fortyishcouga:
Men, what do you mean exactly when you say respect is what you need from your spouses. Seems to me like men and women have different understanding of this word.

Kobojunkie:
"Respect me because I have an outie(a dick) while you have an innie(a vagina)"? Isn't that pretty much what it boils down to?

fortyishcouga:
But respect you in what way?

Kobojunkie:
Honor and obey me, Admire me... that sort of thing. Hold me in high esteem, more than you would any other individuals in your life as a result of my status as outie wielder over you. Caress my ego because it is of greater importance than yours as a result of the position I occupy as the outie wielder over your existence.

fortyishcouga:
Lol, the sarcasm though...

fortyishcouga:
Men, what do you mean exactly when you say respect is what you need from your spouses. Seems to me like men and women have different understanding of this word.

frozen70:


Loyalty and recognition that's what they mean by respect, they value is more

Though am not speaking for the men

Richy4:
it is really simple...I will break it down for u..When addressing your man..

<<<Be polite, avoid interrupting or causing disturbances/ having a tendency to "display street" especially if he is a gentleman. It is a turnoff..

<<<Listen to him first and respect differences in beliefs and opinions...a lot of ladies have "I know better mentality "..

<<<Think before you speak, your language and tone... There are words that sorry can not erase easily.. just be careful..You can't talk rudely and expects it to slide especially when he said he doesn't want your food for example..

<<<Lend a helping hand or ear and practice compassion.. (Just speaking only in African context).. you are not marrying your man alone.. he has family where he came from...If he asked, please I want to help ABC, be compassionate, if there's a reason to help please do so. And don't take it to your gossip group... it's that simple..

<<Men are the most less complicated been God almighty in his infinite mercies created 🤸🏋️🧔👦

Richy4:
it is really simple...I will break it down for u..When addressing your man..

<<<Be polite, avoid interrupting or causing disturbances/ having a tendency to "display street" especially if he is a gentleman. It is a turnoff..

<<<Listen to him first and respect differences in beliefs and opinions...a lot of ladies have "I know better mentality "..

<<<Think before you speak, your language and tone... There are words that sorry can not erase easily.. just be careful..You can't talk rudely and expects it to slide especially when he said he doesn't want your food for example..

<<<Lend a helping hand or ear and practice compassion.. (Just speaking only in African context).. you are not marrying your man alone.. he has family where he came from...If he asked, please I want to help ABC, be compassionate, if there's a reason to help please do so. And don't take it to your gossip group... it's that simple..

cococandy:
This goes both ways. Basic decency

fortyishcouga:
Men, what do you mean exactly when you say respect is what you need from your spouses. Seems to me like men and women have different understanding of this word.

Kobojunkie:
Didn't you read through the list? It only applies to outtie wielders. If you have an innie you are way to complicated to deserve the exact same level of respect.

Kobojunkie:
Didn't you read through the list? It only applies to outtie wielders. If you have an innie you are way to complicated to deserve the exact same level of respect.

fortyishcouga:
Men, what do you mean exactly when you say respect is what you need from your spouses. Seems to me like men and women have different understanding of this word.