inoki247:
Lol Wahala...

So you sef wan marry for Self Contain....


You wan marry inside Studio apartments if kids show how do you plan to arrange things....

I married inside selfcon here in Abuja. From there I moved to my beautiful house.

frankson1:



If I can't even marry into a one bedroom apartment, how many heads those the guy who wants to marry my sister into a self-con have?

Instead, if he really wants to marry her, he should plan with her and see how he can upgrade himself.

No reasonable man (who loves and care for his blood) would allow his own sister to go into trenches.

If he really wants to marry her, just like you said, he should upgrade himself.

If you like no move on like Eluuupes

Go and rent a duplex my friend!

She's just thinking about tomorrow, nothing bad, you guys should put head together and make it work,

everything must not be taken in a negative way, she knows you can do better, afterall she didn't mention that she does not love you any more..nah question she answer

For people saying the guy should dump her and move on, what gives you the impression that the girl cannot meet a better, more comfortable guy?

Una just hear one side they judge.

Communication is lacking in you guys relationship.

meum:
The question should have been will you marry me? Simple. Why did you add self con to the question? You gave her options and she made her choice.

Now ask her to borrow you money to rent her dream apartment.

You said it all!!

Bro!She's not your wife as long as she can't hustle with you from bottom to top please dont be decieved its not about doubling ur hustle but about she accepting you the way u are and also encouraging and helping you to achieve ur future goals. Staying in a one room or self-contain apartment isn't an issue for any lady who truly loves and cherish u. The truth remains that alot of Nigerians see Crypto and Forex or should i say any online stuff as side hustles not knowing that online jobs pays well compared to our physical onsite jobs here in Nigeria cox it comes in foreign currencies and only when you have good knowledge about them or have a good mentor then ull understand that crypto and forex pays massively anyways only few people have the idea of what am talking about. So please just make ur stand [color=#006600][/color]clear to her and move on with ur life definitely someone better is around the corner waiting to accept and appreciate ur self-contain apartment

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

You are a struggling brother, she don't want to bet that risk.
Your future is not yet clear to her!
1) If you are a successful trader in Forex n crypto you can afford any rent even to buy house of your own.
2) Is like your trading is eating more of your work income.
Double your hustle.
God will see you through!

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

She's materialistic

Then look for someone who can marry you as you are or wait till you get a bigger apartment before marrying your heartthrob.

Nawa o

This is hypergamy in display.
Discharge the young lady.

Studio apartment not bad. I have seen husband wife and children inside one room face me l face you.
Studio apartment not bad.if thats all you can afford. Even if ur profession is hawking gala. There is wife out there for you who doesnt mind.(purewater seller maybe😜).
Studio apartment not bad. But You are gambler.

All these people with low Brian syndrome go ask all this newly marry men.na their.women dey feed Dem dey pay their children school fess a lady of 25 years won't.reject any one that came to marry her

Run fast as you can...guy she no like you move on...them go bring flimsy excuse me

But she dey come muke inside the sefcon

ppogba:
For people saying the guy should dump her and move on, what gives you the impression that the girl cannot meet a better, more comfortable guy?

Una just hear one side they judge.

No one is praying bad for her since she needs a better man and its that easy to find then let her kuku carry her problem and go to avoid putting OP into huge financial debt since she can't cope with his current situation. Its not by force to stay with someone who lives in a self-contain apartment since she can't help grow OP's current state then what's the point of wasting time with her since she has made her stands to him already. Somebody's son will not come and die cox he wants to impress a lady who is not willing to help him do better in life . We pray she finds a better man for herself nothing more nothing less let peace reign

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

enjoy the blast till you meet your wife

Then park into a 4bedroom duplex or allow her go look for her size.
Nonsense.
But mark my words,if u work harder to elevate your status, she will crawl back into ur space someday.

Cut your clothe according to the material available, don't full yourself for any Nigerian girl for any nonsense love and nowadays social media marriage. use your head.

viyon02:
And when you eventually marry her, she will tell you she wouldn't like to see your siblings or parents visiting right?. You must be a fool if you yield to her feeling.

A big fool he is for wanting to marry that kind of girl.. Ask am where d girl dey live now,you go see say na I face you,you slap me.. But she dey come give one mumu target unto say he wan comot her for shame.. Smh for op.. You never mature to marry sef,aside the money factor..

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

Probably because you don't have a stable work yet , trading on crypto or forex is actually no work but more like a gamble try and luck so try and get something meaningful to do , I didn't say you should stop crypto or forex trading just have a physical work or business

My brother, she is not your wife. Run o

scholarshipbaze:
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate.

So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room.

She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad?

Oga e de hard oh but best advice na to run oh .. this kind of girl no ready to hustle with u wen e red… na sign them de give u so.. apply wisdom

Someone is helping you think about your future, and you are angry.

After you put yourselves into a life of poverty plus your kids all in the name of proving that she loves you, you'll start blaming her for making your life hard.

When you start struggling to feed mama and pikin in one sweaty self con, you will turn on her and start blaming her.

Meanwhile it is you that refused to hear that y'all should move out of self con and you should achieve more before marrying.

scholarshipbaze:



Lol, m worth over 30m in cash and assets, still skeptical about staying in the country or leaving thats why am still in a selfcon... She doesn't know

But i wana marry befor either leaving or settling, and am wondering if you can't now, where is the love??

u dey lie.. guy

Mindlog:
Fact is the that, getting married now shouldn't be your focus.

Imagine getting married where you presently are, she gets pregnant and start having children.... Nigeria already has over 133 million people living in poverty, 99.5% of Nigerians who have bank account, have less than N500k in it.

Nigerians are fond of "nobody knows tomorrow" in regards to such situations, giving examples of people who married while financially struggling and later became financially comfortable, the question is....are they even up to 5% that make it out of that bracket? What happens to the remaining 95% and more, still in the trenches as they continue to have children and regenerating poverty?

Thank you sir. I think they need to ban marriage in Nigeria for now, especially for poor people. Bringing innocent kids to this world to suffer is not good na. Look at what Nigeria has turned to today and someone is there giving birth to 5 - 8 kids without any means to feed them.


Nigerians make una get sense ooooooooooo