I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

Face your "Masters" or better still, make her your thesis.

gaby:
Face your "Masters" or better still, make her your thesis.

Hi 👋

Bro no dey put girl for mind like that asfar u know say u fi get any girl u want,they be liabilities peace out

Lol, pack out, or na jealous she go use kill you,

gaby:
Face your "Masters" or better still, make her your thesis.

Thanks sir I knew to focus on myself is the right thing to do now, it would have been so easy for me had i not stay in the same house with her but I will see how it goes...

I only wanted to know if it would be wise of me to stay in that house or rent another despite the fact that she might want to play some games to destabilize my emotions... Just that I have stayed long in that house still can't I will be leaving cos of girl damn..

Affiliateseun05:
Bro no dey put girl for mind like that asfar u know say u fi get any girl u want,they be liabilities peace out

That was the mistake I made my brother...

she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

I can choose to ignore everything but uncle please stop accusing the girl of this. There was no manipulation. It was just you seeing an opportunity to screw!

Masters in being amateur!

#

Tales of langerhans.

haekymbahd:
Thanks sir I knew to focus on myself is the right thing to do now, it would have been so easy for me had i not stay in the same house with her but I will see how it goes...

I only wanted to know if it would be wise of me to stay in that house or rent another despite the fact that she might want to play some games to destabilize my emotions... Just that I have stayed long in that house still can't I will be leaving cos of girl damn..

Have options when it comes to relationships. I know there are some people out there that are so special you can stay committed to. She has plenty of options and she's messing with you head. Go outband meet more people. It'll help deviate your attention from her

chatinent:

I can choose to ignore everything but uncle please stop accusing the girl of this. There was no manipulation. It was just you seeing an opportunity to screw!

Masters in being amateur!

she played the love game and I fell for it... Maybe if she hadn't played the love game I wouldn't have thought about fallen inlove. Well I wouldn't have ask her out if she didn't get too close to me because at the time I wasn't even in any relationship I avoid girls. I always had the mentality that if I am not financially stable I won't enter a relationship.

She getting too close to me got me and I couldn't handle it she wanted me to profess love for her which she got. It wasn't love at first sight she knew it I grew into it .

haekymbahd:
I need your advice guyz. I am a master students who never wanted to fall in love because I believe I have to look after myself/make money before going after ladies. In recent time things are beginning to change for me the money is gradually flowing in and I am living comfortable already.

A fresh student (lady) came to rent one of the vacant apartment which I stay in she didn't come from a wealthy home. In the blink of an eye we got together started doing things together like me giving her money to cook for us, she sleeps in my room then romance set in she starts manipulating me to love her I never knew it was all a game.

To be honest I knew about the red pill but I have never had a situation where I will make use of it. I fell for her I didn't even know how it happened I think when you spend a lot of time with someone and you get intimate love is bound to happen. I just fell inlove with my neighbor who happened to be a fresher. We started talking about relationships goals.

For like a month she acted nice and showed me love for me we were dating everyone around knew about it. She sleeps in my room every night.

When other returning students came because the were on holiday I realize there was a particular guy who happen to be a close friend of mine who also stays in that same house she flirts with and this affects me emotionally like while will she flirts with another guy in the same house I told her to stop that and she agreed.

There was recently a festive break in school and she went home for like 2 weeks she calls me everyday. I am someone who hardly call people even my parent when I realized she calls me 3times a day I returned the gesture by calling her too everyday I started falling I love with this girl.

To my surprise she came back from festive break and she stopped me from touching, hugging she didn't even sleep in my room again. I thought it was all because she felt she was loose when she first came or maybe she felt I am playing her but i didnt let that stop me from doing what I normally do for her like giving her money to cook for us and me trying to impress her that I love her and not there to play games, take her out to have fun. She was trying to turn me to a simp.

This girl didn't stop flirting with that friend of mine despite my warnings and she calls other guyz on phone in my presence even though she doesn't bring any home I ask who they are she claims they are just friends I felt like I was the one over reacting so I decided to calm down a bit and free her to see what she really had in mind.

Due to the fact that I have about the red pill already so I understood the games and how to play it with her. I knew i was to leave her at that point but we stay in the same house I will be seeing her everyday how possible can I use this knowledge of redpill moreover I am already inlove and I don't think I will be able to stand her bring another guy to that house I think she is trying to manipulate and control me which I don't want.


I only ask you guyz to advice is it possible for me to just leave this girl and focus on other things but we stay in the same house I feel she make me jealous by manipulating me and flirts with guys I could do the same too but I don't think I have the heart and to watch her do that to me.

The only option I have right now is to pack out of that house to avoid seeing her for good and focus on other things. The problem is I love that house and I have been there for a long time I can't believe a girl will make leave that house.

I want to ask you guyz is there a way I can stay in that house and ignore her but I don't wish to leave despite the fact that she will want to make me feel jealous by flirting with other guys I think she has gotten the upperhand over me right now cos I have fallen inlove already.

I feel like I am okay financially and I can get any girl of my choice but I don't think I can stand her bring another guy to that house she stays opposite of my room.

Never date a girl living close to you .

Stupid goat.

This is what you get for trying to be an alpha male wanna be. Find your fellow stupid redpillers and send them a dm and ask them what to do. Otondo, about to pack out of a house because of one small girl. Werey earthworm think say be be snake.

DriverX:
Stupid goat.

