proverb 31 twice and watch to see those ladies in the picture per time. Whoever among the two ladies meets majority of the characters Lemuel's mother advised his son in the book, you should waste no time to pick her. Whoes is more respeftful? Don't forget, what you need is respect and not love. Feelings will come and go. As for having emotional attachément and all of that, pls ingnore that part. Emotional feelings doesn't last beyond 2 years in marriage. What matters is your committment, which will inspire respect in your partner. Britishcoins: |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Bryanobi: 12:09am On Feb 21, 2023 |
God don do am 4u Britishcoins: |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by fimzzy1991: 12:13am On Feb 21, 2023 |
The choice of who to marry is not a physical decision because God Himself instituted marriage. He said it is not good that a man be alone. Anyone can pretend to be what you want and reveal true color later. The best bet is to ask your creator to direct you and trust Him. If you bought a device you are unable to handle yourself them you can check its manual. So is the issue related to our life. Ask the creator of life, He will guide you. Pray and believe in Him |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by abobote: 12:15am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Britishcoins:Then why are you here, go ahead and marry the nsukka since you are not interested in the beauty of the other one |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by joyousever(f): 12:25am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Mr. Man, stop beating about the bush! You're attracted to beauty and you've already made your choice in Judith, the most beautiful one according to your description! So why are you disturbing us with questions? Britishcoins: |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by fimzzy1991: 12:29am On Feb 21, 2023 |
The choice of who to marry is not a physical decision because God Himself instituted marriage. He said it is not good that a man be alone. Anyone can pretend to be what you want and reveal true color later. The best bet is to ask your creator to direct you and trust Him. If you bought a device you are unable to handle yourself them you can check its manual. So is the issue related to our life. Ask the creator of life, He will guide you. Pray and believe in Him, that is of you have accepted Jesus in your heart. Virginity or wducat8does not guarantee a successful marriage |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by lekanlizzy(m): 12:33am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Don't marry out of pity, marry someone you love and will be ready to tolerate. .. Bross you can follow your heart as well, |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Mrscarter(f): 12:33am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Britishcoins: If this here what u wrote is what u want then u already have ur answer. Ifeoma. Spend time n get to know her a little first tho. Na marraige serious commitment |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by AmeLonRo(m): 12:35am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Cool down like a real man and make your decision. You are the man. You are the one who will be inside the marriage. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D6hE0ueMAz0 |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Georgejeez: 12:36am On Feb 21, 2023 |
If you can't choose between them , then marry both . But if you must make a choice , marry the one with the biggest yansh , e get why . However 🤠, na that business when fit de fetch you 600k monthly nai be the main thing for me |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Medley02(m): 12:37am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Britishcoins: Bro, for your peace of mind now and in the future, go for the Nsukka girl and you will not regret it. What you need is an asset and not a liability and it is the only Nsukka girl that can give you that. She has the potential of even helping you in your business to birth new branch in no time. Don't focus on the fine face, focus on what you can achieve when two good and hard working heads are together. I wish you all the best. |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by AdaAwka1: 12:44am On Feb 21, 2023 |
SeeItSayIt: Abi oo lol i tire for the man |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by AdaAwka1: 12:48am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Britishcoins: For your mind 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by FreeIgboho: 1:01am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Britishcoins: Too much work. He means EASY AND QUICK way to do it! |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by frozen70(f): 1:09am On Feb 21, 2023 |
GorillaApp: Chai You will get credit as a premarriage counselor You helped me to adviced him more in areas I couldn't mention Thumbs up for you 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Raydave: 1:18am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Buying and selling goods Which kind of goods are you practicing if I may ask please |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by cooooooks(m): 1:36am On Feb 21, 2023 |
For the next 3 months, go out with each of them. Spend real time. Since one is a virgin, avoid sex with either of them to keep things fair. Spend time in a family format, going out, without (much) money factor. MEET their friends. Spend time gisting with them, the family, siblings, friends, in a RELAXED setting. Good luck. 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by kevinugwu(m): 1:40am On Feb 21, 2023 |
My opinion: 1. I think you should use the word "Like" for now on any of the ladies while you put the 'Love' on one side first. 2. After then, ask yourself what other qualities which they individually have that are attracted to you. 3. Who do you think will give you support. Every man needs support no matter how rich you are. If you are ready, pls do this immediately and take decision. Who can support your dreams? 4. Pls be careful with beauty. You can be lucky like me who got a beautiful woman with excellent character. However, the beauty will some days fade off leaving only the character. So, pls allocate more mark for character. How is their character? 5. Don't be confused. After looking critically to those points, I am sure you would make the best decision. Go for your heart. Remember you have to be a nice guy. Marriage is not child's play. 6. I so much love marriage because it's a place for Christ. "FORGIVENESS" PATIENT, AND TOLERANCE. All the best |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by DMCY: 1:59am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Albertone: If he tell you make I bend |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by HumbleNdMoist: 2:04am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Britishcoins:You sound like someone who has a lot to learn about life and women. May God save you in Nigeria and from the hands of Nigerian women. |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Raydave: 2:10am On Feb 21, 2023 |
buscojnr: |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by tompat86(m): 2:15am On Feb 21, 2023 |
Marry the one with big breast and Nyash(ukwu) Cant comman kee mysef |
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