bjtinz:


@bolded, then she has no business being a wife. 🥺

IyaebeTheGreat:
I never supported a woman to deny her husband her body but if it happens then he should resolve issues and not start having sexual thoughts towards a housegirl that is answereth to him, a girl he should care for and protect. It’s such a big shame, how do men who indulge in such feel afterwards ? Of all girls in the world it’s her housegirl that is entering his eyes(very disrespectful). I can and will never forgive such.

kiddkash:

I do agree with you a bit on what you said, about the issue needing for it to be resolved however, some women weaponize it, in order to hit their spouse where it probably hurts the most. Which is unfair
You refuse someone having their conjugal rights yet, when the person decides to gain carnal knowledge of someone else, they accuse the person of infidelity. You can't have it both ways.

kiddkash:

I do agree with you a bit on what you said, about the issue needing for it to be resolved however, some women weaponize it, in order to hit their spouse where it probably hurts the most. Which is unfair
You refuse someone having their conjugal rights yet, when the person decides to gain carnal knowledge of someone else, they accuse the person of infidelity. You can't have it both ways.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Only a very foolish, dirty and a lowlife man will shamelessly lay with a househelp. A woman should not deny her husband her body except for reasons beyond her which a sane man will understand and wait till she’s fully ok and ready. Is it possible for a prostitute to satisfy 10 men in a day? I don’t think it’s possible.

4ward4:
We have heard this lines ,over and over again. But when the man takes the step and send them packing, they end up reading the book of lamentation with lesson well learnt. Nothing dey street.

kiddkash:

I do agree with you a bit on what you said, about the issue needing for it to be resolved however, some women weaponize it, in order to hit their spouse where it probably hurts the most. Which is unfair
You refuse someone having their conjugal rights yet, when the person decides to gain carnal knowledge of someone else, they accuse the person of infidelity. You can't have it both ways.

IyaebeTheGreat:
You don’t have any justification for such. Your housegirl is answereth to you and you are a father figure who is supposed to care and protect her and not SLEEP with her. Stop justifying immortality

sisisioge:
Ok o.....if other men can give their wives millions to run the home,what is your excuse to be broke as a husband? Do these men have two heads?

ycat:
Two different things.

Ashawo is not emotionally involved and the man can't raw-dog jamal. So it's just a dry sex. Do Ashewo kiss? How do men enjoy sex without kissing?

4ward4:


We have heard this lines ,over and over again. But when the man takes the step and send them packing, they end up reading the book of lamentation with lesson well learnt. Nothing dey street.

OlawaleBammie:
see this one?? U also not having any justification to tell me how to live my life, who I sleep with or not, so far they are not minors and married women.


U as a person, if I marry u and I put u in my house, but u re misbehaving like a Toyota Corolla with bad alignment, and there is a cultured housegirl who is old enough to be a wife...well, if u re not trying to adjust I will replace u with her, a go even do valedictory service for you the day u want to pack out.
U come Ur life I come my life, but u wan use stress kill me...madanwo!!!


See,. a go just replace u before another man hijack the good house girl from me. Dey play

Kobojunkie:
Interesting! So it is better to cheat on women, instead of divorcing them and maybe keeping any modicum of dignity you may have left of you at that?

Saintmary:



Mr man, we are not on the same wavelength, face your level, I face mine.

sisisioge:


She tell you say her husband dey disturb her about pussee? Abi who born man wey wan turn woman of substance to ashewo o

4ward4:


Definitely we can never be.

armyofone:
So not have sex hurts ? Painful?

Kobojunkie:
Why not divorce the person so the fault remains theirs that for you to come back with the atrocious 2-wrongs-make-a-right foolishness?

Saintmary:
These men actually think they are special.


If you prefer your house help, no one is stopping you naw, only a jobless woman will be afraid of leaving a bad marriage.


Once you commit adultery, the marriage is already contaminated and should be dissolved.

kiddkash:

You don't know women. They will use sex is not food to keep you docile. They will even bring people to shame you for wanting to have carnal knowledge of your wife.

They will say you want to divorce because of ordinary sex

IyaebeTheGreat:
Housegirl was mentioned in this and it was what caught my attention. Imagine your husband sleeping with your housegirl just because he feels sexually starved. I swear I will never forgive such no matter the apology and I won’t even direct my anger towards the vulnerable girl. He go kom small for my eyes ehn and I will eventually leave him

IamANigerianMan:
I have never seen a useless generation like this generation , aside from TOTO this generation has nothing to offer, this generation allow old men like Tinubu, Judge Akume, Wike, Silva, Oshomele to rig election and nothing happened, the next TOPIC is SEX, Satisfy your man , Nonsense useless worthless generation.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Housegirl was mentioned in this and it was what caught my attention. Imagine your husband sleeping with your housegirl just because he feels sexually starved. I swear I will never forgive such no matter the apology and I won’t even direct my anger towards the vulnerable girl. He go kom small for my eyes ehn and I will eventually leave him

Isabi4lov:
Obviously it's only a jobless woman that will be afraid of leaving a bad marriage.

As for me cheating is a deal breaker for me .

Saintmary:



They don't know.



Some women can't tolerate cheating and adultery, our feelings are valid.


No one should judge us for that.

Saintmary:
They don't know. Some women can't tolerate cheating and adultery, our feelings are valid. No one should judge us for that.

Isabi4lov:
So are you telling me that married men don't cheat or what ? As for the prostitutes, how many of them are staying with their husbands, even the ones that have children, they give the children out or give them to their parents.

For the sex part , the prostitutes are already used to it , it's their daily hustle .

Is it not better for people should go for their type .

Albertone:
How many men have you married that cheated on you?
Many married women are just prostitutes with class. That is, they no longer stand by road side. But they are willing to give any big boy in Benz their numbers.

If prostitutes can be used to sex, why can't married women be used to it too?

Albertone:


How many men have you married that cheated on you?
Many married women are just prostitutes with class. That is, they no longer stand by road side. But they are willing to give any big boy in Benz their numbers.

If prostitutes can be used to sex, why can't married women be used to it too?

Kobojunkie:
What you just asked makes no sense at all.

There are also male prostitutes out there who are used to sex. So can it also then be argued that all men should be used to sex since there are male prostitutes who are?

Also, are married men also just male prostitutes with class?

P.s. If you want a woman that is used to sex in much the same way as a prostitute is, then marry a woman that has had lots and lots of practice before you met her so those sexual muscles go don develop well well before you tie her down to just you. It makes no sense at all for a man who has ashawo libido to then settle for a woman with low body count or mileage ---- no sense whatsoever.