It is important to recognize that there are certain things that are not meant to be ours by divine decree. If it is not written in our Qodar, nothing can change it except for prayer if it is in line with our Qodar. Allah, in His infinite wisdom, has a reason why He may not grant our requests. It could be that He has a better plan for us, or perhaps it may not be beneficial for us in this world and the hereafter.

Conversely, if something is meant to be ours, we will obtain it regardless of our efforts or any attempts to prevent us from having it.

Understanding these two principles can relieve us of unnecessary stress and anxiety. We will not rush or resort to immoral means to obtain what we desire. However, as humans, we can be impatient.

May Allah grant us patience and ease in all of our affairs.