This is what you get for trying to be an alpha male wanna be. Find your fellow stupid redpillers and send them a dm and ask them what to do. Otondo, about to pack out of a house because of one small girl. Werey earthworm think say be be snake.

so what should I have done as an anti redpillers let me learn.. I reciprocated the love she showed not knowing it was a game... I am trying to find the courage to stay and repel everything she will likely throw at me she is a game player. It would have been easy for me if I had also been a flirt myself but I wasn't even in any relationship then..

haekymbahd:
she played the love game and I fell for it... Maybe if she hadn't played the love game I wouldn't have thought about fallen inlove. Well I wouldn't have ask her out if she didn't get too close to me because at the time I wasn't even in any relationship I avoid girls. I always had the mentality that if I am not financially stable I won't enter a relationship.

She getting too close to me got me and I couldn't handle it she wanted me to profess love for her which she got. It wasn't love at first sight she knew it I grew into it .

Love with your prick, not with your heart!

Omo I dey always pity guys like this, make unna dey roll with tap friends from when u are young unna no go gree, na like this dem dey carry bastard give unna, she should be the one in the situation you are in right now but no your mumu sef don Bleep am up… you go carry mind ni jhur, start conversing with other girls more, not necessarily your hostel mates girls from outside wey make sense pass her and her cooking for you should also stop, then you will see difference in you, see it’s simple just find a girl u know surpass her in every standards u will see u will forget her asap but make sure this girl u find is into u sha

Iamicekid:
Omo I dey always pity guys like this, make unna dey roll with tap friends from when u are young unna no go gree, na like this dem dey carry bastard give unna, she should be the one in the situation you are in right now but no your mumu sef don Bleep am up… you go carry mind ni jhur, start conversing with other girls more, not necessarily your hostel mates girls from outside wey make sense pass her and her cooking for you should also stop, then you will see difference in you, see it’s simple just find a girl u know surpass her in every standards u will see u will forget her asap but make sure this girl u find is into u sha

Thanks bro I'm sure you are God sent we learn everyday..

..good one... engage yourself with other things..if u have other female friends that might wanna come over for a weekend party, invite em ... make yourself happy

Iamicekid:
Omo I dey always pity guys like this, make unna dey roll with tap friends from when u are young unna no go gree, na like this dem dey carry bastard give unna, she should be the one in the situation you are in right now but no your mumu sef don Bleep am up… you go carry mind ni jhur, start conversing with other girls more, not necessarily your hostel mates girls from outside wey make sense pass her and her cooking for you should also stop, then you will see difference in you, see it’s simple just find a girl u know surpass her in every standards u will see u will forget her asap but make sure this girl u find is into u sha

rex444:
..good one... engage yourself with other things..if u have other female friends that might wanna come over for a weekend party, invite em ... make yourself happy

thanks for the advice bro...

Don't ignore her totally. Just cut her off, don't give her money r take her out again. Start bringing other female friends home. Most importantly concentrate on your masters.

Berrityga:
Don't ignore her totally. Just cut her off, don't give her money r take her out again. Start bringing other female friends home. Most importantly concentrate on your masters.

I really appreciate that I had the courage to type all this. the advice I have gotten here is golden thanks

I'm done with the masters I only have to defend my thesis now.. so I have time for all this

Op you no get problem for this life, see watin full your head.
I know say your mama still day send you pocket money.
Master werey

beejay501:
Op you no get problem for this life, see watin full your head.
I know say your mama still day send you pocket money.
Master werey

No be so my brother... Everyone has there own time. I feel like I am just getting into my time financially and normally once a guy starts making money he thinks of finding a life partner I think I am at that stage right now coupled with the fact that I will be finishing the master in like 2 months time what more am I waiting for. It just that I ended up in the wrong hand...

gaby:
Face your "Masters" or better still, make her your thesis.

Imaginary masters I guess.

He doesn't sound like someone who even has a degree.

I have been in this scenario before and I can tell you it is very hard to let go cos you will likely see each other everyday, just ghost her, ignore her, don't talk to her, act like she doesn't exist, don't greet her, keep malice with her. Women don't like if they are ignored or rejected. Do all these and see the magic

Be the one to ignore her by pretending she don't exists or avoid contacts with her. Keep your peace and unnecessary drama pls. This people are very manipulative she must be knacking someone before you met her and you being with her doesn't change anything. Just avoid her am sure you use your gifts to service her boyfriend... Fleeee

Continue “falling in love” with a Nigerian girl until you fall inside your grave.

Those girls are HEARTLESS.

They are incapable of loving.

Most came from a dysfunctional family where love is alien there.

Btw, are you an igbo or Yorùbá man?

With all the warning from the redpill community you no gree Hear words

I am sure you are among the stupiîd boys that call other guys fôolish boys for preaching the redpill

One of the rules of dating is never shiit where you eat, you are not supposed to have anything serious with a anyone in the same compound as you, it doesn’t work well most of the times, it’s choking

Now you are seeing her flirting with other guys in the same compound and you Dey strong nyash, who are you to tell her not to flirt with guys, because you are giving her money abi, so you know if the other guy gave her more money and even ask her to cut you off


Slawomirrr don talk am, women be like swimming pool, swim your own and comot, who swim after you or who is swimming right there with you no concern you, you go Dey love and commit to naija babe, wey be student for that matter wey still Dey same compound as you??


You are. Mumu man, I didn’t bother to finish I the write up the moment I saw she’s trying to turn me to a simp, you are one already bro😂😭

The beat bet for you now is to start ignoring her, she wasn’t yours it was just your turn to hit the cookie, the jar lid may be shut off from you now

start being different girls to your apartment, or have at least two options always ready to sleep over at your place over the weekend, don’t even ask her or beg her, act like nothing happened, you have a life to live don’t let one kolo girl distract you

Serves you right. Vulnerable thing

Mumu simp!


I swear, to dump woman that you stay in same house with, is easier and so sweet.

U go just demoralize the woman to the last!

I still don't get what
Red pills means. Can someone tell me please